u/Lovebugxo0x

I just got back from the worst date ever. He was pretty cute but brought up his eX 20 minutes in. I brought up that I’m a nurse and he said that he had a ex that was a nurse that lived in the same town as me I thought it was strange, but things were going downhill quite quickly. while we were on the date I said oh it sounds like you must miss her or something you keep bringing her up as a joke, and he said “no she’s crazy. She keeps calling me and I keep blocking her.” I just said ok. Although the date was over in my head, i decided to just continue with him.

then after this drove to a spot by the water and we sat in the car for a little bit and then he starts bringing up marriage and asking how many kids I want so I told him I would wanna get married one day to somebody and I want kids. and then after this he tries to kiss me and then I kissed him back because whenever and then he starts trying to grab my boob and touch my crotch so I moved his hand. and he says that he only does that to girls he wants to marry, and then after that, I asked him to drive me back to my car and on the way back to my car he was saying that he thinks I don’t like marriage. I don’t like kids. I don’t like anything and I said no I do like marriage and I do like kids, but I don’t get intimate with somebody and two hours after knowing them and then he kept going on and on how I don’t like him and I don’t know, but I think that might be the worst daye I’ve ever been on or maybe one of the top 5.

Also when I asked why he chose this spot to meet at, he tells me because him and his ex used to live in the area together. Like bro???

When I got out of the car I said "thank you for everything, see ya later" and he says "I hope". When I got out of the car he speeds away. Like what🤣

He says Norma scammed people but she did have cancer so how did she scam?

She recently met a man and he ended up blocking her and going back to his ex. She messaged the ex and basically was arguing with her and caused a whole drama.

Then after this she kept looking at tarot readings and other videos and thinking the videos were made for her and about her exact situation. She was sharing Facebook videos about men really loving the girl he left and being more comfortable with the ex so he went back to her.

She also kept watching videos about zodiac signs how Aries loves Leo deep down but is with Taurus and thinking the video was made for her

Idk she really believed it too

I work in a rehab and 7-3 is nuts. I’ve been doing it for a year and I’m thinking of either switching to part-time or switching shifts because I cannot take 40 hours 7 to 3 anymore. Anyone who has ever worked 7 to 3 and 3 to 11 shifts can you tell me which one that you liked better and/or do you think part-time would be better for a little bit?

I work the 7-3 shift. I work in a rehab floor so it’s people who stay after a hospital visit to get more rehab so they can go home. I’m running around like a chicken with its head cut off. It’s a madhouse during the day and I’ve barely have time to sit.

I constantly over hear people calling us cna’s lazy, etc. we work our fucking asses off and get all the blame. What about the nurses? Why does everything fall on the fucking cna?!

Yesterday at work I got there at 7am as usual. The nurse that was working (I’ve never worked with her before) casually strolls over around 10. Me and the other cna didn’t even know we had a nurse but, we pushed through and did our jobs. The nurse says “if anyone asks for meds tell them I just got here”. Me and the other cna just looked at each other in disbelief. Apparently she was in at 7 am and only got on the floor at 10. So what was she doing for 3 hours? We don’t know

Then she proceeds to not give the patients meds when we’ve told her multiple times they are asking for certain meds and then the patients get annoyed with us because they think we’re not telling the nurse. Then we have a patient there who suffers with dementia and she roams around wanting to get out. Me and the other cna have things to do and the nurse comes over and tells us we have to watch her. I said how are we supposed to watch her when we have a bunch of call bells going off? The nurse was terrible yesterday. I ended up calling out this morning

Edit: forgot to add this part. At 3 o’clock, we found out that no one got their blood pressure taken all day and no one got their blood taken to check their sugar. Like are you kidding me?

It’s still very early for me to decide if I really don’t like her. But he started dating this woman a few months back. They’ve already been on a few trips together. My brother lives about an hour away from me. I’ll be 28 next week and he is 26. His girlfriend is turning 30 or 31 I don’t know.

But the first time I met her, he brought her to my family house and we went on our boat. She was quiet, which is fine. My family had met her before I did and they mentioned she was quiet and really only spoke if you spoke to her. I understand being shy because I am shy myself. On the boat day, I tried asking her questions and she did respond but I feel like she didn’t really want to hang out with the family or get to know us. It seemed like she preferred to be just with my brother and away from us. Then she stayed at our family house. Whole time we were together she didn’t ask me any questions about myself or any of my family members even though we were all very welcoming to her.

Second time she came but I had to work. When I came home from work they were standing at the front door and said hello. I asked where they were going and my brother answered me. I was standing in the kitchen and before they left my brother said bye, but she didn’t. She just walked out. I found it odd. Then I didn’t see her the entire time she was at our house because they got home late and I slept early and had work early the next day as well.

I was giving her the benefit of the doubt but then I started thinking. When we were on the family boat, she was laying on top of him like full body on him. And when we all sat together my brother said something funny and she covered his mouth. I find her actions to be odd if she really is “shy”. It almost seems more uninterested in getting to know us than just shy.

My brother also told my sister that his gf doesn’t like his friends from when he was in elementary school, doesn’t like his coworkers. Basically likes no one in his life. His roommates apparently find it weird when she comes over because she doesn’t speak and is rude to them because she doesn’t like them. I just find it all odd. I know this is my brothers life. But what should I do? Just continue to be nice to her? How do I manage this situation if I’m not really vibing with her?

It’s still very early for me to decide if I really don’t like her. But he started dating this woman a few months back. They’ve already been on a few trips together. My brother lives about an hour away from me. I’ll be 28 next week and he is 26. His girlfriend is turning 30 or 31 I don’t know.

But the first time I met her, he brought her to my family house and we went on our boat. She was quiet, which is fine. My family had met her before I did and they mentioned she was quiet and really only spoke if you spoke to her. I understand being shy because I am shy myself. On the boat day, I tried asking her questions and she did respond but I feel like she didn’t really want to hang out with the family or get to know us. It seemed like she preferred to be just with my brother and away from us. Then she stayed at our family house. Whole time we were together she didn’t ask me any questions about myself or any of my family members even though we were all very welcoming to her.

Second time she came but I had to work. When I came home from work they were standing at the front door and said hello. I asked where they were going and my brother answered me. I was standing in the kitchen and before they left my brother said bye, but she didn’t. She just walked out. I found it odd. Then I didn’t see her the entire time she was at our house because they got home late and I slept early and had work early the next day as well.

I was giving her the benefit of the doubt but then I started thinking. When we were on the family boat, she was laying on top of him like full body on him. And when we all sat together my brother said something funny and she covered his mouth. I find her actions to be odd if she really is “shy”. It almost seems more uninterested in getting to know us than just shy.

My brother also told my sister that his gf doesn’t like his friends from when he was in elementary school, doesn’t like his coworkers. Basically likes no one in his life. His roommates apparently find it weird when she comes over because she doesn’t speak and is rude to them because she doesn’t like them. I just find it all odd. I know this is my brothers life. But what should I do? Just continue to be nice to her? How do I manage this situation if I’m not really vibing with her?

TL;DR : I don’t like my brothers gf because she doesn’t try to bond with our family. She is rude. I’ve heard she is “shy” but has no problem covering my brothers mouth and being touchy with him infront of us.

I work with a nurse very closely and she delegates almost everything. She’ll never toilet a patient, won’t even help a patient get off the toilet if they’re finished. She’ll go shut the light off and then scream for either me or my other cna coworker to help the patient off the toilet even if we’re both in the middle of doing something. The other day my coworker was in the middle of changing someone and the nurse must’ve called her name 5 times telling her that her patient needs to get off the toilet.

My cna coworker had to talk to her and ask her not to do that because she’s not dilly dallying, she’s changing somebody and in the middle of doing something.

Edit: a a lot of people commenting that nurses that were cna’s before they were nurses are the most helpful and that’s not the case here. Nurse I’m talking about was a cna for 8 years.

A guy from work asked me on a date. We were planning to meet today at a certain time he was gonna come pick me up. He even confirmed today that we’d meet. About two hours before, I didn’t hear anything from him but I got ready just to be ready just in case he was gonna text me that he’s on his way.

When it got to the time we were supposed to meet I texted him and said “ I guess we’re not meeting” and he said “why?” And I responded “you didn’t message me and we were supposed to meet at this time”. Then he tells me that his brother from another country is coming to see him and he wants to reschedule for next week.

I said “he won’t be here for 6 hours and you just found out 5 minutes ago he’s coming?” Then I told him we don’t need to reschedule. He said he wanted to stop by to see me quick. I said there’s no reason for that and I hope he has fun with his brother.

Now he has been calling and texting me but I’m not responding.

Update: he’s currently outside my house. I have not answered the door

My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago and his best friend keeps following me on Instagram. He has followed me at least three times and I keep removing him as a follower. last month He told me he’s moving a state away and he wanted to see me before he left and I said no and then today he’s following me again.

I had asked my ex probably a couple months ago why he keeps following me and at first he said because he wanted to look at my Instagram, but why doesn’t my ex just reach out instead of having his best friend follow me?

They dated for 2 years and he said he was gonna propose. After this info I decided I wasn’t interested anymore. Did I overreact?

I’m about to ghost someone because he “typess like thisss”. Just adds extra letters to his words

For example: “That’s fairrr. Can definitely understand thattt tooo. I went to the beach like once so far. Which is probably more than I did last year lol”

Real text from him^

Am I dumb for that?!