u/allisona007

I ordered bunch of stuffs but Macys but they delivered to the wrong address. I don’t even recognize the door picture when they took picture of the package getting delivered.

Anyways I am frustrated because Macys doesn’t tell me where they dropped off the package and doesn’t refund too.
Worst customer service. Their reason for no refund or no reorder is because they delivered the package.
Wasted $200 for nothing. Well someone got some free stuffs.

For really good kimchi fried rice and wings

I got laid off last year and since then been struggling to find a proper job. Now I am pregnant and feel like I am losing myself.

I am excited for the baby and excited to be a parent but baby means I won’t have much time for myself. It means stay at home for 5 more months of pregnancy + 1 year with the baby. Day care is expensive so planning to be stay at home mom for atleast when the baby is 1 year old.

I don’t know what to do with my life anymore, I have no goals. Job market is bad and it’s hard to find at home jobs. Before I worked as a business analyst.
I am closer to 40s and feeling sad about losing myself. I don’t know who I am anymore. I am just getting depressed

Trying to see how long the box of 210 would last for 12 or 13 week old baby.

I know it depends on the baby.

I am on my 3rd trimester. And I am starting to realize how unsupportive people are.
I am grateful for my partner though- he’s always been there for me.

I just feel so unheard and not respected by my own family. I have been trying to maintain distance with them though. Even when a family member asks me what I want for baby and I send them the link- everyone makes it seem like I am being a burden. Everyone is far away so I am not having a baby registry or baby shower.
It’s not my fault that things aren’t cheap anymore. Even non designer basic things are expensive than before. I asked for a bottle sterilizer and it became a big deal. So so just told her to give me $50 gift card and I will manage the rest. Who ever asked me is rich btw and the item was less than $100.

In the past when a family member had babies I always helped around and babysat their kids for free. No one paid me to help out with the toddler when they had a newborn. I have never felt appreciated by my own family. Realized that being related by blood doesn’t mean they are family.

I am feeling more sad that I am hurting the baby by crying and being sad.

Had someone purchase from my new store but I haven’t gotten email or notification about it.

Or your baby registry?

I woke up more tired today. I couldn’t sleep well last night. Sleeping on both right and left side was very hard. Now my body feels super tired n heavy and maybe my hand is a lil swollen too.

I am just waiting for next 10 weeks to get over

Met this guy when I was 20 and started dating him after being asked many times. It was my 1st relationship.

I was naive and stupid back then to care about him so much. When we were 34 he broke up with me coz he cheated. He wanted to be with the other girl so he broke up with me when I was away on a work trip. When I came back, basically got kicked out of the apartment and the other girl was gonna move there.
I had anxiety and panic attacks for few years after that and mental health got so bad that I had to quit my job too.

My whole 20s I compromised a lot for him. I used to feel alive and happy with him. I also changed colleges and jobs just to be near him. When he had family crisis and was struggling to pay his college, I used my savings and paid because I didn’t want him to have a set back. He was my world but he still broke up with me. I never even got a chance to talk to him since there was another girl in his life.

For others, love maybe the best thing. But for me it felt like a curse especially the post breakup depression phase. I couldn’t even tell anyone. When I quit my job and was depressed and moved in with my family, they all treated me like a failure. I never told them what was happening but the way they treated me made my life worse so I had to move out.

Sometimes I wonder how life would have been if I just focused on my life and never dated him.
Part of me died with that breakup and it’s something I will never get back.
Today I am in a better mental state and i am starting to be happy with myself but not sure how I will get back the confidence I once had. I also need to get back to starting a career after a few years break

Do babies use sleep sack after turning 1? Since blanket is not safe thinking of sleep sack for a while

I keep reading posts about people getting banned from Amazon or the account got freezed. What was the reason for it?

If your account got banned what was the reason for it

My friend is having a baby shower and she has an 7 year old. I am helping her with ideas but can’t think of any games for kids around 7/8 aged children. She wants her daughter to take part in the game but all games I can think of is for adults. Not looking for guessing the smell or food tasting games.

Trying to find a not very expensive playpen for kids from 6month-3 yrs. I found portable play yard but debating with collapsible design, breathable mesh vs play yard with panel extensions.

https://a.co/d/06KiphSS

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20s and early 30s I was in a relationship. After a year he was going through financial issues and all so I focused on helping him coz I loved him. I worked more since expenses were more.
Turns out he was manipulative and using me. He always made me feel like I wasn’t good enough. I was alone in a different country that time and didn’t have any family or friends support. When he left me for someone else, I went into depression, it took me years to get out of that and feel like myself again. I even had to quit my old job for mental health reasons. I had to take time off to think and focus.

Anyways I wish I never met him, I can’t change what happened but sometimes I wonder how life would have been if I never met him and never had to go through the depressed phase. I lost everything that time- even the place we were staying in- he kicked me out coz the other girl was moving in.

Today I am almost at 40s and feeling so behind: like I failed in life and failed my parents too, I got laid off and since then having a hard time. Now I am also pregnant and looks like my career plans will be on hold for the baby. I hate myself focusing on love than career in the most important years of my life. I miss my old self before I was in a relationship. Not comparing myself to others but If my version of 20 or 22 saw this, I would be very disappointed.

I am in 3rd trimester and suddenly it’s getting real for me. I can finally feel the kicks.
I have just been stressed and worried about how to manage baby alone. My partner will be home on weekends to help but weekdays I am alone.
Unfortunately he doesn’t have pto or paternity leave and I am worried if he takes too much time off he will be laid off. I got laid off during pregnancy and don’t plan to work until the baby turns 1. Daycare is already expensive. We don’t have family friends nearby and they can’t visit. Hiring a nanny will be expensive esp when I don’t have a job.

Will lower portion of rice and pasta I have for lunch /dinner.

When did your baby go from bassinet to crib? Do they sleep in crib from 4/5 months?