Neighbour complaining about my tree over growing on their side of the garden, any advice?

We moved in to this house in 2024, this fig tree was already there when we moved in. Its right next to the wooden fence that separates my garden to my neighbours. It was planted about 1ft from the fence (who thought that was a good idea)

They haven't complained since we moved in but today the neighbour came and said "your tree is overgrowing on my side of the garden and causing insects,, when are you going to trim it. Can you make sure you trim our side of the tree when you cut it"

Any advice? I thought it's their job to trim their side of it even though the tree is on my side.. a part of it such as branches etc go in to their garden.

I wonder if they ever said that to the previous owners or are just saying it to me

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 13 hours ago

What do you do if you get in to a confrontation with a guy twice your size?

So I'm 5ft7 & 62kg 135lb and got in to a confrontation with this guy at work who is about 6ft2 and looks at least 200lb.

He was my supervisor but he was making shit up and saying stuff about me to the other workers there. At the end be told me to follow him outside but there was a management there.

I have zero fighting experience and haven't been to the gym in my life I'm weak as fk. Got social anxiety.

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 8 days ago
▲ 2 r/short

Other men think youre a easy target when you're short

Short guys get picked on more than a tall big guy. I've seen it so many times. It happened to me too.

At work my supervisor told 2 other colleagues im.too weak & "he's not strong enough" "i need someone bigger" and stuff like that. I made a mistake and he was talking shit to me saying "don't put your fcking hands on me" and stuff like that. I noticed he doesnt speak to anyone else like that that's 6ft+.

Im 5ft7 and 60kg and thin.

I fcking hate being short

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 8 days ago

Broke my 14 month streak on a escort. I'm so piased off

I've been retaining since april 2025. It only took me letting in that 1 sexual thought then one thing led to another then i ended up booking a escort. I tried to stop myself and pull out but couldn't.

Im so pissed off. 14 months of hard work gone. I feel anxious and my confidence is gone.

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 9 days ago

Should i buy this Vauxhall Astra GTC VXR?

Rather have this than a Ford Focus ST from that same era, just think the GTC VXR looks better but i looked at older posts and people keep saying not to buy a vauxhall vxr.

u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 13 days ago

Just traded in my S24U for a S26U and dont regret it

The phone is way more comfortable to hold, i don't even care about the box shape anymore. The privacy display on the display S26U at the samsung store wasn't good so I was holding off.

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I just got one and the display works really good on mine.

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 15 days ago

Just laid the pipe of my life, she gave me her number (PYT x PRILIGY)

I put on layer of PYT balm and then 1 hour later another layer.... on the 3rd hour I washed it off, had a shower and then took 60mg priligy and 50mg sildenafil.

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I went to see 2 girls, they was friends... i legit lasted 50 minutes straight. She started saying she loves me and then gave me her number. Her friend wanted a piece too but its 4.30am in the morning I gotta wake up for work at 11am. I left.

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 17 days ago

There is 25x video zoom now, it used to be 20x

Did anyone notice that the video zoom goes to 25x? It used to only be up to 20x.

u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 18 days ago

Traded in my S24U for a S26U 512GB

This is a good deal. I plan on getting a S27U anyway so This should keep me going until next year

u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 18 days ago

M26, Didn't realise how 'lonely' it gets as you get older, any advice?

Im turning 26 this month, I see guys and girls i went to school with still friends with each other or living life. I havent had friends in years, i work a full time job as a engineer and do nights. 11pm to 7am .. i also do a part time job at a football stadium and that's the only place i can socialise with people and meet people, guys and girls etc.

When im not there and at my engineering job, i feel empty and want to go back to the football stadium job just to mess around and have fun again. Most of the people there around young in their early 20s and mid 20s, late 20s while everyone at my engineering job is guys in their 40s and 50s and 30s who i just feel awkward around.

Does it get this bad? I just know its going to get worse from this point. Theyll just say "grown ass man in his 30s who thinks hes 21"

Its got to the point where im excited just to go to the football job and hate being at home

Time.is flying by and every year is going faster, feel like my youth is going.

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 20 days ago

How bad is the display compared to the S25U & S24U?

I have a S24U and the main thing that put me off the S26U is people saying the display is worse than the S24U & S25U, how much worse is it?

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 21 days ago

Would you buy a used S24U or get a S26U?

Would you get a used S24U from ebay or just get a brand new S26U from Samsung.

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I bought used phones before but you never know what the previous owner done with it or how well it will hold up. Is it worth it? £470 for a S24U used

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 21 days ago

Dapoxetine (priligy) isn't working anymore

I started taking 30mg priligy in december 2021. I couldn't last more than a minute on it so I switched to 60mg. Over the next 3 years until 2025, I'd take it occasianaly whenever id meet up with a girl and I could sometimes last up to 1 hour straight.

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Fastforward 2026. I have been doing no fap and semen retention since april 2025. No porn. No maturbation and no sex.

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I met up with a girl yesterday and couldn't last even 1 minute, even on 60mg priligy and PYT balm together. I tried for round 2 and it was the same.

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I think I might have got tolerated to it. Im done.. theres no other solution.

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 22 days ago

Would you cut off ties with your family because of how you was treated when you was younger?

Im 26 but when i was 11 to 20 i was forced to live at my grandma's house. My brother and sisters lived with my mum at her house. My brother would always get arrested and have the house raided and blast music & bring girls over so i couldn't revise and failed most of my school subjects. I had no one to talk to at my grandma's house so i took it out at school and had fun there. I'd go home but get sent back to my grandma's house

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They didn't want me there and many times I overhead "Why is he always here" and stuff like that and it was embrassing. They eventually kicked me out in May 2020 and i moved back home.

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At school my sisters used to get lunch money everyday but I never, my school friend used to give me some of his food sometimes. It was embarassing.

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Fast forward 2026. I dont talk to any of them. My brothers, sisters, mum, grandma, uncles etc. I hate them. I work and my my own money and dont need them.

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If they speak to me it pisses me off. Is it my fault? I cant stand being around any of them. I dont think I can ever build any type of bond with them. I did try but it felt forced and I dont like it.

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Your thoughts? Would you do the same?

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 25 days ago

Ive been having sex but not ejaculating and got called weird for it. [14 MONTH STREAK]

Im on a 14 month streak since April 2025, The men on the "askMenAdvice" sub are saying i need to see a doctor bevause I have sex but I dont finish on purpose because ejaculating gives me severe social anxiety, brain fog and other symptoms for at least 4-6 months before I feel normal again.

They keep saying to see a doctor but I swear to god its true.

When I dont master bate and I dont ejaculate when awake, my social anxiety goes away after 5 months and I feel confidence and also feel stronger and less intimidated and can hold eye contact and can get out of bed in the morning and do nights shifts without falling asleep

If I ejaculate.. I cant even hold eye contact for months, my confidence goes away and i turn red in a room full of peolle and cant speak. I feel colder too and more tired for months. Loud sounds make me jolt but on 5+ months of retention.. loud bangs dont even phase me.

I said this in the ask men advice sub reddit and got clowned for it.

I had sex today with a girl and as much as I wanted to finish when she asked me to, I pretended im done and left. She was disappointed but I dont want to throw away my 14 month streak and feel anxiety again

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 26 days ago

My account doesn't show up on the search bar when i type it in

My account stopped showing up on the search bar. Even if i type in my full username it doesn't appear on the list. You need to click on "accounts" on the search bar and then scroll down and my.account is in the middle.

Has anyone else experienced this? Anyone looking for my account won't be able to find it.

I did deactivate and delete my account and then log back in to it a few days later many times before but it would still show my username in the search bar.

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u/Lord-Voldemort-- — 27 days ago