anyone else dealing with skin barrier issues while switching to only certified organic?

I have been trying to transition my entire routine to products that are fully certified organic. I am having a really hard time finding something that actually repairs my barrier without just sitting on top of the skin.

I recently started testing out a few things from mukti organics. So far the botanical actives seem to be working, but I am curious if anyone else here has used them long term?

Also, would love to hear what other brands you guys actually trust for barrier repair that aren't just greenwashed. I am really trying to avoid stuff that claims to be natural but is loaded with synthetics.

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 13 hours ago

australia trip planning

heading to australia in a few weeks for about 2 weeks and trying to sort accommodation without overpaying. i found some nice apartments and holiday homes through bnb booking that looked good value with direct booking.

what booking sites or software do you usually use for trips like this? any that are better for finding decent places without crazy fees? open to suggestions.

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 15 hours ago
▲ 10 r/Design

Why do so many everyday products have terrible information hierarchy on their labels?

Been noticing this a lot lately. Pick up almost any cleaning product, medicine, or packaged food and the most important information is buried. The brand name is massive, the product type is readable, but then the stuff you actually need like dosage, warnings, or usage instructions is crammed into the smallest possible text in the lowest contrast color on the package.

It feels like labels are designed to sell the product on a shelf rather than help the person who already bought it. Which makes sense from a marketing angle but creates a genuinely frustrating experience the moment you get home.

The interesting tension is that good hierarchy here isn't really about aesthetics. It's about function. A well designed label should probably deprioritize the logo once it's in someone's hands. The context of use completely changes what matters visually.

I keep coming back to things like the old Penguin book covers or even pharmaceutical packaging in some European countries where the information priority actually shifts based on who needs what and when.

Has anyone worked on packaging or label design where you had to push back on a client about this? Or noticed a product that actually gets the hierarchy right? Curious whether this is a brief problem, a client problem, or just an industry habit nobody questions anymore.

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 21 hours ago

Husband claims he lost clients. I think he's hiding money…

I filed for divorce last month. My husband is self-employed and he always made good money. When we were together, we almost never had any finacial troubles

Now suddenly he says half his clients are gone. He claims he can't pay as much child support as before. The numbers don't add up. But I think he's hiding income

I work part-time and I'm barely making ends meet. Paying the bills is a struggle. I can't afford an expensive lawyer who charges hourly

Found child custody lawyers Colorado and offer fixed fees for child custody and support cases. No hourly billing. Sounds more manageable. But I'm worried they won't dig deep enough with my problem and wanna ask, will they actually go after his hidden income? Or will they just take what he says at face value?

As I said he's self-employed. He could be transferring money anywhere. I need someone who will fight to find the truth. But I also can't go bankrupt paying for it

u/ponderingpixi17 — 1 day ago

As AI handles more routine tasks, will physical retail spaces transform into purely social and experiential hubs within 15 years?

Walk through any big box store today and you already see the early signs. Selfcheckout replaced cashiers, apps replaced floor associates, and inventory robots cruise the aisles overnight. But the stores are still there, still packed on weekends. That tells me something interesting is happening that pure ecommerce predictions missed.

My hunch is that physical retail is not dying, it is mutating. Once AI and automation absorb all the transactional friction, what is left is the human desire to be somewhere, around other people, touching things, having an experience a screen cannot replicate. Stores may stop being places you go to buy things and start being places you go to feel something.

Think about what that actually means at scale. Real estate repurposed around social rituals instead of inventory. Staff whose entire job is hospitality and expertise rather than restocking shelves. The economic model flips from product margin to experience subscription or foot traffic as a service.

The parallel to robot companions is real here. We keep predicting humans will retreat from physical space, but the data keeps suggesting we find new reasons to show up in person. The question is whether retailers and city planners are actually modeling for that future or still building for one that already passed.

What does physical community space look like in 2040 when AI handles everything transactional?

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 2 days ago

As AI handles more routine tasks, will physical retail spaces transform into purely social and experiential hubs within 15 years?

Walk through any big box store today and you already see the early signs. Selfcheckout replaced cashiers, apps replaced floor associates, and inventory robots cruise the aisles overnight. But the stores are still there, still packed on weekends. That tells me something interesting is happening that pure ecommerce predictions missed.

My hunch is that physical retail is not dying, it is mutating. Once AI and automation absorb all the transactional friction, what is left is the human desire to be somewhere, around other people, touching things, having an experience a screen cannot replicate. Stores may stop being places you go to buy things and start being places you go to feel something.

Think about what that actually means at scale. Real estate repurposed around social rituals instead of inventory. Staff whose entire job is hospitality and expertise rather than restocking shelves. The economic model flips from product margin to experience subscription or foot traffic as a service.

The parallel to robot companions is real here. We keep predicting humans will retreat from physical space, but the data keeps suggesting we find new reasons to show up in person. The question is whether retailers and city planners are actually modeling for that future or still building for one that already passed.

What does physical community space look like in 2040 when AI handles everything transactional?

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 2 days ago

Anyone know any decent martial arts gyms around the coast that are actually good for beginners?

meaning to get back into training for a while now. used to do a bit of karate as a kid and some boxing in my early 20s but its been years and honestly im pretty out of shape. Thought about just joining a regular gym but thats so boring and I know I wont stick with it

looking around the coast for somewhere to train but the options seem kinda limited compared to Sydney. Theres a few places but im not sure which ones are legit and which ones are just gonna take my money and not actually teach me anything useful. Also im a bit nervous cause I havent trained in ages and im worried about just getting thrown in with a bunch of experienced guys and getting destroyed lol

A mate of mine from work lives in Sydney and he trains at some place in Five Dock called Team Perosh MMA or something. He keeps telling me to just drive down and train there but thats like an hour and a half each way. No way im doing that multiple times a week. But he says the vibe is good for beginners which made me wonder if theres anything similar up here

I'm not trying to be a fighter or anything, just wanna get fit, learn some useful skills, maybe do some sparring eventually but nothing crazy. Anyone know any places that are beginner friendly and know what theyre doing? Preferably around Gosford or Erina but im open to driving a bit if its worth it

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 3 days ago

How do you explain a gap in your resume when you were doing freelance or creative work the whole time?

Four years into a corporate role and I've been freelancing on the side the whole time. Design work, some photography, small client projects here and there. Nothing massive but consistent enough that I've built a real portfolio and a handful of paying clients over that stretch.

Here's my problem. I'm starting to look at roles that blend both worlds, think inhouse creative at a company, brand strategy, even some UX adjacent work. But when I look at my resume, that freelance work looks scattered. Different clients, different project types, no single thread that makes it look intentional to someone scanning for five seconds.

I've talked to a few people who dismissed the freelance side entirely and only focused on the corporate experience. That feels like hiding the thing that actually makes me different from other candidates.

Has anyone successfully framed freelance or side creative work in a way that actually landed well in interviews? Did you list it as a business, group it under a single title, or weave it into your cover letter instead?

Also curious whether hiring managers here have seen this done well or badly. What made the difference?

I don't want to oversell it but I also don't want to bury the most interesting part of my background just to look more conventional on paper.

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 3 days ago

One small daily habit that quietly rebuilt my focus and creativity over time

For a long time I kept waiting for big blocks of free time to do anything meaningful. Learn something new, finish a project, actually sit and think. That time never showed up on its own.

What actually helped was shrinking the commitment down to something almost embarrassing. Twenty minutes a day, same time, no pressure to produce anything good. Some days it was sketching rough ideas. Some days it was reading something completely unrelated to anything practical. Some days it was just sitting quietly and letting thoughts settle.

After a few weeks I noticed my mind felt less scattered during the rest of the day. Not because I was meditating or optimizing anything. Just because I had given it one small window where nothing was urgent.

The creative stuff started flowing more easily too. Not because I forced it, but because I had stopped starving that part of my brain entirely.

I think a lot of people here are trying to overhaul everything at once and burning out before anything sticks. The boring, unsexy version works better. Pick one tiny thing. Do it daily. Let it be imperfect. Then watch what builds around it over months.

Curious what small daily habits have actually stuck for others here, and what made them different from the ones that faded out after two weeks.

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 4 days ago

Found a local brand that actually saved my winter skin barrier

I wanted to share a little realization I had because my skin has been so incredibly itchy and irritated lately with the weather changing. I was using those standard drugstore body washes for the longest time, but I noticed they were just leaving my skin feeling super tight and uncomfortable right out of the shower. Instead of going out and buying another expensive lotion to fix it, I decided to shop my own closet first. My sister had actually given me a couple of handmade bars from a local soap maker a few months ago that I completely forgot about. I started using them this week and it made me realize how much sweeter and gentler traditional, tallow-based soaps are compared to heavy commercial gels. It honestly felt like a little act of self-care, and my skin barrier is already feeling so much softer and happier. Sometimes we get so caught up in complicated routines when our bodies just want something simple and natural. Hope you all are treating yourselves kindly today and giving your skin some love!

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 4 days ago

Does hiking actually count as a real workout or am I just fooling myself?

So I've been hiking trails around Austin pretty regularly and I genuinely look forward to it in a way I never did with the gym. The problem is I always feel this nagging guilt that it's not a "real" workout because I'm not lifting weights or running on a treadmill or following some structured program.

I track my hikes and I'm talking 6 to 10 miles with real elevation change, heart rate up for a couple hours, legs sore the next day. But I still feel like people would laugh if I said hiking was my main form of fitness.

For beginners especially there's this pressure to do things a very specific way. Barbells, macros, progressive overload. If you're not doing that, you're not serious about it.

My honest question is whether anyone else uses hiking or other outdoor activity as their main workout, and whether it's actually produced real results over time. I'm not trying to get huge, just stay lean, have energy, and actually enjoy the process, because consistency has always been my weak point. Would love to hear what has worked for people who hate the traditional gym grind.

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 4 days ago

spent my whole lunch break measuring the hallway to see if we can even get this thing through the door

so we got approved for a mobile outreach unit and i'm supposed to be excited but honestly i'm just stressed

the building we're based out of was built in like 1950 and nothing makes sense. the hallways are narrow, the doorways are weird, and i spent my entire lunch break today with a tape measure trying to figure out if we can actually get the vehicle into the loading bay without taking out a wall

i'm not even the facilities person. i'm just the one who gets asked can you check this because nobody else wants to deal with it

but anyway the real problem is getting admin to agree on anything. one person wants a bigger unit, another wants something compact, and nobody wants to compromise. it's like watching people argue about pizza toppings except the pizza costs 200 grand

i'm just tired and i want this to be over

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 4 days ago

Bounty hunter leather hat - a year long-term review

https://preview.redd.it/dubkh3eca3bh1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=c00b0986358fe9cdca6e343a9f90cb44bbb4bda9

When I was trying to find a decent, heavy-duty leather sun hat for hiking, it was incredibly hard to find honest, long-term reviews here about how they handle real abuse over time. Plenty of unboxing stuff and initial thoughts out there, but nobody talking about if they survive a couple of seasons. So since I've been beating mine up for a full year now, figured I’d drop a quick write-up.

My girlfriend got me the Bounty Hunter style in brown for Christmas back then. Think it cost around $120 or so at the time with tax. The thing is great. True to size out of the box. The brim is way stiffer than I thought it would be, but it works perfectly for keeping the sun off my face and neck. My old go-to was a basic cheap straw hat that literally fell apart after one summer, so this is on a whole different level.

It’s been through pouring rain, mud, and intense heat with zero real issues. I don’t baby it at all, just throw it in the back of the truck when I'm done. The chin strap has a bit of fraying now (probably from my dog chewing on it for a second), and the inner band has some loose threads near the front edge, looks like they might unravel but they haven't given out yet. Simple enough to stitch up later, no big deal. Apart from that minor wear, the main leather structure is solid. It got completely soaked in a downpour last month and dried out perfectly without losing its form or shrinking.

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 4 days ago

dscr loans pros, cons, and where they actually fit in a long-term strategy?(Texas, USA)

i’ve been trying to better understand DSCR loans from a planning perspective in Texas, not just as a financing tool for a single deal.

on paper, they seem very efficient compared to conventional mortgages since underwriting is primarily based on property cash flow rather than personal income. that obviously removes a lot of friction, especially for investors who don’t fit neatly into w2-based qualification models. but i’m trying to understand how this actually plays out in practice over time.

for those with experience using dscr financing, how do you evaluate it beyond the initial convenience? specifically interested in:

  • long-term cost of capital compared to conventional financing (rates, fees, refinancing flexibility)
  • how lenders treat rent assumptions vs actual lease performance over time
  • how scalable it is when building a portfolio vs being deal-specific
  • any structural limitations that show up after multiple properties or refinances

i’m also trying to decide how this fits into allocation decisions. for example, whether it makes more sense to use dscr for scaling into larger properties or multifamily earlier, instead of deploying capital into smaller sfr deals first.

would appreciate any insights from people who’ve actually used it as part of a broader portfolio strategy rather than just for a single acquisition.

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 5 days ago

this painting is single handedly giving me major travel fomo

I've never really been someone who cared about traveling overseas, international flights sound like a nightmare and I've always just preferred road trips or staying close to home. But I've been working on the "Italian Coast" kit from painting by numbers shop for the last few weeks, and staring at these vibrant blue waters and cliffside flowers every night is genuinely doing something to my brain. The colors in this kit are so vivid that every time I finish a section, I just sit there wishing I was actually walking down a stone path in Europe somewhere instead of sitting at my kitchen table.

I’m only about halfway done with the ocean and the little sailboats, but it’s turning out so beautiful that I think I’m actually going to have to frame this one when it's finished, will update the post with the final result!

Have any of you painted a place that made you obsessed with wanting to visit it in real life? Because I'm unironically looking up Amalfi Coast travel vlogs now and i'm scared of how obsessed i am ..

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 6 days ago

How do you choose the most suitable RA for a small business?

I have seen a few posts recently where people ask recommendations about registered agents and I have been thinking about my own situation.

I have recently switched to an LLC myself and have been looking for an RA to keep everything separated from my personal stuff. I do most of the work myself and i needed something simple just for the compliance side of things. When looking for RAs in my state, I’ve seen that most of them operate nationwide, meaning that even if I move away, I don’t have to change anything in this regard, which is great.

Some of the most popular options here include Northwest, Incorp, and ZenBusiness from what I’ve seen. I am just curious, what makes people make these choices. Is it about the price, or do they have any special bundles they offer, or what is actually behind these choices?

Now, the most important bit, after using a company for all these services, what actually matters the most in practice long-term?

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 8 days ago

How do academics actually manage keeping up with literature in a fastmoving field?

I'm curious how people in active research fields realistically stay on top of new publications without it becoming a second fulltime job. From the outside it seems almost impossible to read everything relevant, especially in fields where preprints are dropping constantly alongside peerreviewed journals.

I'm a grad student adjacent to academia and I've been watching how faculty and postdocs in my department operate. Some have a very systematic approach, others rely mostly on what colleagues share or what comes up in lab meetings. A few seem to just skim abstracts and only do deep reads when something is directly relevant to their current project.

My specific questions: Do you use particular tools or workflows, like RSS feeds, journal alerts, or apps like Semantic Scholar or Connected Papers? How often do you actually do a proper literature review versus just staying passively aware? And does the pressure to keep up ever feel unsustainable, or do you eventually find a rhythm?

I'm mostly asking from a research workflow and academic culture angle, not looking for productivity app recommendations as such. More interested in how people have adapted their habits over the course of their careers and what actually works in practice.

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 8 days ago

what has been your favorite hunting experience so far

i have been hunting for about 12 years now mostly whitetail deer and some turkey back home in the states. it started as something i did with my dad and over time it turned into one of my favorite ways to get outdoors and clear my head. the planning the early mornings and the quiet moments in the woods all add up to something special.

my favorite hunt so far was a moose trip i did up in the yukon with macmillan river adventures. the country was wild the guides knew the area inside out and seeing a big bull come in during the rut was something i will never forget. what has been your all time favorite hunting experience?

u/ponderingpixi17 — 9 days ago
▲ 20 r/nsw

why are strata fees in nsw such a mystery

lived in qld before moving to sydney. strata fees here are like double what i paid up there and the buildings not even nicer.

our quarterly bill just hit 1800 bucks for a basic 2 bedder. no pool no gym no lifts. when i asked what the money actually covers the manager sent me a one page summary with like 5 lines on it. admin fund sinking fund insurance and then a big chunk just labelled other.

asked for a proper breakdown and got told i need to submit a formal request and pay a fee for the paperwork. seriously.

is this just how nsw works or did i end up in a building with a shit manager. anyone else feel like the whole system is designed to keep owners in the dark

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 10 days ago

Why is freelance experience still treated like a gap?

The freelance work is real, the clients come back, referrals happen, and the portfolio is something I'm genuinely proud of. The problem is every time I try to translate that into a traditional job application, something breaks down. Hiring managers see gaps or weird job titles and seem to stop reading. They want a linear story with recognizable company names, not actual work I can show them.

I've tried leading with the portfolio link in my cover letter. I've tried reframing freelance as consulting on my resume. Sometimes it lands. More often it disappears into a black hole.

What I keep wondering is whether the issue is how I'm presenting it, or whether certain industries and roles are just structurally biased against nontraditional paths regardless of output quality.

Has anyone successfully made the leap from freelance or side work into a fulltime creative or hybrid role where the portfolio actually got you in the door? What changed your approach? Was it the format, the industry you targeted, or something about how you talked about the work in interviews?

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u/ponderingpixi17 — 11 days ago