u/Embarrassed-Ad-6396

hey all. i’m a 21 year old girl and have never really had super close friends, more so aquaintences. i’ve always been quite girly but never had any friends that shared the same girly interests (shopping, fragrance, clothes, dressing up, makeup, shoes etc.)

one of my favourite shows is the girls next door and i so badly want to constantly be around fellow girls that are always down to dress up, help do eachothers hair and have fun. i yearn for that sisterhood that comes with close female friendships. i haven’t felt it in a while and i miss it, but im scared. i want to find a version of this in my area but don’t know how to go about it.

im from a small town and not in college. i am more creative so i never went, but college is the only thing i could imagine to get close to what i want. my acquaintances/friends from high school all just recently graduated college so i cant even go visit them either.

i almost wish i could’ve gone to college just for the social benefits but i am from a small canadian town and the nearest community college is an hour ish away, and i wouldnt want to move out to study something im not 100% about. even the idea of a sorority seems interesting for the womanly/community part of it, allthough i hear some sorority girls can be not very friendly. i want to have the fun college experience with fun girl friends but i don’t know how to get it.

i am also quite isolated and tend to isolate myself in times of stress. i find it hard to get get myself out even tho i want to and want to create these memories for myself, especially because im young. i want to be having more fun than i am. does anyone have any tips on how to achieve this? thank you ❤️

i (f21) graduated in 2022 with no expectations of going to college. i’ve always been more creative and could never see myself going away to school for a subject i didn’t 100% want to learn. i have thought of taking smaller online courses just to keep busy and scratch that creative itch, but i also feel like if im going to take a course i want to use it to my advantage and take something from an accredited school and to help with future job applications.

i am canadian also if that is any help to you all. i looked at queens and they have no online courses + are two hours away haha. thank you in advance.

hey. i’m a 4w3 sx/sp 497 woman who was ghosted by a 9w8 sp/sx 947 man. i’m 21 and he’s 22 and we are both isfps. he was the first guy i had ever genuinely liked and wanted as a partner. i really admired and respected him. the same strong feelings were reciprocated for the first time in my life. everything was perfect besides distance but he ghosted randomly one day i’ve never heard from him since. towards the end he became short and a little more reclusive.

i feel like i may have pushed him away asking too many questions about himself. i even feel embarrassed to type that out but i found him so fascinating and was bad never been so curious about someone before. i know 9s don’t love or sometimes don’t know how to share things but i worry i built up resentment/annoyance in him so he just ghosted. it’s been a little over a year and im still torn up about it. never in my sx 4 life have i liked someone like him. i worry i may never find another sweet supportive soft romantic 9 like him.

lately i’ve been watching more movies in an attempt to distract myself but i still follow him on letterboxd and every single movie i click on he’s either seen or wants to see. so most movies i’m watching with him in the back of my mind for 1-2 hours. he’s been on my mind more because of this and it’s been driving me crazy. i have a lot of film related questions i want to ask him too since he loves film more than me.

but i so badly want to reach back out to him. i don’t even care if we don’t end up together romantically, i just hate not being to not communicate with him at all. i am okay with things not being serious like they used to be. i just want to be able to send him an instagram reel here and there and if that’s our relationship that’s okay with me. i just miss having contact with him. i wish there was a way to communicate this to him in a way that is simple and doesn’t scare him off.

i’m also terrified of putting myself back out there with the chance of being rejected or ignored or him the possibility of him being rude (he never was im just scared.) i really just miss him and have been ruminating about this for weeks now. any help and advice would be appreciated. thank you.

i’m a woman but want to smell like a bad boy. something dark mysterious and sexy. i have a sample of oud wood by tom ford that kinda scratches the darkness itch for me. i have a sample of ombré leather coming soon but im wondering what else could fit this vibe but still smell nice on a woman? any fragrance or note ideas?

i’m a woman but want to smell like a bad boy. something dark mysterious and sexy. i have a sample of oud wood by tom ford that kinda scratches the darkness itch for me. i have a sample of ombré leather coming soon but im wondering what else could fit this vibe but still smell nice on a woman? any fragrance or note ideas?

asking as an isfp. i notice some of my favourite movies have istps as the main characters (drive, southpaw, the place beyond the pines) my dad is an istp and i think maybe subconsciously they remind me of him. but what are everyone’s favourite main character istps? 🖤

please tell me if i’m imagining this lmfao or if it’s real but i swear in one of scrims solo songs he says something related to the goofy movie. something about max and roxanne? i remember reading the lyrics on genius and seeing the photo of goofy and his wife but i cannot remember which song this is from. anyone know?

i just tried to create a new collection on the app but can’t seem to be able to. i thought maybe i need to delete one to make room but its still not working. does anyone know how to fix this or has noticed this?