u/Electronic_Crab_531

My grandfather had his palms read a long time ago and what he was told about my father and his family was very insightful.

I'm coming up to a crossroads in my life within the next 4 months, so I thought I would give it a shot too.

I'm looking for insight on romances / marriage, my career / academics, and anything else you might be able to discern.

Thank you.

EDIT: SIDES POSTED IN COMMENTS.

Natural emotions are very push and pull (seen natally for me). My current relationship has had its ups and downs but at the moment I'm convinced that it has to see it's end before I graduate. But I could change my mind tomorrow. Just seeing what the stars say.

My interpretation: Me (Saturn) in opposition to Venus (exalted love), both squaring Mars (debilitated action), pointing to Mars in a t-square shows that I'll continue to bear the pressure.

Venus in 7H moving into 8H signaling death of the relationship? Leo stellium in 6H containing Sun (ruler of 7H / relationship) indicates a labor to go through (presumably the break up) as well as a focus on health and myself (Saturn trine domicile Sun) consistent with letting go as it's stressing me out. Indicates awareness of the issue, but since Mars is in fall and doesn't aspect Sun, shows that maybe action won't happen just yet.

***I'm aware that astrology isn't responsible for relationships and decisions that I need to make myself, I'm just all over the place rn and trying not to let my own thoughts and impulsivity consume me.

I lost it between September 1 2025 and October 31 2025. I believe it's somewhere between my old apartment and the nearby bus stop, as I put my rings in my pocket to do the dishes. Then as I was walking to the drop, I pulled them out to put them back on, but I was missing this specific ring.

It means a lot to me (my mom has had it since 7the grade and gave it to me in 7th grade) and I'd do anything to have it back. It's a gold ring with a center rotating ring. The outer ring is "ribbed" and the inner ring has bumps surrounding a golden cross.

According to a horary astrology chart I cast, it's most likely in the apartment. Thank you!

I desire marriage but I am never satisfied in love with partners. Does my chart point to delays? When / where would I meet them? Is it someone I know already?

Career wise, will I travel? Will I be fulfilled or will I have a career change?

Will I have continuous close friends or will I keep making and leaving them with each stage in my life?

RECAST CHART FOR TODAY, NOT WHEN I LOST IT.

I lost my mom's ring between inside my old apartment and the bus stop. Took it off to do dishes and put it in my pocket, when I took out my other rings to put them on while making the walk to the bus stop, it wasn't there any more.

My guess: With the ASC ruler Mars (me) in fall but moving towards the ruler of the object (2H Gemini: Mercury), I am a little hopeful. The kite points towards the object as well, signaling a positive outlook for the ring. In the fixed sign Leo, this indicates that the ring is in a fixed spot and won't easily be moved at this moment, pointing to it being within the apartment. However, the Moon, in the same house and sign as Mercury is moving away from Mercury. The heavy presence of trines, sextiles, and the kite in this chart give me hope that the ring will be found.

It's deeply meaningful to me and I'd do anything to get it back. Please help me interpret this chart and see where to search for / if I'll get it back. My old roommate still lives in that building so I can search for it. Thank you!

Inspired by Livvia's latest horary post and wanted to ask for help since I've basically exhausted all options.

I lost my mom's ring between inside my old apartment and the bus stop. Took it off to do dishes and put it in my pocket, when I took out my other rings to put them on while making the walk to the bus stop, it wasn't there any more. Chart cast for the moment that I called my roommates bf to check for it when I realized I lost it.

It's deeply meaningful to me and I'd do anything to get it back. Please help me interpret this chart and see where to search for / if I'll get it back. My old roommate still lives in that building so I can search for it. Thank you!

He keeps popping up in my life like it's whackamole and I need it to stop. Please. Nothing is working.

Not in a shady way, he's just not the one for me. I'll take general tips too.

Background:

This Virgo guy and I met through a project while I was dating a Gemini guy. I ended things with the Gemini over his actions and incompatibility in the long run. Virgo swopped in on the opportunity and I told him to chill out. Revisited it later and we got together because there was a sense of magnetism and amazing conversation. I didn't agree with him on everything but I liked hearing him think and it was refreshing.

The relationship:

I love him and we click well enough. The sex is really really good. When we spend time together on an activity I have so much fun. I don't like that I feel like I need to tell him things but that's on my communication too. The conversations we used to have in the beginning faded out which sucks but it's because I don't enjoy disagreeing with him on debate since it turns into an argument. Most days with him are slow and calm.

I know he loves me in his actions and what he does but at the same time it isn't always very positive for me. He tries to increase my life's efficiency and make things easier for me. However his idea of easier isn't always easier for me and I constantly feel like I'm failing his expectations for how things should be. It doesn't make me sad but it makes me angry. But I know he cares because he takes care of the small things for me.

He loves to be close and I need my space. I don't want to feel like he's enroaching on my time or my space. I carve out time for him in my life but I need time to do my own shit too. He doesn't think I dedicate enough time to him when I have it, but that's because I need time to be my own self too. He frequently complains I treat him like another friend and not a partner, but to me a relationship is friendship premium.

The problem:

I feel like he has high expectations of me and an idea of what he wants me to be, but I'm a very go with the flow and impulsive person. I don't like being put on a path and at the end of the day I'm selfish. I value my goals and my ideas over anything and anyone else. I feel like he wants me to prioritize him in my approach too, and I don't think it's unreasonable to want that as a partner but I don't see myself doing it. At the same time, when he pisses me off my brain loves the adrenaline rush and I keep going back no matter how many times I think I need to end it.

The question:

I don't want to settle anything or calm my energy right now but I know I will in the future, and things will match better then. Do I stick it out? I'm not relationship focused on many aspects, but my primary benefit is that I enjoy having someone to go to at the end of the day that I can ground myself with and he's good for that, responsible, and loving. I just don't want to keep torturing him by doing whatever the hell I want for a bit and having both of us deal with that fallout. But I'll go crazy if I try to suppress my energy. I think that him having an outlet for his energy like work in the future would be great because it'll pull me out of the spotlight, which is what we need.

It simply seems very odd to me

Last slide is the chart overlay between my natal and D9.

I love him dearly... I need all the help I can get in understanding him. 12H Saturn in detriment, 2H-8H SN-NN, whatever TF is going on in that 1H Virgo???

I'm blue. Aries has Taurus ASC, Sagittarius has Pisces ASC, Scorpio has Aries ASC.

I'm blue. Aries has Taurus ASC, Sagittarius has Pisces ASC, Scorpio has Aries ASC.