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▲ 186 r/ftm

what happens to the t-dick after phalloplasty?

is it still visible? can it still be touched separately? how does the tdick feel once there's already a larger constructed penis?

does it cause dysphoria? is the new t dick stimulated during intercourse at all? i would like to see some pictures but all i come by are basically gore... (diagrams work too they need not be real people)

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u/SecretTadpole9781 — 1 day ago

i felt really uncomfortable today,, and i feel that way a lot

im not diagnosed with anything but my motor skills and hand eye coordination is not at par with my peers. i get called clumsy a lot and it's more than just a joke it's getting hurtful. i went to the mall today with this person she's my mom's age, and her 9 year old son. idk when im with her / and around some other people i feel a lot of pressure to act a certain way that doesn't come naturally to me. but today i kept losing our spot in the crowd and i dropped the dumpling that i was having and i felt my heart drop and i prayed she wouldn't notice. when im nervous about how the other person will perceive me my clumsiness gets worse. she compares me to her 9 year old who can do a lot of things better than me. it's really humiliating. in front of people who make me comfortable i feel like im a lot more confident and less clumsy and i don't have to fake myself which i fine myself constantly doing and it's exhausting. i feel exhausted all the time. like i said, i haven't been diagnosed so im not claiming to be neurodivergent, nor do i think my struggles are in any way comparable to those who have been diagnosed. it's just annoying how tiny behaviors that are different from the average are perceived this way.

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u/SecretTadpole9781 — 2 days ago

I, (18F) and my partner (18 M) want to invest in a long distance app controlled toy. have any of you bought one from an indian brand and did it work? i could use some serious advice on this.

my options are limited bc of my budget. satisfyer and mymuse have good reviews on the site. but i went through the reviews of the app and i got a lot of mixed results. i feel really alone, as an indian woman especially, managing a long distance relationship is tricky. and i want us to make it work, and vibrators are usually a taboo topic so i have no one to seek advice from on indian brands.

i guess all i want to do is reach out to someone who has used these apps and help me figure things out. ive been with my partner for 5 years and i love him and i want to make things work. and this sort of thing makes ldr a lot easier

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u/SecretTadpole9781 — 4 days ago

which toys do i buy for myself (18F) for ldr? he's 18M

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which toy do i get for ldr?

the top one is for clitoral stimulation, but it's more expensive. the bottom two are internal but i wonder if they'll feel good. won't it be like a vibrating tampon? please let me know your experience i could use some advice.

when i masturbate i like clitoral stimulation i never really finger myself on the inside. but i like penetrative sex. since my partner would be controlling it maybe i could like one of the bottom two. they're a lot more affordable.

also, between the bottom two, which one should i use?

u/SecretTadpole9781 — 4 days ago
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i feel physically awful the day after sex. is this normal?

i feel really exhausted and my body feels heavy. my thighs hurt like HELL. they're sore from spreading my legs i can understand that, like it hurts the way a workout does. but god,,, overall my tiredness is insane I can't get out of bed. i feel fine emotionally and i felt great yesterday. it's very strange bc we have missionary sex and i lie down and he does all of the thrusting he should be tired. why am i?

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u/SecretTadpole9781 — 14 days ago

not my whole hair, im not sure but maybe money pieces or something? i have hip length hair and it's hard to manage anyway idk what will look good on me. it's wavy and frizzy so ill have to straighten it to style it. and touchups are expensive i hear ( i live in india) can i do touchups by myself?

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u/SecretTadpole9781 — 15 days ago

tmi but i want my partner to be able to play with them and suck them as they are... but would he only be tasting metal?? after they heal would it make it more difficult for him? what should i be careful about , i want him to feel and taste the skin of my nipple and not just get a metal taste. tmi again im so sorry but doesn't the whole sucking sensation feel weird with a metal nipple piercing?

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u/SecretTadpole9781 — 18 days ago

the college i want to get into (saint xaviers college kolkata ) would release its results on the 16th or 17th of june. for english honours, in christ the session starts from the 8th of june afaik. if i go to christ to secure my backup, I'll have to spend money on flight tickets as well as books and the 30,000 on my pg advance and stay there only for a few days, JUST to go back to Kolkata if i get selected. it's a gamble. but if i stay here, and DON'T get selected, id have missed out on so many classes and my attendance would be cooked and i wouldn't be able to take any more days off after that. what do i do?

sxc kolkata accepts on the basis of marks. i got 98.5% in my 12 boards. i would PROBABLY get in but i can't make a gamble based on a PROBABLY. but it's a lot of money...

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u/SecretTadpole9781 — 21 days ago

i can either stay in kolkata or go to Bangalore. in kolkata I'd be in jadavpur university, presidency, Xavier's, loreto, scottish church college, in bangalore id go to christ university. the thing is, i already got accepted in christ university, central campus too. now idk what's best for me. i want to get a scholarship and try to go abroad for my MA. what do i do?

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u/SecretTadpole9781 — 29 days ago