u/filmmakingjedi

I cant find a single person doing my module soooo For anyone studying A236 in october ive made a facebook group 🎨⭐️

https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19CjmbAkEo/

im feeling like shit atm. My bestie just got into a relationship and im happy for her but i always find it hard to adjust to the new dynamic. Whenever she starts dating someone, every damn time i will spend hours upon hours on dating apps, frantically trying to find a partner. Almost to prove im not a loner or something. Idk i just feel shitty because i want a qpr so i have that connection with someone and i wish i wasnt so bothered by my friends being in relationships.

Like tonight was a solar eclipse which i watched alone, then saw my bestie watching it with her new gf. It just makes me feel like i need to find my person

I hope some of you understand how im feeling. Its hard to put into words. Would love to chat to some fellow aegos

Ughhh im feeling like shit atm. My bestie just got into a relationship and im happy for her but i always find it hard to adjust to the new dynamic. Whenever she starts dating someone, every damn time i will spend hours upon hours on dating apps, frantically trying to find a partner. Almost to prove im not a loner or something. Idk i just feel shitty because i want a qpr so i have that connection with someone and i wish i wasnt so bothered by my friends being in relationships.

Like tonight was a solar eclipse which i watched alone, then saw my bestie watching it with her new gf. It just makes me feel like i need to find my person

I hope some of you understand how im feeling. Its hard to put into words.

My relationship with my sister is very complicated. Technically we are half sisters but i was always raised to just call her my sister as that's how I view her. She is 16 years older than me, and moved out of the family home when I was around 3 or 4. We have never ever been close. I couldn't even tell you her favourite music or what colour she likes to wear. I haven't physically seen her in a bout 3 years now, as I became very chronically ill and now find it hard to meet up with people (im autistic too for more context). We have had periods where she texts me a lot and is really friendly then all of a sudden it stops for months.

Her lifestyle is also not something I want to be involved in. Regular illegal activity, not raising her kids properly etc etc. I am a firm believer in sticky to my morals so haven't wanted much to do with her in quite some time after i discovered what she was up to. It also breaks my heart that we are both disabled and chronically ill and she doesn't think to reach out to me. I desperately wish i had a close bond with her, but I know that will never happen. I dont have the energy to keep chasing her love and friendship, but I really wish i had a proper sister :( Lately it has all been really bothering me but i dont really have anyone to talk to about it, as they wouldnt understand. I just needed to rant and get this off my chest.

If i made a small discord server for chronically ill people aged 21-28 ish would people be interested? I can never find people my age to be friends with.

Im thinking of having channels for

Art and Crafts

Film and TV (maybe a monthly film club?)

Books (maybe a book club?)

Games

General chit chat

Mental Health chat

Chronic Illness Rants

If anyone is interested please let me know. Id love to connect with fellow chronically ill baddies, on a deeper level than just 'oh im ill too' but to actually talk about our interests and get to know eachother!

Im 23 and chronically ill and really lonely atm. Would love to attend some virual events to try and be more social. The only ones i can find are america based

Im 23F and have genuinely never felt this alone in all my life. Im autistic, chronically ill and asexual do ive basically got the loneliness trio. All the friends i do have are long distance which sucks. Recently my friends have all got into relationships and i think this has triggered my intense loneliness. Im really lacking a community, and connection with people. I just dont know what to do with myself. I do distance University too so that doesnt exactly help with forming relationships. There is only so much netflix and switch games that can distract me. I just feel this empty aching inside me and feel like can cant confide in my friends about it. I dont want their pity.

Im feeling so lonely atm. All my friends recently got into relationships and im just here craving a connection with someone. I feel like a spare part. I just want some ace friends who understand. I want a qpr. I just hate feeling like this. Im sure a lot of you relate. How did you get over it

So im 23 and have been wearing pads/liners in my underwear every single day since i was about 11 oe 12. I know this is bad and i really want to improve my vaginal health as im chronically ill and prone to infections i cant fight off.

The reason i started wearing them 24/7 is because Im autistic and the feeling of any dampness in my underwear totally freaks me out and is a sensory nightmare. How can i sort this out/ wean myself off?

Are fabric reusable liners any good? Is there anything else i can try?? I hope there are other people out there like me :(

Im about to start my third year at the ou and im determined to actually make some friends and join in with some events this year. I just feel so alone doing this degree and i cant seem to make friends with anyone. I feel like there are hardly any clubs and societies that are actually active where people can form real friendships.

Does anyone have any tips or advice? Any active clubs that i should join?

​

Basically my bff got into a relationship recently. She has only met this girl 3 or 4 times and they are already officially a couple.

I know thats what most people do, but i just find it so bizarre. How can you date someone that you know hardly anything about? Im really trying hard not to judge her as i know its a normal thing to do. But i just cant wrap my head around it and im worried i sound judgemental when she talks to me about it.

Has anyone else had a situation like this?

Basically my bff got into a relationship recently. She has only met this girl 3 or 4 times and they are already officially a couple.

I know thats what most people do, but i just find it so bizarre. How can you date someone that you know hardly anything about? Im really trying hard not to judge her as i know its a normal thing to do. But i just cant wrap my head around it and im worried i sound judgemental when she talks to me about it.

Has anyone else had a situation like this?

Anyone know how to avoid diarrhea and thrush while taking antibiotics?? They usually cause havoc to my bowels and case a mini flare and im going away next week so really cant be dealing with those symptoms.

Really worried and need to make sure im prepared and have things with me while i am away

Has anyone been diagnosed with occipital neuralgia? I think that could be what my eye and head pain has been. A few floxies on facebook seem to have it too

I went to a gig last night (first trip out since november)! It was all seated so i was relieved and it was going great until the band asked everyone to stand up. The last half an hour everyone was stood and i had no choice but to stand. If i sat i couldn't see a thing, and i hadnt paid money to go and sit and stare at peoples backs and not see the band for half the show. I was really frustrated and in pain.

Now its the morning after and im in crippling pain. Everything aches and hurts. I feel horrendous. I hate my body, most people dont feel his awful after going out, so why must i? Just feeling really lousy and disappointed this morning:(

Has this happened to anyone else before?

So ive booked a trip to Monmouth to visit some locations.

So far on my list is:

• Puzzlewood

• Speech house lake

• Clearwell caves

• Raglan Castle

Just wondering if there is anything else i should see or do? Anything to keep my eye out for in that area?

The day has come, im officially the only single one out of all my friends. I feel really weird about it. My best friend just got a girlfriend and it makes me feel weird. I hadnt come out to her about being aroace yet and now i feel like its going to be even harder to talk to her about stuff.

I genuinely hope she is happy but idk the whole thing makes me feel weird and i know it will put a distance in out relationship now that she has a girlfriend.

I already feel incredibly lonely at the moment, and this is just another thing ill have to deal with alone.

Anyone have any advice on how to deal with this? I just need a hug tbh :(