1st Law of Power: Never outshine the master. They hate it when a patient is as smart as them or god forbid smarter. Hate anyone they can't handle.

"When it comes to power, eclipsing the boss is a particularly dangerous mistake. People in power need to feel secure in their position, superior to others in intelligence and charisma, and deserving of their perks. When they feel insecure, they lash out.

Whenever you demonstrate your talents you provoke resentment and envy (manifestations of insecurity) in others, whether they’re bosses, subordinates or peers. Of course, you can’t spend your life worrying about everyone’s petty jealousies, but you need to pay special attention to your approach with superiors because of their greater ability to harm you. They can make heads roll, although not as literally as did kings of the past. This is why it’s important to never outshine the master, your superior."

Everyone is faking it to get out of a psych ward.

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u/leon385 — 5 days ago
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Anyone else feel useless in society? I'm not a skilled/essential worker. Never great academically.

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u/leon385 — 12 days ago

There is a difference between thoughts and feelings. A person feeling bad isn't because they are too stupid and need to be corrected/tricked into getting "better". Therapy is designed for simple people with simple "problems". One size fits all.

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u/leon385 — 17 days ago

Mental health workers are just trying to convert you to their own personality type (MBTI). "Healthy" is subjective. Most i've met have been ESTJ/ESFJ

Most people set their own personality as the baseline and make no effort to understand or accommodate anyone else.

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u/leon385 — 26 days ago

It's all just performative and they hate people who expect authenticity, substance/real solutions, see through them, tell them to cut the cookie cutter one size all script and engage. Talk to me like an equal or don't talk to me at all. It's like counterfeit money.

Never take advice from someone who hasn't been through the same thing or will be there to suffer the repercussions.

I even hate their body language. Leaned back one leg over the other waving their hand. They're all trained to do the same act/schtick that no real human does. They look at human interaction as ticking boxes and aren't present in the moment.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

Psychiatrists are cartoonishly evil/arrogant. I would sit shocked, mouth agape that these sadistic scum would act that way. Narcissists behaving like stereotypical villains. Seize every opportunity to twist the knife.

I would sit there in pain calling out their unfairness and that i wasn't the idiot she thought i was but she laughed in my face, kept talking to me like a child, kept me detained longer than i needed to be. Would be "nice" to me in front of my parents, turning on the fake sickeningly "sweet" act like a non nice person doing a impression of what a nice person is or pretending our previous interactions never happened/not acknowledging my hatred for her as if passive aggressive between the two of us.

Had the nerve to say "you know some help has to come from you" when i was finally released. ALL of it had been me acting to get out. They had nothing nothing except give me more abuse.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

The absolute subhuman way i was treated my entire childhood in small town UK just for having tanned skin. Can anyone else relate. The nastiness you attract.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

I just hate how they presume ignorance, feel so comfortable dehumanizing/infantilizing you and when you tell them it isn't necessary/harmful they double down. Changing the problem to fit the "solution". Only trained to be NPC going off scripts.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

Buggy being weak yet accomplished is so important to the narrative because it shows revolution can come from anyone and the power of the masses united.

One of the most persistent traps in media analysis and political theory is the Great Man Theory. The idea that history, revolution, and systemic change are driven exclusively by singular, exceptional figures born with divine bloodlines, genetic superiority, or god tier power.

People who write Buggy off as a "gag" or reduce him to a joke are missing the profound material and political point Oda is making. The current Yonko line up is dominated by hereditary or chosen elites. Luffy is the sun god of prophecy from the (Garp and Dragon) Monkey D lineage, Shanks is a literal Celestial Dragon nobility from the Figarland family, Blackbeard is another D descended of Rocks/Davy clan with a "weird body".

Buggy for all his flaws is still a thorn in the Government's side. Causes a breakout of a prison that literally tortures people, rallies them into his army, gets his hands on a Den Den Mushi and exposes Marines during the war, head of an organisation that puts bounties on Marines turning the tables on enforcers of global oppression. It decentralizes power, showing that the invincible machine of the World Government can be jammed, bled, and challenged not by a solitary king, but by the united masses acting in their own material interest.

His charisma works because the masses need a focal point to unite behind. He uses his platform to amplify collective power, proving that the figurehead matters less than the revolutionary mass standing behind him. Oda uses Buggy to tell us that you don't need to be chosen by destiny or born a god to disrupt the empire or wait for someone to. Liberation belongs to the outcasts, the weak, and the discarded when they finally realize that they outnumber the people at the top.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

It's the dream job for a narcissist. Psychiatrists are genuinely some of the dumbest people i've ever met, have no interest in making people feel better. You get to abuse people, keep them locked up, talk down to them, "correct" them and be treated like a hero/smartest person in the room.

I'm absolutely shocked by how casually they dehumanize you, fragile their egos are, the fake laugh and smile, talking about you like you aren't in the room/thinking out loud. I wouldn't do this to anyone let alone someone at their lowest point. Have to get your little jabs in, assert dominance yet expect them to like you/feel grateful to you.

I honestly can't understand anyone that warped. Truly insane. Bizarro world were they should be in there instead of the patients they treat. Think because they have the right they are in the right. Speak matter of factly as if everything they say is true and hate anything otherwise despite evidence showing it. Strong classist biases.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

Post therapy i get extremely triggered by anyone who presumes ignorance, gives unsolicited advice (that wasn't necessary/things i'm already doing), is paternalistic or attempts to walk over me. Dehumanization, infantilization, being detained, Kafka trapping & victim blaming/invalidation broke me.

A fully calibrated nervous system response to sustained abuse. The only "help" i got from mental health workers was my fight impulse finally being awakened. I have zero tolerance now and have always let things go in the past or had anxiety. Now i think i'll punch the next person who tries me.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

Every mental health worker i've et walks over me yet expects me to like them. When i spoke up/called them out or let them know i see through them they deflected with a fake smile or said "do you want to get better". Like talking to an NPC. Don't deviate from script.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago
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I've never been into drinking and only wanted to do the parting due to FOMO, peer pressure and how it is portrayed in the movies. Anyone else the same? I'm a health nut otherwise and always take care of myself.

Really curious how rare or common this is among our type. I missed out on my teens and twenties stuck in a shitty small town full of Sensors. Had social anxiety for years too (still do slightly to an extent). I wish i would be able to recover from my first hangover now (big difference starting drinking in your 30s to your 20s at least according to memes.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

I can pass for young so just say i'm 8 years younger because it feels less embarrassing and less like i've wasted a decade stuck in my house. I'm also stunted and have missed out on social development, want to go around again/make up for lost time.

Can anyone else relate? It sucks. I've been fighting my trauma and completely missed out on life.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

Treat people better, they will feel better then act better. None of this "patient/client is wrong by virtue of being the patient/client and needs to be corrected" shite. Just blaming the victim.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago
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In general ESFP are my favourite Sensors, INTP/ENTP are my favourite Thinkers and INFJ are my favourite Judgers. Is this the same for you?

Very curious how this aligns with common functional dynamics and mutual social energy within personality typology. If not please state your favourite

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

Being detained on a psych ward (i was suicidal) infantilized, dehumanized, interrogated (made to JADE while they would DARVO) worsened my anxiety. Treat me better so i feel better then i will act better. I got out by not standing up for myself and they took credit for "helping" me.

Can anyone else relate. The trauma from mistreatment overrode my original trauma. Iatrogenic harm

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

It's funny how mental health workers are trained to follow scripts and act like NPCs while AI is trained to act more human/empathetic. No wonder people prefer it.

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago

Being treated like dirt by these scum at my lowest point put me in a permanent fight state (fight or flight). I seriously think i might punch the next person who tries me. Have zero tolerance for people walking over me now. Used to be diplomatic and let things go.

Can anyone else relate?

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u/leon385 — 1 month ago