28F here, married to 29M for a year now. Recently got sent to my parents house permanently and husband just sent a divorce notice from his lawyer. Need to know how to go about if we request for a reconciliation
Hello guys, 28F here had I had been married to 29M for a year now. Ours was a joint family setup where he's the single child and there had been constant involvement of his parents right from the day 1.
I have struggled with loneliness and was unable to handle my issues alone since my husband was also helpless due to our reoccurring fights.
I don't want to blame my husband here but we haven't ever resorted to marriage counselling the whole time we were struggling to get a third party help. To my husband, in the context of what he sent in the notice- he's mentioned he's tried multiple times with the help of our families intervention, which is true but it has never helped me.
He's also additionally added points where I've tried to turn him against his own parents where my intention was never that to begin with.
As absurd as it sounds, I know my husband is a good guy but there wasn't an appropriate action taken from both our sides to fix this marriage.
He's currently very stern on getting a mutual consent from me, and has mentioned he would subject me to mental cruelty based upon my WhatsApp chats and emails I sent him as an evidence (even then I had only apologised majorly to fix our marriage) if I don't agree on it. It is also true that I've tried to call him multiple times and messaged him during his work hours with only resolution to solve the ongoing issues between us. - which he's trying to put as I've mentally tormented him.
I also feel he's heavily influenced by his parents, added the fact that I've already hurt his male ego.
I do accept many things I've done and I want to put it forward that I'm taking professional help to work on myself and still want to give my marriage a chance in an appropriate way.
I want to know if there would be a possibility for the court to reconsider or send us for a marriage counselling if there's a chance.