u/Bulky-Culture-4482

Because toy story 5 very recently just came out digitally, I was wondering if there is anyway way to download it in 4K for free?

I see some few people here acting like their lives are defected and over all because apparently they are not interested in going to parties, socializing etc. When those things literally has very little coorelation with things such as better academic performance, better income etc.

They are complaining how they can't go to parties meanwhile they were at least privillaged enough to have high GPA in high school, good grades and even just better employment which I never had those due to my low IQ that co-occured from my own autism. And of course going to parties or just socializing is never going to fix my problems.

Throughout my youth, I was a severe gaming and internet addict, I was constantly neglecting my educational opportunities that I could have had I overcame this problem way too late. I am 21 years old and I should be like 3rd or 2nd year of university by now thriving but I am just stuck with a basic high school education with nothing remarkable to show. My potential was pretty much just completely wasted and I don't think I will ever get it back. I am just forever behind than people my age.

Used to suspect that I have ADHD for quite a while but then slowly begin to realize it might just instead just sadly be my lack of intelligence soley because doing tasks that are relatively more complex, more cognitively demanding such as reading books, coding etc. are much more harder for me to do and get myself to do these tasks compared to tasks that are relatively simple, and as for childhood behaviors, I had poor impulse control simply because I was too dull minded and lacked awareness with important things like education.

Why does it have to be the opposite? Why does it feel more good playing video games, even scrolling through internet, etc. feel good compared to anything else? This has been very annoying because I have been really badly wanting to become more of a book worm, learn languages, code etc. do all of these things so I could feel more competent but I cannot get myself to do these at all, meanwhile other people can easily do it for hours but I can't. What's wrong with me?

21 years old, I really wish that I have an IQ at least in the high average range like 110+ but my IQ is well below average range < 90. Having low intelligence really comes with so many consequences such as total carelessness with very important things like education throughout my youth, due to my addiction with gaming, internet. Ever since I have graduated from high school I have been realizing how much I really fucked up, and I realized it too late, I did not take any single honors or AP classes, did not bother trying to improve my education, back then like I should have.

Now I am completely pre maturely locked out of opportunities for ever I could have had, I cannot go to university, get a degree, be very smart person who knows how to dive very deep into stuff, etc.

I am not interested in doing anything that isn't considered prestigious such as trades, I don't wanna set up for dead end careers that has very little flexibility I just wanna be an intelligent individual but it is sadly just way too late for that. I hear that you cannot significantly increase your IQ after late teens.

Also please do not say shit like "you don't need to be very smart to be happy" it won't make me feel better. It won't make me feel better the fact I completely missed out such huge opportunity, and the fact I totally lost this game of life.

My low IQ is an explaination for so many of my problems, if I had higher IQ I would have not been this stupiditly impulsive as a child, and no, it has nothing to do with ADHD, because people with ADHD don't straight up just neglect learning like this.

Even if I have average IQ like 90 - 99 it still won't make me feel satisfied, having well above average IQ like 110+ at least is largely respected and admired by many people, even better if you have much higher like 130+ because it means you will be 1 person in a room of 30 people and being the only person to solve something. I fucking hate this life. It's so rigged.

Throughout my whole youth I was totally careless with my own education, played too much video games, didn't read much books, wasn't interested in school, etc. which resulted me in doing mostly locally developed courses and some college courses throughout my high school, by the time I was about to graduate I realized how much I really fucked up.

I really do not wanna stick with just doing trades, it has very little flexibility, and just isn't considered as prestigious, I really do not wanna just set up for dead end careers that has very little flexbility... Is it really too late?

Things like computer science, engineer, med school, law etc. you all need at least IQ above 110+, normies will say that "hard work is more important" sure hard work is important but it really is not enough at all you also need at least slightly above average IQ.

Now days I have recently been less able to tolerate so much less in solitude where it would give me advantage to actually focus on stuff like reading books, learning stuff like coding etc. but now I literally cannot do these without any kind of social interaction, it is not the fact I want it's more like just craving, I ended up just wasting time on sometimes even making pointless small talk that obviously has zero benefits at all. Like logic part of me knows it is waste of time and gives no benefits but emotional and dopemine part of me just feels good about it.

Normally a person who is intelligent and smart wouldn't have hard time with this, but to me it always takes me such a long time to learn new things regardless if I am interested, like my native language, despite speaking with my family for so many years I am still no where near fluent, I am barely literate at all with my native language (Brazilian Portuguese) takes me long time to fully master complex sentences syntax, grammar etc, particularly because of course I grew up in english speaking country but I am still expected that I should be able to master and learn things even though I barely had guidance with it.

Things like becoming doctor, engineer, scientist etc. they are all just purely luck based. You have to be born with the right circumstances such as parents properly nuturing you properly since you were a young child like getting you into reading books, cognitive stuff, etc, and as well as having decent genetic baseline potential, so far, throughout my whole life I was never once naturally good with academics, was sadly got placed in much lower academic throughout my high school due to just my lack of overall natural aptitude for academics, and my low IQ as well.

I get it. You do not really need these types of jobs to survive but working just to survive and just to end up with dead end lower class and way less prestige? Not fun at all.

They think that other things like "EQ" is more important and stuff when clearly, IQ is literally a predictor of many successes in life, even things like better self control, delayed grafiication, executive function, even less crime rates are all positively coorelated, people with high IQ often grew up with reading lot of books as children, not be a burden to parents due to being a slow learner, bad behavior, etc.

Having low IQ is such liability, it really is explanation for so many of my problems, we are also quite a burden to the others, it cost them more money to support us, teachers need to work harder for us to learn, etc, it explains why eugenics was a thing in the first place back then.

So far, I have been trying to apply for jobs even retail ones for really long time and they would never hire me primary reason is very likely because of my low IQ, due to my lack of significant achievements I have had in my life, like my resume is quite empty and only has feeble accomplishments.

Anyone else here have been having hard time getting job?

I am 21 years old, and really been so mad at myself how I did not have motivation to go to library, read books every day or engage in cogntive tasks such as musical instrument etc. I have wasted all of my youth on just playing video games, watching TV etc. I really could have an opportunity to have flexible career options such as going to elite colleges, universities etc. But I am just stuck on just trades, cert paths etc. Which I personality do not wanna just do.

I just badly wanna be intelligent but I hear is is not possible to increase your intelligence after 18.

Asking this because I notice that to other people, self control, self discipline seem to come much naturally for them, they are capable of pushing through very hard work especially since childhood but to me despite having all opportunities I still failed to develop discipline. This really tells me that it is more of an innate than a skill.

Back when I was child I was so poorly disciplined and lazy, refused to go to school, did not want to go to library to read books etc.

I doubt this has anything to do with ADHD because if that is the case, how come other people with ADHD did not have same problem as I had?

21 years old, so far I have yet to get driver's license, get job or even become very good and master at something, such as musical instrument, coding, arts etc. I just can never get myself to just stick with any of these things it is always difficult to just get myself to do it and I really hate myself for it.

Anyone else here hate it when people say BS like "having high IQ does not guarantee happiness and fulfilling lives" yeah right... how the hell are we supposed to be happy if lot of us are just going to be stick with low entry level jobs for rest of our lives??

I am not gifted myself, in fact, I am opposite, I have low IQ sadly and I always feel like that my low IQ has been contributing for my own bad daily habits such as lack of focus in reading books, etc. and simply just crave passive entertainment which is obviously bad for me of course but it is very hard to break out of this cycle. I feel like if I had high IQ i would never had any of these problems.

Especially the "school being too slow" and being too bored with everything, like if school is "too slow" why not use this as an opportunity to learn independently, or even just get perfect grades in class?

And if you cannot deal with not living "without intellectual stimulation" then dude. Go on internet and learn some shit to fulfill your intellectual hunger they constantly whine about how they are bored to death but does nothing about it.