Is the idea that "right wing" men can't find a relationship cope?
I live in a very conservative state and most of the people in my age group around me identify as conservative
u/indeckaa — 23 hours ago
u/indeckaa
I hate the term "the male gaze"
I have a lot to say about this phrase.
I'm aware it started as a "theory," but that is no longer how it is being treated as today, rather as a catch-all insult.
This phrase increasingly means nothing at the end of the day. It's solely used as a blanket statement against any content that is purportedly aimed towards a male audience. It tries to shutdown any attempt of discussion or debate with a thought terminating cliche.
It also has hints of misandry. It tries to treat male desire in media as inherently harmful or toxic and that it inflicts bigotry. It also assumes every man is a degenerate gooner who all like X female character with Z cups. This is not even mentioning the clear double standard, where when male characters are "sexualized" it's suddenly acceptable.
This phrase is also increasingly being used as a subtle way to appear intellectually superior by being utilized as detached and "clinical" langauge. It's been used as an alternative substitute for "I have he moral high ground over you degen plebians lmao"
u/indeckaa — 2 days ago
▲ 13 r/teenagers4real
The most accurate post I have seen
Inb4 the zero updoots, 983730 comments, each being a gaslight of "It doesn't matter sweaty. We're still oppressed even though we live in the west." Save me your useless-ass "education" attempts giving every reason why "it isn't real sweaty" 😂✌️
u/indeckaa — 4 days ago
▲ 126 r/ConservativeYouth
Another retarded post
This is probably the most stereotypical liberal bitch post ever. Hard to believe this isn't baiting
"anti feminists" "incels" "men aren't oppressed sweaty. Only women are" "this convo isn't for you sweaty. yet it contradicts my claim that men can get pregnant" "male loneliness epidemic"
What a fucking caricature
u/indeckaa — 4 days ago
▲ 9 r/autism
The problem with "Stop comparing yourself to other people"
The problem is people, notably NT people, are not minorites. The average person isn't ND.
When you look at someone's accomplishments, you're able to see how far they've gotten.
When I look at my own, I only think, "i couldn't reach what a NT person had because I'm not NT Even if it's not guaranteed I'd reach these achievements, It would a lot easier in chance if I was NT"
u/indeckaa — 4 days ago
▲ 21 r/teenagers4real
They conveniently left out "sexism" didn't they
One yny out of phobia and isms 😂✌️
u/indeckaa — 5 days ago
▲ 8 r/TooAfraidToAsk
How is one supposed to cope missing out on love as a teenager?
It's over and I never got to experience the purity of such a relationship due to social inferiority, as in my identity formation never started. How are you not supposed to ruminate when other people got to build up experience in sex and relationships while you didn't get to?
I think I'm intentionally seeking out content that describes such experiences both in great detail and the specifics of ages I wished I had experience in and it makes me extremely upset
u/indeckaa — 10 days ago
▲ 9 r/socialanxiety
Having social anxiety is very fatalistic
Think about it.
Your life is astronomically harder to the point where you can only cope.
Think about how often normal people get a partner, get to have a family, get friends, have support, fucking anything. They don't recognize at all what it's like to have anxiety.
The only things I think of that are options is coping or roping in all honesty. It's an extremely brutal path once you realize This
u/indeckaa — 11 days ago
▲ 8 r/teenagers4real
What makes them act this way?
these women would piss on your grave if you killed yourself
u/indeckaa — 14 days ago
▲ 31 r/PetPeeves
I know this is used sarcastically by women almost all of the time, but it's still extremely infuriating when it's said genuinely by self-proclaimed "woke" women or whatever. This word is so generic it sounds like something an AI would make if LLMs existed in their current state.
It's literally like the word "kaizen," completely soulless and only including "I am le big strong feminist uwu" pinkslop
The only criticism I ever see as a response back "let people have fun bro!" or "agree me. if you don't agree with me you hate women sweaty"
u/indeckaa — 14 days ago
▲ 7 r/askanything
Most notably female redditors vs female twitter users always argue the other one is trashy. It's like watching lions and hyenas fight.
u/indeckaa — 14 days ago
▲ 7 r/teenagers4real
Was truly insufferable once this group colonized the "kitchencel" idea. It's just another TwoX warrior subreddit
u/indeckaa — 14 days ago
▲ 235 r/ConservativeYouth
What a retarded post
Nobody is telling you to be pregnant at fifteen lmao, what are these schizo posts for besides karma whoring. It's always strawmen arguments
u/indeckaa — 15 days ago
▲ 4 r/teenagers4real
I'm starting to look at posts at these that try to dehumanize men for other men doing stuff and it just makes me go "okay, what about it?" It always goes from "don't you know how violent men are to us, chud?" to "men are the problem" or "hehe i pick le bear" which doesn't contribute to anything meaningful anyway, so these types of posts don't do anything. I know caring isn't symmetrical so the responses that say I won't reciprocate are ultimately vapid.
u/indeckaa — 15 days ago
▲ 1 r/sex
Let's say you're using this as a substitute for not receiving intimacy. Regardless of the reasoning why you don't have it or not, you decide to look into purchasing one to finally experience something you never got to before and you decided to keep it long term.
Is this a good cope for that?
u/indeckaa — 16 days ago
▲ 148 r/GenZ
It's literally a buzzword at this point. It signifies "I don't give a fuck about your issues nor do I want to address it but here's what I've been told works. Let it gaslight you though"
u/indeckaa — 16 days ago
▲ 1 r/venting
I've never realized they all talk the same
No I don't give a fuck about any 99% of xyz do x
I've genuinely never seen them with a different opinion. It's just generic PC speech gaslighting core
u/indeckaa — 16 days ago