u/Ryuken_ishida25

CONTEXT - ( 21 years old, living with family, ruined my college due to survival mode, and now it will take me a few years to stabilise everything, but I am positive I can do it . )

My dads an alcoholic but 7 days a week more like 4 days a week , because he goes in with alcohol for a few days coming home late or not coming home at all , and then when his body literally cannot handle more he stops for 3 - 10 days . and everytime that happens meaning he stops he does it by reassuring us that its over and those 3 days feel good beacuse hes home and i do not trust him much but everytime i do believe a little of his lies .

last night he came home i do not know when because my room is upstairs . i woke up at 1 am saw his car outside and from downstairs heard my mom crying , did not go downstairs and woke up again at 6 am and heard them yelling and abusing each other , we moved houses a year ago and then i felt it would be nice to be a normal family idk even know what our neighbours think of us , they never confronted us so they never heard much i guess .

i told my mom at 6 am go to sleep , and i will handle him when he wakes up she asked how , i told her beat my father , break a few bones and then he heals back up and break a few more bones . i have never hit my father , he has been an alcoholic for all my life , she shut me down and sent me back to my room angrily , my father did knew i was down as he was yalling from the room .

i thought beating my father would distance myself from the love i have for that man and finally set me free after giving me a lot of guilt .

how do you maintain your sanity at home , i mean distance yourself emotionally from your parent so that it does not affect you in life , i know not entirely possible but would appreciate tips .

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Can i change the email id now as earlier the otps were not being sent to emails but shown on website as sent to email . Then my counsellor tried with their email id later evening and worked asap and fine . Now it has their email id on my registration and my number how can I change the email id .

Is it possible during correction window ?

Or do I have to join a college then go to the admin office there ???

Airport t 3 before check in or after check in will shop be Available

Will I have to find forex shop before check in or post it any experience

title , would love some help . budget is 1300 RM

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My sister just passed 12th and gave neet , scoring around 250 / 720 .

She was in , gurukripa as enrolled in full time for neet practice since 9th because she said I wanna be a doctor and was also , having a physics walllah subscription for her neet during 12 . My parents always made sure of burnout and stuff .

Now after this score , she got some basic scolding and her mbbs now would cost around 1.5-1.6 cr over 5.5 years , which my dad say he will pay , my dad's business loan are 1.5 cr and that shit stressed him too much at times and he doesn't handle stress well and he can manage it .

But from last 2 days she's not talking just in her room by herself , only having food watching movies in the common room at night and not speaking to me , she always had an irritable personality and this shit just is hard for me to navigate as I don't want her to get stuck in SURVIVAL MODE OR SUCH .

She says she wanna do mbbs and nothing else but this is not how you can approach this situation.

Asking so I can help her , because I always dilly dally around the house try to talk to everyone but it's too much when I am talking to a wall .

My parents are sending her to a bigger city from our town but she had been involved with boys way older for her and caught like 2 times , and doesn't recieve advice well and just gets angry and irritated at everyone .

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9 days in bali , Indonesia and 5 days in Kuala Lumpur , malaysia.

Travelling family of four , Mom , dad a teenager and a adult .

Staying in uluwatu in bali all time as an old timeshare we bought gave us a free week at a 5 star hotel in exchange of previous recieved entitlement , should have had a diverse staying plan though.

I am confused about what our baseline minimum cash should be , asking from people who have a idea .

Both countries have 2 travelling days included so that's there .

I think 2000$ would be enough in total but still what's the baseline for nominal expenses

One with added benefits , and what works the best from your experience apart from 0% exchange fees .

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9 days in bali , Indonesia and 5 days in Kuala Lumpur , malaysia.

Travelling family of four , Mom , dad a teenager and a adult .

Staying in uluwatu in bali all time as an old timeshare we bought gave us a free week at a 5 star hotel in exchange of previous recieved entitlement , should have had a diverse staying plan though.

I am confused about what our baseline minimum cash should be , asking from people who have a idea .

Both countries have 2 travelling days included so that's there .

I think 2000$ would be enough in total but still what's the baseline for nominal expenses

Which one has like better benefits apart from 0 % exchange fees , including cash back and lounge and such.

Budget is upto 1.5 cr

Budget is upto 1.5 cr all inclusive

Title , I drink 4 litres of water a day and chia seeds too