u/Educational_Koala536

So this man has been pressing our doorbell around the same time between 7pm - 8 pm. Whenever my dad answers he says wrong number. He says that repeatedly.

One time my mum said someone was following her and her description matched the man we saw on the ring camera. I have began documenting the time he presses the door bell. He potentially lives above us.

I have watched shows like fear thy neighbour and worst neighbour ever so I’m kinda worried.

I have told my mom several times to leave my dad but she has stayed claiming it was for the kids .

She sometimes tell me that she doesn’t feel loved like she is supposed to be and I tell her to get a divorce. Then she responds with is it everything you will leave your husband for .

Later on she will say it’s because of the rent. I have told her that I don’t mind using my savings and getting a part time job since I’m in uni . However she continues to stay.

I have called the police on my dad whilst standing up for my mum and she still stays . I have defended my mum countless times growing up and she still stays

Sometimes she will tell me why can’t I please her or do what she wants me to do . I reflect and think her controlling and overbearing attitude towards me is because she trying to create an environment where she feels love but through control.

These days I have stopped defending her and when my dad shouts at her I just keep quiet.

I appreciate my mum and genuinely believe she is the backbone of the household however she will not leave her abusive relationship.

I feel bad arguing with her but she doesn’t listen to me . She always wants her way with me. I feel bad because I’m not trying to be like my dad.

I have told my mom several times to leave my dad but she has stayed claiming it was for the kids .

She sometimes tell me that she doesn’t feel loved like she is supposed to be and I tell her to get a divorce. Then she responds with is it everything you will leave your husband for .

Later on she will say it’s because of the rent. I have told her that I don’t mind using my savings and getting a part time job since I’m in uni . However she continues to stay.

I have called the police on my dad whilst standing up for my mum and she still stays . I have defended my mum countless times growing up and she still stays

Sometimes she will tell me why can’t I please her or do what she wants me to do . I reflect and think her controlling and overbearing attitude towards me is because she trying to create an environment where she feels love but through control.

These days I have stopped defending her and when my dad shouts at her I just keep quiet.

I appreciate my mum and genuinely believe she is the backbone of the household however she will not leave her abusive relationship.

I feel bad arguing with her but she doesn’t listen to me . She always wants her way with me. I feel bad because I’m not trying to be like my dad.

How many articles is needed

For my course it’s a 7500 word dissertation literature. They don’t want us doing primary research and we are only allowed to use articles from the Uk .

I was interested in doing my dissertation on the impact of homelessness on hospitals discharge planning for social workers but I’m finding it hard to find articles. I have only found a few.

I need some ideas .

I have done research but can'r find many articles / journals

Thank you in advance

I need some ideas .

I have done research but can'r find many articles / journals

Thank you in advance

My sister is doing a destination wedding.
They said initially it would be this year during December when I would be on Christmas break.

Then they changed their mind and left me in the dark and chose March . I haven’t been in the conversation that my mum and brother have been in .

I am in my final year and I have a placement with it too . I have been working hard this year to get a 1st overall despite not really liking my degree. However I want a better life for myself so I have been putting in the effort.

I don’t want to take time off from placement and uni to go to the wedding. My mum said that “ You can’t make a sacrifice”. My brother was tagging in saying why can’t I finish later than my peers. They don’t understand that I have to pass the placement and the time I finish determines when I submit my portfolio. There is a short window where I need to graduate then start doing my training.

Sincerely I will not do anything that will delay my future. During the whole wedding planning they haven’t involved me . I and my sister are not even close due her physically and verbally abusing me.

any interesting points i can make or articles

When it comes to critical analysis or thinking
Or what is something u like to see

Like it’s so silly

I’m tired of people of say saying I should be the bigger person.

I’m tired of my niece always hitting me but when I do it back it’s always I should act my age . That she is a kid .

I’m tired of people justifying a 12 year old saying she was going to stab me as she can never say such a thing because it’s too of a strong wrong word.

Why do I always have to be the bigger person like my own feelings don’t mean anything.

I believe in God but at the same time I don’t think I can be what God wants me to be.

My sister abused me physically when I was younger and I have tried to forgive her . However I’m beginning to get tired of having them in my life currently, I wish they would go away. My parent keep on saying I should forgive them and that it was so long ago- I should stop bringing it up .

I’m kinda tired of following all the rules . It’s hard because I still live with my parents .

I want to be who I want to be and live my life in a way that makes me happy

My sister is having her wedding in another country.
I’m in my final year and I am also doing a placement . I can’t be missing days in my placement as it’s going to prolonged when I finish.Furthermore I need to pass that element to graduate.

I told my brother and he was like I have to go .

I’m not going to jeopardise my future for any one especially when I’m trying to build my own life.

I don’t like the fact I’m expected to drop everything I’m doing like I don’t have my own life

My other siblings thinks I don’t want to go because I don’t like her due to her strangling me when I was 13 + the other abuse I suffered later . However it is due to this abuse that has made me serious about my education. I want to build a better life for myself and reclaim the things I ultimately loss as a result of childhood trauma.

My sister is having her wedding in another country.
I’m in my final year and I am also doing a placement . I can’t be missing days in my placement as it’s going to prolonged when I finish.Furthermore I need to pass that element to graduate.

I told my brother and he was like I have to go .

I’m not going to jeopardise my future for any one especially when I’m trying to build my own life.

I don’t like the fact I’m expected to drop everything I’m doing like I don’t have my own life

My other siblings thinks I don’t want to go because I don’t like her due to her strangling me when I was 13 + the other abuse I suffered later . However it is due to this abuse that has made me serious about my education. I want to build a better life for myself and reclaim the things I ultimately loss as a result of childhood trauma.

Like do you believe it’s was due to how you were parented or due to society

My parents have traveled for about a week .
My brother and his child have come to stay with me
I tided up the extra bedroom expecting that both f them will share the room.
The child said he wants to sleep with me and I don’t want him to .
Even though it’s hot I don’t like opening my door or window or fan at night as I’m scared I will
catch a cold since I have an autoimmune disease.
I do listen to music at night as I have tinnitus and find it hard to sleep .

I had an argument with both my brother and nephew and said that I’m not going to change the way I sleep and that my nephew should sleep with his dad .

I gave them the fan that was in my room .
The dad took my iPad charger as he needs it to charge his phone. I just find it annoying .

I heard the child saying I’m annoying because I don’t want him to sleep in my room.
I appreciate them coming to stay over but a part of me wishes I could stay by myself. It would have been great practice for when I do

My name isn’t English so it’s hard to translate directly
However it means God loves you
So anything close to that

I’m just asking as my name is hard to pronounce