u/leon385

Doesn't matter what you are, it's what you're not and you're not them. I just have tanned skin and i've been called slurs for every race (ones that i don't belong to) so people just hate me for being different and guess in their head. Hate living in small town UK.

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u/leon385 — 12 hours ago

Bob realizing he had a bad childhood and thinking Linda would be surprised is a case of early instalment weirdness. They have been together for at least 14 years at this point , she likely heard a lot of his stories, knew his mum died, met his father and knew he worked in his diner.

This can't have been the first time they had a conversation like this. Was she just staring nonreacting EVERYTIME he talked about something? Very out of character for Linda.

u/leon385 — 22 hours ago

How many of you have had (nothing but) bad experiences with Mental Health workers? Anyone from the r/therapyabuse here?

I'm curious the overlap.

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u/leon385 — 23 hours ago

Anyone else feel Blackbeard is too charismatic and sympathetic to hate? If he had been on Kaido or Big Mom's crew, betrayed them instead (of good guy Whitebeard) and sold the Marines someone other than the protagonist's brother then he wouldn't even be a villain.

Buggy is introduced wrecking a town, Crocodile was a tyrant who uses his crew as tools and Kidd has sadistic rampages everywhere he goes yet people love them. Why the double standard?

u/leon385 — 2 days ago

I was detained. They try to convince you that you need help. Yeah i know that already i'm asking for solutions. They offer none and tell you to stop feeling bad. All just a punishment for those not fitting in.

These scum offer nothing. I went to a therapist after i got out and he just smugly sat there saying "i don't know, i don't know. I'm not going to be a father figure to you". Motherfucker i never asked you to. I'm paying ten times the minimum wage for you to use the "Socratic method" (respond to everything with a question), invalidate and victim blame.

Mental Health system is just gaslighting.

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u/leon385 — 4 days ago

Anyone who can pass for younger, think i might just try to relive my 20s in my 30s considering i spent ALL of them inside.

Anyone else do this or at least thought this?

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u/leon385 — 5 days ago
▲ 19 r/ENFP

Always wished i had a lifelong best friend/bromance. Anyone else have no friends? Any MBTI apps you have success with?

u/leon385 — 5 days ago
▲ 3 r/ENFP

Who else has an ISFJ Mum? What are the benefits and struggles you've dealt with?

I love my mum but there are difficulties and frustrations.

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u/leon385 — 6 days ago
▲ 6 r/CPTSD

Who else has been excluded their whole life? I click instantly and easily when i leave my shitty small town but i'm stuck here financially. About to turn 30 and haven't had a friend since i was 13. All my relationships have been the "best" of a bad situation.

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u/leon385 — 6 days ago

How has being detained on a psych ward affected/traumatised you? I am hypervigilant, have trust issues, am in a permanent fight state (fight or flight), bad memories on a loop EVERY day, feel cut off from society as people believe the system against the victims and never talk about my problems.

Curious to hear from my fellow victims.

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u/leon385 — 6 days ago

I hate how paternalistic it is were you submit to them rather than they work with you. I hire a tradesman to fix a problem. Classism is too entrenched in the job.

If you hire a plumber to fix a leak, you are the Employer. You define the problem, you evaluate the result, and if they don't do the job, you fire them. There is no expectation that you should "submit" to the plumber's philosophy on how you should live your life. In the clinical world, that dynamic is inverted. They take your money and then demand your If you hire a plumber to fix a leak, you are the Employer.

If i go to a plastic surgeon they don't disregard the issue and work on another facial feature they personally want changed to their own tastes.

I'm perfectly fine and content, i just need help with this one issue. But no, you are beneath them, they stare at and talk to you weird. No wonder AI is rendering them redundant. Can't wait until it drives them out of business.

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u/leon385 — 6 days ago

They treat you like props. As if they can do anything to you with no consequences. Infantilizing and dehumanizing. You can be nasty to/abuse someone but don't expect them to like/be grateful to you or get "better" from it or not react. WORSE WHEN IT'S YOUF FUCKING JOB TO MAKE THEM FEEL BETTER.

Inmates running the asylum. I'm still thinking about it multiple times a day, everyday 8 years later.

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u/leon385 — 7 days ago

How much of your problems with therapists are intertwined with Classism, Narcissism etc? In my opinion the entire field is too connected to being designed and used by the worst type of people. Controlling the narrative. AI is at least changing things.

Handmaiden of capitalism. I know we've discussed this. I'm just curious about how much of it you would change to start over. I honestly wouldn't know where to begin. It's like police reform but in this case the thought police.

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u/leon385 — 7 days ago
▲ 6 r/ISTJ

ISTJ i knew in highschool always stayed inside for lunch and went on the computers in a classroom. Curious how common this is and why? When i suggested just going to the shops one day they stonewalled/greyrocked me instead of just saying no. Any feedback is much appreciated.

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u/leon385 — 7 days ago

I hate incrementalism. "If you stick a knife in my back nine inches and pull it out six inches, there's no progress. If you pull it all the way out that's not progress. Progress is healing the wound that the blow made. And they haven't even pulled the knife out much less heal the wound" Malcolm-X

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u/leon385 — 7 days ago