u/Positive-Positivity

Why is life post grad so much difficult?

Life after postgrad is so much more difficult than when in high school or college. Everyone is so busy right now and it’s so hard to hang out with people. I’ll try to make time for everyone. I’m always the one inviting people and no one can meet me halfway.

I just miss back in high school. We saw each other all the time for eight hours and you got time to talk to people and see them.

Life isn’t bad but it is hard . Sign up for some sports and clubs trying to meet new people, but it’s still not easy just talking out loud. I wanna see what other people have thoughts on this.

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u/Positive-Positivity — 24 hours ago

Feeling lonely because I thought these people were my friends

Not explaining anything, but there’s these guys I knew and I thought we were gonna be friends, but clearly they don’t like me. I don’t care but just annoying because I have no one else to talk to or do anything with. Sign up for more sports clubs, hoping to beat people, but it’s not easy. I always put more effort and I’ll meet my people.

But I feel so shitty because they just ghosted me . The horses are active in a group chat that we were together with, but they ignore my individual messages. Fuck them, but whatever.

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u/Positive-Positivity — 1 day ago

I don’t get how Jordan belfort became so successful at 26

I watched them, Wolf, the Wolf of Wall Street. I see the story that said in the movie, but I still don’t understand how he can do this at such a young age with no experience. I see that he’s just scamming people for money but still in general. I don’t understand how he can be so successful to start his own brokerage from a 26. Given that he went to college and graduated 22 he only had four years of experience that seems crazy to me.

How can someone do this?

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u/Positive-Positivity — 3 days ago
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I’m depressed bc I got no friends

I’m depressed because I got no friends

I had no friends at home so I moved to the city hoping to make new ones. Not explaining everything but I got no friends and feel even lonelier

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u/Positive-Positivity — 5 days ago

I’m depressed because I got no friends

I had no friends at home so I moved to the city hoping to make new ones. Not explaining everything but I got no friends and feel even lonelier

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u/Positive-Positivity — 5 days ago

How I break into the energy industry?

I will not promote, how do I break into the energy industry?

Let’s face it the energy department is going to be crazy in the next couple of years. I wanna cash in while I can. I know I can’t make a nuclear reactor or anything expensive because I don’t got billions of dollars. But what can I start up with the money that I have right now?

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u/Positive-Positivity — 6 days ago

Do I have to put in the effort?

I feel so lonely because no one reaches out to me ever. I’m always the one reaching out to people even after that people ignore me. I know they’re ignoring me because they’re posting online or responding to the group chats and not responding to my individual messages to hang out.

I’m so tired of putting so much effort and getting nothing in return. It’s so annoying.

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u/Positive-Positivity — 6 days ago
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I hate how I put in all the effort

I feel so lonely because no one reaches out to me ever. I’m always the one reaching out to people even after that people ignore me. I know they’re ignoring me because they’re posting online or responding to the group chats and not responding to my individual messages to hang out.

I’m so tired of putting so much effort and getting nothing in return. It’s so annoying.

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u/Positive-Positivity — 6 days ago

I hate how I’m always ignored

I feel so lonely because no one reaches out to me ever. I’m always the one reaching out to people even after that people ignore me. I know they’re ignoring me because they’re posting online or responding to the group chats and not responding to my individual messages to hang out.

I’m so tired of putting so much effort and getting nothing in return. It’s so annoying.

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u/Positive-Positivity — 6 days ago

Depressed because I have no one to do things with

I’m depressed cause I have nothing to look forward to

I’ll just say that in college I was very depressed because I had no friends really there. I had people but not friends and now I’m in that same stage.

I move because I was getting lonely at home just being with my family and I wanted to meet people my age and now that I’ve moved I don’t really have friends here either . I thought I had some friends, but they are hanging out without me and I’m just kind of lost right now. I work remote, which is even worse so I don’t even see people.

Kind of just using this to just get my words out by just doing text to speech or speech to text and hoping that helps which it kind of does just talking out loud but it’s so bullshit.

I tried sending for clubs and organizations, but people don’t really go like even the instructor doesn’t go so it’s just like put me in the loop where I’m just not happy .

Like I wanna do stuff like Pickleball or trivia, but I don’t have a group of people to do it with. I mean, I could do tribute by myself, but it’s kind of dumb like I feel like the whole point of doing trivia to hang out with your friends for a little bit and answer a few questions.

I can’t even play pickle ball myself unless I hit against the wall so I always played like individual sports growing up. I just hate them. I’m just lonely.

I try to reach out to people and I’m always you know ghosted by them. I understand they shouldn’t be on their phone 24 seven and they’re not obligated to text me back but it just hurts knowing that they don’t care enough to reach back out, but I mean, I think it’s better because you know they’re not real friends, but I have no friends to start with now.

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u/Positive-Positivity — 7 days ago
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Depressed cause I have nothing to look forward to

I’m depressed cause I have nothing to look forward to

I’ll just say that in college I was very depressed because I had no friends really there. I had people but not friends and now I’m in that same stage.

I move because I was getting lonely at home just being with my family and I wanted to meet people my age and now that I’ve moved I don’t really have friends here either . I thought I had some friends, but they are hanging out without me and I’m just kind of lost right now. I work remote, which is even worse so I don’t even see people.

Kind of just using this to just get my words out by just doing text to speech or speech to text and hoping that helps which it kind of does just talking out loud but it’s so bullshit.

I tried sending for clubs and organizations, but people don’t really go like even the instructor doesn’t go so it’s just like put me in the loop where I’m just not happy .

Like I wanna do stuff like Pickleball or trivia, but I don’t have a group of people to do it with. I mean, I could do tribute by myself, but it’s kind of dumb like I feel like the whole point of doing trivia to hang out with your friends for a little bit and answer a few questions.

I can’t even play pickle ball myself unless I hit against the wall so I always played like individual sports growing up. I just hate them. I’m just lonely.

I try to reach out to people and I’m always you know ghosted by them. I understand they shouldn’t be on their phone 24 seven and they’re not obligated to text me back but it just hurts knowing that they don’t care enough to reach back out, but I mean, I think it’s better because you know they’re not real friends, but I have no friends to start with now.

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u/Positive-Positivity — 7 days ago

I hate that I can’t play pickleball

Literally every sport I played was an individual sport because I can play or practice with myself. I wanna play pickleball but I got no one to play with.

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u/Positive-Positivity — 8 days ago
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People who like sports are annoying

People who like sports are annoying

People who like sports are weird and annoying

I get the people who are little kids who are still playing the sports and they know they’re trying to watch sports to learn new moves or to develop better by just watching I get that.

I get people who use as a little bit of entertainment to watch it. You know with friends to get together and excuse to drink or have food.

But there’s people who clearly have never played a sport before in their life, but they’re the world’s biggest fan. It’s actually insane. They will decorate their whole house and dress up like they play the sport, but you can tell that they never put on a pair of cleats or any equipment in their life.

The worst of them all is the ones that are arguing all day long about different players in different eras. I’m sick and tired of hearing people complaining about LeBron versus Jordan. They never played together. There’s no way to actually compare the two.

Also, just listen to Pat McAfee or the Stephen a Smith show is so annoying. I don’t understand how they can argue all day about sports and talk about drama and stuff. It’s so annoying honestly, those shows are worse than watching reality TV like the Kardashians

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u/Positive-Positivity — 8 days ago
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Are one dollar oysters worth it at a restaurant?

I was just walking around and I saw that this place was giving down one dollar oysters during happy hours. I was just wondering if that’s actually a good deal or not never had oysters in my life. I’m sure that they do this just to get people to buy more drinks or more food. I’ll probably end up going by myself cause I don’t have friends right now.

Just trying to explore some restaurants and also live life then I’ll make friends, but you know it’s better than rotting in my room all day

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u/Positive-Positivity — 8 days ago

Why did sports become so big?

It’s a multi billion dollar industry. It’s actually insane these pro sport athletes get paid in the industry itself. I feel like 100 years ago. People even know what it was about or anything like that it just just a thing kids used to do how did it become so big

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u/Positive-Positivity — 8 days ago

Not motivated to work

I don’t know I feel like my job is so boring. I have very little work on and I still don’t have the motivation to work on it.

I’m pretty lonely. I literally don’t leave my house for multiple hours a day and the same floor walls. I’ll walk around my place even outside sometimes but it’s still just weird.

Like when I was in the office, I didn’t really talk to people either but you know you saw people he still said hi during lunch or something but now it’s just very lonely and unmotivated to work. How do I get motivated?

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u/Positive-Positivity — 9 days ago