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Those pregnant and have other kids at home

So I have a 7 & 5 and most likely get induced this week or soon but curious to know how it was w dad and care w the kids.

I was thinking since induction could go fast or slow I may only want my husband to come if I need him before actual push. Or really want him there entire time if there several days 1-2 for labor and then 3rd day before check out.

My mom is here until the 17th so if I give birth ideal time is now until she vacays or else I have to arrange care between several ppl to make it work if hubby is with me entire time.

And if your in more then 1 day or 2 did your spouse go home check on kids or shower ?

I feel like with my 1st in 2018 i didnt shower all week and i cant remember. Went in sunday or monday and left thursday night.

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 2 days ago

Payments start june

I owe currently 500 a month and total balance is 120k what are my options to ever seeing the light. Which payment plan type is best. I forget which i am in i think graduate plan and income one was too high.

Will it drop my credit once paid bc its the only installment loan on my credit too.

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 7 days ago

If 38 and joining with only hs degree what are your options or suggestions

I have 2 kids and one on the way. Looking for a change. I said i would join long ago but life happens. Now looking into the national guard again and what is the experience if you have kids and wife already and can they even temp live near where you are training? Wifes work can be remote and kids can home school too temporarily.

Hows the one weekend away work and work life balance w regular work and national guard life

How did you choose which branch was for you

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 7 days ago

Score up and down

My scores today 600s. As you can see my score drastically changed but its bc i am maxed out on one card that i am working on getting the dti down. But once I pay it I know I will be high 700s again. But I could never reach 810+ once I pay it off. I have no credit inquiries and all dti is below 2% and just school loans.

Someone plz tell me or help me get 810+ I know I might not need it but its a goal of mine and anything is helpful any advice ?

u/BeginningNo2408 — 8 days ago

Just finishing up my classes

I need all the tips and who wants a trainee in the state of pa ? Am I allowed to assist virtually? How does anyone get all these 1500 hours in? Seems forever

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 8 days ago

Ce classes

Which ce classes actually did you enjoy? Find beneficial? Or want to actually attend but you dont have it ? Any online ones you enjoyed ?

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 8 days ago

Swollen feet

So I have a blood pressure machine and anytime im on my feet now this past week my feet get so swollen looking like sausages its crazyy. I have appt friday. I havent gained more then 5 lbs.

I remember with my first i had to get shoes 1-1.5 size up but I had a physical job. My 2nd I was on my feet all day too. This time no physical work and I am my biggest. I gained 50+. My youngest is 5.

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 8 days ago

stretches?

My due date is july 2 and i got low amniotic fluid last week of 7.3 and friday is my next appt.

I did not stretch or workout at all during my pregnancy is it too late to prep for birth?

I want to last to july 2 but want a smoothe birth and try unmedicated as my other 2 were medicated.

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 9 days ago

How are you paying to build?

How has everyone funded their project to build new construction? Primary homes new construction loans? Did you buy the land first ? Was it a land and construction loan? Hml? Pml? Family? Did you use equity from the land ?

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 9 days ago

No experience no education

What is the best way to get into data center jobs with no education besides hs and not in the data field currently. I know its coming to my area and if its an opportunity to be apart of I would like to use the time now to prepare. Have cdl experience only.

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 14 days ago

If you work at a data center in the us how has your data center supported the community or done greater bc its allowed there

We have a bunch of farm land in my area and they want to be everywhere. But the residents are opposed. I am open to it if they figure out the utility usage and help keep residents utility the same or even cheaper or support community improvements and housing. With all of technology today how can they not figure this portion out seems like a engineering fix.

We can all use the tax revenue but how do we combat the cons.

I feel like its better here then them abroad and provide jobs, tax revenue and can support community initiatives.

We have warehouses all around and data centers are less trucks right?

Can ppl who work at one physically tell me how it has been or what opportunities you have gotten from it ?

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 14 days ago

Give all the good the bad and the ugly on these plans

Anyone have experience with ev charger I was thinking on the outside of garage and possibly wired for generator but will not place one in right away.

Also its builder grade. Everything minus trust should be stock items need be to replace or fix later on.

Its a tiny lot and septic unfortunately has to go in the front. Anyone have experience w eljin system?

This is Pennsylvania.

Please provide any feedback I dont see.

u/BeginningNo2408 — 15 days ago

Anyone ivf?

This is my 3rd ivf baby but my youngest is 5 and its been awhile since I gave birth. I am hoping it goes fast. My first i leaked and went to hospital and 2nd from dr appt I was told to go to hospital bc of low fluid. I am told i have low normal fluid at 7.3 and i was 7.7 2 weeks before that. But baby had a full bladder so my 7.3 would of been better I think if she peed.

I didnt exercise or stretch this time. I want to try on all fours or side and unmedicated

What helped you go unmediated? If you did meds 1st time.

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 15 days ago

What does your association do great?

What value do they provide ? What networking events have you found nice ? Any suggestions for a great association I would love to hear. Mine I like the variety of ce classes we offer and ease of being able to communicate with them. Bc I am apart of more than one and the other is not so great at communicating.

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 15 days ago

If i close my business cash chase

I want to move my business limit to another chase card where I currently have 0% apr. does it hurt me to close the card or keep a $1000 limit on it. I rather close it and open same card later on if they allow that ?

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 16 days ago

How many realtors actually scorp?

Anyone established to the point they are solo llc and have themselves on scorp? When did you decide was the right time? What was your gross and what do you technically pay yourself?

What pay system do you use ? Adp?

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 17 days ago

Anyone had family use the trust that was done online

Did your family use those fill in the blank trusts online? My mom has simple request and not much assets so she prefers that online trust company.

Just want to hear the bad , ugly, issues they had if there family member used something like that and which there family member used a lawyer

In Pennsylvania

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 17 days ago

Best buy and old navy

I have two store cards. How do I convert to regular credit cards and ideally would be the 0% apr cards. But I have had them a long time too.

Can a macys amex card convert to a regular amex any
Possible way?

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u/BeginningNo2408 — 17 days ago