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After the sad passing of Hayden I was randomly reminded of this game I used to play as a girl (somewhere between 2008-2012 likely) where I remember Hayden being one of the choices you could play as or dress her up or something? It wasn’t a game about Hayden herself, there were multiple girls to choose from and one option was Hayden. I used to play on GirlsGoGames all the time so I’d imagine it was a dress up makeover style game on that platform. Can anyone remember the name of this game?

EDIT: unfortunately it wasn’t stardoll! There was only 3 girls as options and one was Hayden

I can remember every little thing people tell me, faces, names, I even remember the birthdays of everyone in my primary school class despite not seeing some of them in 15 years. But then if someone tells me can u wash up (doing dishes for any Americans) after dinner then there is no chance I will remember to do that unless I write it down on my huge to do list. Why is this?

I met my best friend online but we now video-call and text each other all the time. We have become best friends and it is so lovely to finally find a friend who I can be totally myself with and we tell each other everything. However I can only seem to really feel this way over text which I know makes sense because it’s much slower and easy to hide away. Whenever we call I suddenly feel awkward and flustered and the relationship feels different. I’m meeting her in person this week and I’m worried I’ll be a panicky mess the whole time. I just wish I could have a normal comfortable in person friendship like everyone else instead of my comfort being limited to texting. It also makes me concerned for when I start to date because I simply can’t imagine being comfortable and unmasked with someone enough to be in a relationship and see them all the time.

Mon - 🐍Rep - feels like the badass anthems u need for acing the start of the week
Tue - ✉️poets - Tuesday was always the most depressing day for me - the novelty and motivation of Monday has gone and u r left to drag urself through the week
Wed - 🩷lover - not really sure how to describe this one I just feel like lover feels happy and should sit in the middle of the week
Thu - 🌧️fearless - schoolday vibes and feels a pretty fun day because ur getting ready for the weekend to start
Fri - 🕰️midnights - could fit with the party late night vibes of a Friday evening but also the quiet and isolated feeling of the end of a distracting week where suddenly u have nothing to do but think
Sat - ❤️‍🔥Showgirl - busy, party, sparkly, fun vibes
Sun - ☕️evermore - Sunday scaries but also a chill peaceful vibe with a cup of tea and a blanket

My top 5:
Back to friends
Crushing
Weak
Undressed
Would’ve been you

My top 5:
Sports car
Stay done
Chaotic
Dear god
I know love

1. Drive
2. Chateau
3. Sex and the city
4. I like to touch people
5. Sue me

The Melodies are so similar I’m assuming Aaron brought this up when recording but they are so similar I’ve been singing I hate it here over the top of death wish

EDIT: I’ve copied and pasted this to replies to help people understand the similarity so just thought I’ll pop it here now anyway!

If you wait till the intro instrumental is done and then sing the 4 words ‘I hate it here’ at the same time as ‘My love, you love’ you’ll get into the same melody. (I hope this is the right term I’m not a music expert lol!) Also if you sing the ‘Lucid dreams like electricity the current flies through me’ bridge when u get to ‘And way up there I actually love it…. How will it end? How long will you give me?’
Same if you sing the chorus of death wish and start I hate it here chorus immediately so for example ‘you don’t look the same when I look at you now hate it here so I will go to secret gardens in my mind….’ If you sing ‘NOW’ in the same way Taylor sings ‘I’ then it fits and flows into it 😂🩷

This month I started to get light brown discharge on let’s call this ‘Day 1’ (which I usually count as day 1 of my period), it continues then on day 3 and 4 it becomes black light flow blood. On day 5 it finally became red blood, proper flow and this always coincides with severe cramping which I usually get for one day sometimes two and then it becomes milder. Usually this pain and proper red blood day happens on day 3 but this week is day 5. What do u think counts as day 1? When the first sign of period starts or when the pain and red blood finally kicks in?!

So many! I wonder why she loves numbers and dates as titles

1999
Feb 2017
2099
7 years
360
365
B2b
SS26
2007
3am
ILY2
Track 10
5 in the morning
C2.0
Party 4 u

For me I’d say:

1. Carrie - Spring
2. Miranda - Autumn
3. Charlotte - Winter
4. Samantha - Summer

I think I would choose Honeymoon because it’s my favourite album and I think the visuals would be stunning. Or I’d pick Chemtrails because I loved the Chemtrails music video and I think there’s a lot of good storytelling and themes to include in a short film eg the fame side of things, the breakup, the road trip through the Midwest and her desire to be more domestic etc

1. That’s so true
2. Risk
3. Feels like
4. Broke my heart 🔥💔
5. I love you I’m sorry

I’m fully aware there will be lots of disagreement on this and that’s totally fine seeing as either option can have a bad impact - unfortunately it feels like a lose-lose situation! Buttttt…. From my own experience or chronic SIBO (a small intestine illness) for 10 years now I will be doing everything I can to ensure my future kids have a varied healthy diet and don’t end up with this misery!

Yes there is the risk that if you force your kid to try to eat fruits/veg they don’t like they may end up with mental related food issues later down the line. However I think as someone who was a majorly fussy eater as a child I would be willing to take that risk if I could go back and parent myself. I’m not blaming my mum at all, she thought her kids would grow out of fussy eating so she never wanted dinner times to be a battle to get us to eat healthy foods. But now that my lack of diet diversity led to my SIBO, I’m really wishing she had said to us no TV etc until you eat some veg!😂😅

My microbiome is messed up and SIBO has cost me everything - I can’t work, can’t have a social life, can’t date, can’t try new foods. There is no straight forward treatment and after years of treatments I am still not close to being cured. I never want my future kids to go through this so I would probably take a much stricter approach when it comes to eating healthy when I’m a parent myself.

⚠️By the way please don’t see this post as me thinking that just taking away the TV will get an ARFID kid to eat their dinner!😂 My younger brother has been even worse with ARFID than I have and he has rarely ever been convinced to try anything but I do feel my mum could’ve been a bit stricter on him as a child (and me!) when it comes to eating. From my own experience having to adjust my diet it is far harder to tackle food fears and change ur diet when ur in ur 20s and now have a gut that reacts badly to anything healthy 🥲 Argh hindsight is a wonderful thing haha!

⚠️EDIT; just wanted to be clear when I say be stricter im not talking literally forcing people to eat food because I don’t agree with that at all, I just means using more incentives than just saying ‘that’s ok don’t eat ur food then’ like reducing screen time or not allowing dessert or whatever. 🩷

My top 5: (1-5)
Just dance
Joanne
Killah
Beautiful dirty rich
Garden of eden

Mine are:

1. Lucid
2. Carry the weight
3. Safeword
4. So good stripped
5. Roman holiday

I thought I’d ask on here seeing as we all have autism and adhd and that may cause a difference in people’s experiences!