u/Ok_East5337

Hello! Could anyone possibly help me with maybe referring me to a job? I’ve applied to so many. I want to be up front, I will definitely need a part time job as my 4 year old is special needs and I need to take him to school and therapy. I have experience working in childcare, pet caregiver, personal shopper. I currently just do spark delivery for income but it’s nothing. I’m in the Lexington area. Thanks

I know all I can do is wait and hope for the best. But I’m just worried that the plan b might not work. It took me one try to get pregnant with my kids. Im already preparing myself that I may have to get an abortion.
I had my period like a week and a half beforehand. Idk if I was ovulating yet. I was prescribed the Ella pill and took that the morning after.
I would never even think about an abortion. But it seems my pregnancies get more dangerous for me each time. My last pregnancy I had severe preeclampsia. It was horrible.

I want to add, my husband came in me and afterwards he realized the condom had fallen off beforehand. We had a good bit to drink and he just wasn’t paying attention. I’m pretty sure something was wrong with the condoms. They wouldn’t stretch.

I know all I can do is wait and hope for the best. But I’m just worried that the plan b might not work. It took me one try to get pregnant with my kids. Im already preparing myself that I may have to get an abortion.
I had my period like a week and a half beforehand. Idk if I was ovulating yet. I was prescribed the Ella pill and took that the morning after.
I would never even think about an abortion. But it seems my pregnancies get more dangerous for me each time. My last pregnancy I had severe preeclampsia. It was horrible.

I want to add, my husband came in me and afterwards he realized the condom had fallen off beforehand. We had a good bit to drink and he just wasn’t paying attention. I’m pretty sure something was wrong with the condoms. They wouldn’t stretch.

I got the mail too late and didn’t realize I missed the date to renew my food stamps. I turned in all the paperwork and did the interview afterwards tho. I was supposed to get it on the 15th. I’m at least hoping I’ll get it next month. I’m a single mom and I’m struggling so much. I have been going to the little pantry’s i see in town for meals for my toddlers. It’s difficult for me to get to the foodbank but I’m trying to figure that out. I call the foodstamps office everyday and no one ever answers. Probably going to go up there and see if I’ll get foodstamps next month. Idk what im hoping for from this post. I’m just really stressed. I guess does anyone know of some little pantry’s or whatever it’s called I can go to? I’ve gotten my kids food from the one on kitiwake road. I’m in Lexington. I do spark delivery from extra money. Also does anyone know of like coupons from cheap fast food? I don’t like getting my kids fastfood but I don’t care at the moment. As long as they eat.

Last night my Husband’s condom came off and he didn’t realize ….. he came on me and I’m the most fertile person ever. I have a 7 month old and had severe preeclampsia. I’m terrified of getting pregnant again. I’m not sure if I’m ovulating. I had my period like a week and a half ago. I got a telehealth appointment and they prescribed Ella pill and I just took it. I’m hoping it work.

My husband and I had sex last night. He didn’t realize his condom fell off and came in me. I am very fertile. Literally took one time for me to get pregnant with my son and daughter. I had my period about a week ago. I know plan b doesn’t work if you’ve already ovulated. Not 100% sure if I have. I am 216 pounds. I’ve heard these pills don’t work with bigger people.

I used to be so healthy and care so much about the environment. I used to have joy in caring about what I put In mine and my kids bodies. I have 3 kids, my oldest js 4 years old. It’s like with each child my will to live has gone done more and more. I’m just surviving. I want to care again. I do want to mention I am in therapy. I know there’s bigger things in life than caring about the environment or eating “clean”. Those things really made me happy.

I used to be so healthy and care so much about the environment. I used to have joy in caring about what I put In mine and my kids bodies. I have 3 kids, my oldest js 4 years old. It’s like with each child my will to live has gone done more and more. I’m just surviving. I want to care again. I do want to mention I am in therapy. I know there’s bigger things in life than caring about the environment or eating “clean”. Those things really made me happy.

I need help so much with a laundry mat. My washing machine has been acting up for at least a year. We have so many clothes that need to be washed. I don’t have much money. I’ve gone to the one by the old mill and it was fine just didn’t know if there is cheaper option. My son is about to start school and I need to make sure he has clean clothes everyday.

He had a weight checkup today and he lost weight. Weighed 13.4 5 weeks ago and today is 12.6 pounds. He was at the 5 percentile last appointment now idk below 5 tho. He’s breastfed and I feed him a good bit of food. I feed him eggs and hummus almost every morning. Occasionally oatmeal and yogurt. And he’ll occasionally eat our dinner. Doctor wants me to pump at least 2 bottles and add a scoop of formula to each bottle. He wants to see if he’ll gain weight and will get rechecked in 2 weeks. I’m a bit worried. He’s my third baby and my other babies never had a weight problem. Like my middle has always been 90 percentile and my oldest about average. I just hope he gained weight. Doctor said he’ll have to do testing and stuff if he doesn’t gain weight to see if he has a problem.

Signed lease Thursday. Yeaaa I know I’m a stupid idiot. It is government housing. I am not trying to be too much and picky. I know if someone is about to be homeless they would be fine with this situation. I went back to look at it and I found mold and a lot of roaches. Ultimately my mom said I can just move in with her. I don’t even know how to bring it up to the manager that I changed my mind. I haven’t moved in yet. I don’t want to be mean.

How do I get out of a lease? I feel so stupid I want to cry. I didn’t see all the problems until after I signed. This is government housing. I’m not trying to be difficult and I know this is what you get with low income. But it’s so bad. Mold, infested with roaches, food was left behind from last tenant so you know it wasn’t cleaned good. I haven’t moved in yet. I don’t know how to bring up to the lady that I changed my mind. Lady even texted me last night saying the carpets will be professionally cleaned Monday. Shouldn’t that have been done before I moved in? I don’t want to stay here even if the “fix the problem”.

Can you all help me with what to say to her? Like I’m not confrontational and I really don’t know how to bring it up or what to say.

Please don’t come at me. I’m not complaining at all. I just have a lot going on and a lot of thoughts in my head.
Basically I have never rented anywhere. My family lives with my grandma. She has Parkinson’s and is declining rapidly. I already feel so quality for having my kids here because they are kinda crazy. I have a 4,2 and 7 month old. I applied for a low income apartment and I got approved today. I have been having really bad anxiety thinking about what will happen to us when my grandma passes away. So I wanted to make sure we have a place even if it’s not the best. I guess I’m nervous because I’m really scared about mold. I haven’t seen inside yet. I’m supposed to sign the lease tomorrow. I’m sure there’s gotta be mold. At least with bugs you can get rid of them. Idk I don’t want to come off like I’m complaining. I am scared of ruining my children’s health.

It’s complicated, basically I live with my grandma. My husband, me and our kids. Firstly my grandma is going down extremely fast. She has a rare type of Parkinson’s. I worry about what will happen when she passes away. We would be homeless. I am also wanting to leave my husband. It’s a horrible marriage and he’s a crappy person. I don’t know why it’s hard for me to leave. I think I worry about joint custody. I think it’ll help that I have my own place. I applied to this apartment complex a longgggg time ago and they just now called me about an opening. I applied when my husband got arrested for putting his hands on me. At that time my grandma was also wanting to go to a nursing home but it fell through. So he’s not even on the paperwork or anything.

I want to add. I do regret having kids with him. I feel extremely guilty you have no idea. I’m doing my best now. I have applied for countless jobs. I don’t want to be unemployed. I’m supposed ti have an interview Friday so fingers crossed.

I guess I’m double thinking it now that I got approved. Like it’s not like I’m homeless. I do have a home.

I’m sad I still even need help 2 years later. This will at least help me leave my abusive husband. The thing is, I’m even worse off financially at this point. I tried asking them how much rent will be and they don’t know yet, after they look over my finances I guess they come up with rent. And I need to ask if utilities are included because I literally can’t pay anything. I’m hoping to start a job soon as I’ve heard back from one so hopefully my finances will get better.

I’m sad I still even need help 2 years later. This will at least help me leave my abusive husband. The thing is, I’m even worse off financially at this point. I tried asking them how much rent will be and they don’t know yet, after they look over my finances I guess they come up with rent. And I need to ask if utilities are included because I literally can’t pay anything. I’m hoping to start a job soon as I’ve heard back from one so hopefully my finances will get better.

I’m sad I still even need help 2 years later. This will at least help me leave my abusive husband. The thing is, I’m even worse off financially at this point. I tried asking them how much rent will be and they don’t know yet, after they look over my finances I guess they come up with rent. And I need to ask if utilities are included because I literally can’t pay anything. I’m hoping to start a job soon as I’ve heard back from one so hopefully my finances will get better.

I know the reviews aren’t the best on google. Mainly about bugs. It’s in a great area at least. And I’m pretty desperate to find somewhere else to live. Wanted to see if anyone lives there currently and could give me their opinions.

I didn’t expect to actually hear back after my application so now I’m pretty nervous lol. I would like some tips. I’m very awkward so I’m nervous about looking stupid. Really need this job and need tips on landing the position. Thanks!