u/Educational_Koala536

Any help

What was it like
Did you like it

im thinking of transferring

Sometimes the older generation have this mentality that because you don’t want to have kids now you will change as you grow up . They don’t acknowledge that majority of the them had kids because they were conditioned into having them and it didn’t even make any difference in their marriage. They don’t want to admit that they were never meant to become mothers even when it’s clearly apparent in the way they raised us . As children they see us as burdens but as you grow up you become something of use to them “their pride and joy “. Instead of reflecting on how having kids affected them they continue to push those ideas that a woman must have kids to the next generation.

Personal anecdotes

I was having a discussion with my mum saying how in my marriage I won’t be doing all the domestic work and that I don’t want to get marry to someone who wants kids . She told me I will change and that I will be the one running heads over heels over him . Not once has she reflected on her life and how she built a man , not herself.

I really want to hear what it was like

I think it was really refreshing and I liked that the couple got together early on even if their feelings didn’t mature quickly.

This was the first c drama in a while I liked
It was so emotional I cried

Edit

I didn’t like splendid match but I loved this drama. It was well paced and the miscommunication did last long . There was no multiple male leads trying to have her .

I loved the road to splendour.
My heart broke at the end and I bawled my eyes out at the end . They really stood by each other .

Any advice
Also any stories about how yours went

Why are they defending their man like they have been together for years.

There are a lot of red flags and yet they are just ignoring it

Finding it hard to stay awake

I kinda just been put off with the placements and treatment.

I was asking questions about what a particular sector is about and the response was just unhelpful.

I don’t know if it’s because working in this profession for too long can make you a bit hard .

There is a lot of power play.

I don’t know what I expected but I didn’t really think it would be that bad

For instance one girl attracting all the guys.
I always wondered why do a group of people become so fixated on one person when other people are available.

Do you do visits outside hospital?

I need an idea about the day to day

As someone who isn’t really good at making conversations I’m curious if there is like guidance in knowing what to ask

Was it informal or formal
Do you have any advice

I feel like I have been working hard on life but whenever I get to the next stage I don’t get what I want. For example I sacrifice having friends and totally dedicated myself to my studies thinking that when I get to the next stage I will be happy or get into my dream.

Each time I am disappointed, I don’t get into the uni I want to but I still work hard thinking I might get the next opportunity. I have dedicated myself to studying a degree I don’t like because my parents wanted me to study the degree. I didn’t mind because I thought that I would be able to specialise in the area I’m interested. I got told that I will not be specialising in that area for my internship by my uni and that it will be something else which I honestly didn’t want.

Now I have broken down into a fever and honestly rethinking my life . I can’t go back as I am in my final year and I need the degree to actually better my circumstances as someone who lives in lower classes.

It’s so annoying like you give what you want and then they give you something you don’t want.

Why is this the case ?

Want to prepare for the placement

Want to prepare for my placement

I don’t know if it’s because I may be on the spectrum or because I haven’t had any friends for about 7 years.

I was like to my mum that I want friends who I can tell my secrets or feelings too and she was like you can’t because one day when you guys are fighting she will use it against you