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What is the optimal weather and season?

One specific tire, which is the left rear tire keeps getting Low pressure signal because of a nails I guess from driving near construction sites and I’ve had to go in at at least five times within the last two months for that same tire. If I just got a brand new tire, will it be good and I won’t have to keep going in regardless of if I want near a construction site? Every time I go to the tire center at Costco, they just remove the nail and patch it up and send me on my way. I’d rather just get a whole new tire if that means I don’t have to keep going in!

My person charges $210 from what use to once be $125 ten years ago. Of course my salary has increased but I’m just curious if this is standard ?

You know what hurts the most out of all of it is that even though he ended up betraying me at the end of it, that’s not the part that actually gets to me. The part that actually eats me up inside is that I gave myself up to him. I gave my time, my love, my energy, my Nurturing characteristics qualities to this person. It’s not the actual betrayal in itself that’s the hardest part of it all. I hate the fact that I spent any time on this person and that’s what eats me up because if I had known what I know now I would’ve never ever given him even a second of my time. I submitted myself in ways that I would have never done otherwise on the notion that we both shared mutual feelings, I would never have had unprotected sex or any sex with that person and I would’ve ultimately never given him the time of day and that’s what infuriates me. I hate that I gave myself up in that way, not just sexually but so many other ways I would’ve never made myself vulnerable in and I hate that I did that for such a wrong person for me.

So I have multiple candles with different intentions and I was just wondering if I can put them close together or on the same altar or is that not recommended? One is for a no, and the others are for a yes. Should I isolate the “no” candle or is it OK to have them all together?

I don’t get it. These kids are nearly all in high school and their parents not once taught them to have table manners??? I’ve been a nanny for one family for a couple years and I cannot stand how these kids do not close their mouth when they chew and what’s worse is that the parents don’t even address it or seem to care. Like all the smacking and open mouth chewing as an adolescent is just so irritating. It’s not like they are babies anymore so why can’t they have table manners??!? This is something that should’ve been addressed years ago so me asking or telling them to close their mouth is essentially meaningless.

So the family got this fish pet about a year ago and I was all for it until the responsibility of cleaning the fishbowl was now part of my task. So the fish was for the children and only really one of them cleans it, but even that child does not do it when asked. If it wasn’t such a long and tedious process, I would actually just do it myself, but they use a special type of water and there’s a special type of liquid cleaner and a certain amount and everything is just very precise. I’ve told the child let’s do it on multiple occasions however he says it’s not green so it’s fine and refuses to do it. Mom then mentioned there was so many gallons of water because the fish hasn’t been cleaned so I infer from that statement that she wants me to do it because it has been over a month since she last mentioned and when I told the child to let’s do it and it still hasn’t been done on the weekends or otherwise. On top of that they have had consideration of getting a dog as a pet and that’s where I am totally not OK with any of that because I do not want any responsibility whether it’s feeding or walking or anything with the dog because they don’t even take any responsibility for a fish! (Fish has a feeder though so he is fed)

You know what I think about often is how it’s such a double edge sword to want to talk to other nannies in the neighborhood about whatever issues you’re going through with your Nanny Family but you aren’t even able to because they might tell their Nanny Parents to make themselves look better . For example, I remember one time just telling another Nanny about how the nanny father and how he wasn’t so nice when I first met him and she was just saying how oh no, her nanny father is amazing etc and she kind of gave me a feeling that she may tell her Nanny family about what I stated. I’ve learned not to ever discuss those matters, especially with nannies in the neighborhood. You definitely can’t trust them.