I need advice SENIORS

Hi guys newbie here (first year student) and I recently started learning web development and I learnt html, css and javascript ( basically learnt frontend now) and built a basic to do list and then built a student card dashboard where I take input and then display card after adding the info

I know they are all basic and stuff but yeah that's what I have done till now

Then I think I'll be learning MERN stack and then will be going to build full stack projects

So my doubt is am I doing the correct thing or am I in a good place as a first year student

And since I'm learning for the first time if you guys have any advice itd be very nice if you dropped'em here

And do you think the tech stack I'm learning is good and worth it in 2026??

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u/YashuT-T — 10 days ago

Am I in a good place

Hi guys newbie here (first year student) and I recently started learning web development and I learnt html, css and javascript ( basically learnt frontend now) and built a basic to do list and then built a student card dashboard where I take input and then display card after adding the info

I know they are all basic and stuff but yeah that's what I have done till now

Then I think I'll be learning MERN stack and then will be going to build full stack projects

So my doubt is am I doing the correct thing or am I in a good place as a first year student

And since I'm learning for the first time if you guys have any advice itd be very nice if you dropped'em here And do you think the tech stack I'm learning is good and worth it in 2026??

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u/YashuT-T — 10 days ago

What do I do and how do I change this...??

I'm a 20M, and here's my situation.

The problem with my dating life isn't that I don't interact with women. In fact, I have more female friends than male friends.

The issue is that I always seem to get friend-zoned

For example, I liked one girl for about three years. I finally told her how I felt recently, but she rejected me. We're still good friends, though—we support each other, and there are no hard feelings or expectations.

So my question is: How do I stop getting friend-zoned?

I know I'm not particularly good-looking, but I genuinely believe I have a good personality. I'm a good listener, kind, helpful, and I'm always trying to learn new things. I also believe I have a bright future because I've worked hard to grow despite coming from a toxic home environment.

Even my friends describe me as kind and caring. But when it comes to dating, I never seem to have anyone I can ask out or who sees me romantically.

I've also never dated anyone before, so I have zero experience. I'm naturally introverted, prefer quiet environments, and spend a lot of time introspecting and working on improving myself.

So... what do I need to change?

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u/YashuT-T — 17 days ago
▲ 0 r/PESU

When do I get student email from college??

Okay so I have successfully joined pesu rr campus for cse aiml ( yup it's a flex...😸) I wanted to know when they will provide us the student email so that I can avail some good offers from unidays...

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u/YashuT-T — 25 days ago
▲ 1 r/kcet

Can we go on Sunday??

Okay so I have downloaded the confirmation slip from kea after paying the fees and I wanna know if I can on Sunday for admission cause kea has given time only till 22nd July....

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/PESU

Do you guys a actually know when pesu is starting??

If you know when pesu rr campus might start even a tentative date will be more than enough for me

I just downloaded the confirmation slip and I'll be joining pesu cse ai ml

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago
▲ 0 r/ptsd

I feel like unaliving myself

I feel like unaliving myself

So my dad has been abusive since I was a kid and he used to doubt my mom all the time and he used to not let her go outside or anywhere for that fact except when he is with her and if she looks at some male he used to scold her even hit in some cases

So for context my dad married my mom when she was 14 and he was 19 so she was literally a kid and she didn't know anything and he has 23 police cases which she got to know after marriage and she couldn't do anything cause her parents stopped talking to her so that's how she got stuck here

Okay let me get to the main point

Now he thinks that I and my mom had sex and he is saying he knows it for sure and he uses his phone to record things and he even has put up a camera at home so no privacy for anyone and I can't speak to my mom

He made me undress and he touched my penis and pulled the foreskin back took handky and wiped it and sniffed it and then he sniffed my moms undies and then says both of them have the same smell so you guys definitely had sex and i told na that he pulled my foreskin back he says you are clearly not a virgin cause your foreskin is going so back and it wouldn't if not for you have had sex

He also said that if you haven't had sex with your mom then who is it which girl is it and he started naming a few of my friends....

He choked my mom and he did a lot of things and my mom doesn't wanna go out having a bad name cause of "society"

I really don't know what to do I'm really waiting for my college to start so that I can go and stay at the hostel and atleast forget about all this

This is not the complete details even there's more to it

I really feel like cutting my penis off....

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago
▲ 4 r/virgin

I'm 20 and no experience

I am 20M and I have no experience in relationships whatsoever

And i don't know how to start and I'm not good looking or anything maybe average or below average looking male

So how do I approach women

My resting face is generally intimidating - I can't keep smiling all the time too ryt

And it's not that I can't speak to females i have a lot of female friends and that's the problem I'm always friend/bro zoned

And i got rejected recently cause i didn't tell her my feelings for like 3 years or something and she said she thinks of me only as a friend

Can you guys please help me or give me some suggestions

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago
▲ 7 r/PESU

Hostels not available for Bangaloreans??

Okay so recently went for pes rr campus visit and i heard that pes doesn't give hostels for Bangaloreans and stuff and I am really confused ryt now

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago

Newbie here and need your help 🥺

I'm joining first year of college and definitely need your help guys

So hi guys my name is Yashwanth and I am about to enter first year of college starting from this year and I have a few doubts

So my plan is start with web dev learn (already know css and html and I'm thinking of learning mern stack) and build projects and learn dsa and do leetcode - same old thing

So my doubt are these enough and one more thing what differentiates between a person who gets avg package in a tier 1-2 colleges and the person who gets the highest package staying in the same college

I mean what do they do differently??

Please help with this

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago

I'm joining first year of college and definitely need your help guys

So hi guys my name is Yashwanth and I am about to enter first year of college starting from this year and I have a few doubts

So my plan is start with web dev learn (already know css and html and I'm thinking of learning mern stack) and build projects and learn dsa and do leetcode - same old thing

So my doubt are these enough and one more thing what differentiates between a person who gets avg package in a tier 1-2 colleges and the person who gets the highest package staying in the same college

I mean what do they do differently??

Please help with this

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago

What do i do??

Okay so I'm 20M and have no dating experience - nil not a single one and I am entering my first year of college starting next month (yes I'm late cause of a lot of reasons)

I feel like i need to start dating but then because of toxic parents at home I'm having second thoughts and since I'll be staying in hostel if I go to college i wanna actually start exploring but kinda confused and don't know what to do

Please help me 🥺

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago

What do i do??

Okay so I'm 20M and have no dating experience - nil not a single one and I am entering my first year of college starting next month (yes I'm late cause of a lot of reasons)

I feel like i need to start dating but then because of toxic parents at home I'm having second thoughts and since I'll be staying in hostel if I go to college i wanna actually start exploring but kinda confused and don't know what to do

Please help me 🥺

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/kcet

Help me choose between PES Aiml and BMS CS Core

Yeah so I can get both these courses without a problem I just wanted to know which one I need to put above in the kcet option entry

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u/YashuT-T — 1 month ago
▲ 120 r/IndianBoysOnTinder+1 crossposts

I got rejected...

ME: Hey, I know this might feel a little sudden, but I've wanted to tell you this for a long time. I've liked you for a while now, and I really enjoy talking to you.

No pressure at all — I just wanted you to know how I feel.

HER: Heyy, that really was sudden... I just want to tell you that I've only ever seen you as a friend, And we still are friends. We're still cool right?

ME : Yeah, we're cool. Thanks for being honest with me. I just wanted you to know.

I liked her from three years and i kinda feel bad but yeah one thing is that she handled it very well....just wanted to share it..

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u/YashuT-T — 3 months ago
▲ 2 r/InstagramSupport+2 crossposts

Not Using instagram??

Okay so I'm 20M and I've been on insta for a year and back then I thought it's not for me and i deleted the account (my friends think i deleted because of my exams) so they are asking me to install insta again so I wanted ask your opinion people

So is it worth it.....i only use reddit (started using an old account recently) and youtube and whats up and that's it I don't use any other social media platforms will join LinkedIn but yeah do you guys think it is worth it or any suggestions would help

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u/YashuT-T — 3 months ago
▲ 2 r/kcet

RVCE vs PES

I think I might RVCE CSE data science or cyber security or PES CSE core or ai/ml

Which one acc to you guys is better??

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u/YashuT-T — 3 months ago