u/bigcookie879

After many years, when does someone become a stranger to you.

What did you do to better yourself and how long did it take you. It seems like I never learn.

And how long did it take.

I’ll go first- 2 people knew what i wanted and pressed me to come over for something that was not what i wanted because they lied to me or didnt care that i wanted to get to know someone or a relationship. Then another abused me and SAd me all with in 4 years.

Why is it so hard for them to actually listen to you and not just care or think about themselves all the time. Why do they pressure. Why don’t they care about you as a person. Why do I feel like I was just some sort of service doll.

Like your not a human with feelings. After situationships, this thought has come into my mind.
How do you trust people after being situations like this for years with multiple people.

I’ve only had 3 situationships in my life and don’t know about trying again if people are like this. Liars, people who pressure, and only care about themselves and getting what they want.

I’ve had 3. I just feel dehumanised and sick

I felt like their sex doll and not human.

Just be feeling not I’m not even human with feelings.

What’s wrong with them. Why make me believe something that’s not true.

Feeling sad on the inside. I’m finally alone and no one is texting me. My phone is dry. Not sure if I should try again or when I should. How do you build yourself up or better yourself after multiple discards. I have 3 situationships within 4 years. They all lied to me, they didn’t care that we weren’t on the same page.

Weather it may be a situationship, or relationship. How did it affect you.

They knew what i wanted, i thought them at the start or before seeing them and they lied to me And they were all somehow confused. But never communicated or asked me any questions. Feeling used. It didn’t matter to them what I wanted or how I was or how it would affect me afterwards.