u/Effective_Space2277

Long story short, I and my ex was at birthday party yesterday, I couldn’t drive home, I needed to get home to let my dog out to potty, my ex volunteered to take me home, once we got home, I took my dog out, and we killed a bottle of jack I had left. I get erected a lot when I get drunk, don’t know why but I do, I believed I blacked out and I woke up with her on top of me rocking back and forth, I never do it without a condom so of course I was disappointed and I was in a new relationship at the time so I wanted to be loyal at all cost.

Was this considered as rape? Most of my friends said no, a woman can’t rape a man. wtf

I have PR and will be moving to Canada soon.

Recently, I talked to a Canadian expat in my country. He mentioned that I should get a job as in the public sector as I speak French. He also said that it’s required by law that government services are provided in both English and French, so some public servants will have to take French immersion classes in Quebec for a year before take over certain posts.

I will probably continue to work in my field of work. But out of curiosity, how well do public servants speak French? And how do they know that someone is fluent enough to use French at work?

Edit: No, I’m NOT going to work in the public sector. I just asked this question out of curiosity and already have a career I love. If you are so upset about immigrants taking your jobs, contact your government. I already wrote in the post that I won’t work as a public servant, but people who can’t read keep assuming that way.