u/Educational_Koala536

Finding it hard to stay awake

I kinda just been put off with the placements and treatment.

I was asking questions about what a particular sector is about and the response was just unhelpful.

I don’t know if it’s because working in this profession for too long can make you a bit hard .

There is a lot of power play.

I don’t know what I expected but I didn’t really think it would be that bad

For instance one girl attracting all the guys.
I always wondered why do a group of people become so fixated on one person when other people are available.

Do you do visits outside hospital?

I need an idea about the day to day

As someone who isn’t really good at making conversations I’m curious if there is like guidance in knowing what to ask

Was it informal or formal
Do you have any advice

I feel like I have been working hard on life but whenever I get to the next stage I don’t get what I want. For example I sacrifice having friends and totally dedicated myself to my studies thinking that when I get to the next stage I will be happy or get into my dream.

Each time I am disappointed, I don’t get into the uni I want to but I still work hard thinking I might get the next opportunity. I have dedicated myself to studying a degree I don’t like because my parents wanted me to study the degree. I didn’t mind because I thought that I would be able to specialise in the area I’m interested. I got told that I will not be specialising in that area for my internship by my uni and that it will be something else which I honestly didn’t want.

Now I have broken down into a fever and honestly rethinking my life . I can’t go back as I am in my final year and I need the degree to actually better my circumstances as someone who lives in lower classes.

It’s so annoying like you give what you want and then they give you something you don’t want.

Why is this the case ?

Want to prepare for the placement

Want to prepare for my placement

I don’t know if it’s because I may be on the spectrum or because I haven’t had any friends for about 7 years.

I was like to my mum that I want friends who I can tell my secrets or feelings too and she was like you can’t because one day when you guys are fighting she will use it against you

Exploring the Challenges and Experiences of Hospital Discharge and Care Transitions for Older Adults

I was thinking bronfenbrenner's ecological systems theory

Graduating next year
Been looking for jobs not really found any
I want to specialise in hospital discharge

I ordered a package from Amazon, and when I checked my Ring camera, I noticed a woman following the delivery driver all the way up to the gate near my door, which immediately made me feel uneasy. I told the driver to leave the package at the gate, but instead of just doing that, he started arguing with me.Eventually, a neighbour opened the gate for him, but I already find that neighbour a bit odd because on a previous occasion he stopped and stared at my nephew while he was entering the apartment instead of continuing on his way. There have also been other incidents where people have either pretended to be working on the estate or randomly pressed my doorbell without a clear reason. All of these things together are making me feel uncomfortable and uneasy in this new place, but my parents have just moved here.

I'm not really enjoying all the new c drama eg zhan dao adventures or the first jasmine or princess agents sequel -I had so much hopes just to be disappointed

I really enjoyed

story of nivana

The ledgend of miyue

The ledgend of the female warrior

side story valient fox

blue whispers

I loved the harem stories

I love revenge stories

I will go first -Talk to everyone and make connections as it could help you in the future

So my mum said I should give her and my dad my first salary and that out of the salary she will give me allowance.

I asked her if she was okay in the head - I know that I shouldn’t have said that . She said that’s how it’s done in her culture .

We started having our argument and she said that she was just joking. She said that why would she ask me for my money when she can work. I told her she wasn’t joking and that when she says stuff she should take accountability. Because I know her - the same woman who was asking for 1k and took 500 out of my bank account.

I told her that I don’t mind paying the rent since I’m still living at home . Actual proper rent money compared to what I’m paying now.

For context I’m 20 soon finishing school.

She then started praying in her language saying god forbid that she will beg money from me or that she becomes dependent on me. She started praying saying god forbid she will asking money from me so that she will eat . She specifically said my name .

My oldest sister was like why can’t she depend on me . I’m the youngest child .

I sent this to my nephew and he is 12 . Family members think I was too strict.

Edit

I didn’t give him access. It was literally in my hand and then he snatched it from me . I asked him to please give it back and he refused so I had to snatch it.

I’m the one who babysits him constantly so his behaviour is beginning to get on my nerves. I cannot correct him without him crying or him thinking he was in the right. I don’t want to upset my sister by telling her I don’t want to babysit her child no more .

Message
I am really unhappy with your behaviour, and I need you to understand why. Not everything is a joke, and this situation was serious. I clearly told you that I did not want you to look at my hidden photos, but you didn’t listen. You kept trying to do what you wanted anyway, and that is not respectful.
When someone says no, you need to respect it straight away. My phone and my photos are private, and you should not try to look at them after I’ve said no.
I was also disappointed in how you reacted afterwards. When your uncle corrected you, instead of accepting it, you blamed me. Saying it’s my fault because I didn’t want you to see my photos is not okay. You need to learn to take responsibility for your actions.
You also need to understand that your choices have consequences. If you had given me my phone back when I asked, this wouldn’t have become such a big issue.
I also want you to think about how you react when someone corrects you. Crying and avoiding responsibility does not help you learn or improve. A better choice is to listen, accept when you’re wrong, and try to do better next time.
Right now, I am upset and need some space. When you are ready to take responsibility and show better behaviour, we can talk again.

What are the downsides of not doing it

I do 1 h lessons every week with a teacher.

I can read and understand the mandarin but speaking is totally different .

I find it hard to speak so normally I converse slowly.

I see how it takes people like a year or so to converse with good proficiency.

I'm still around hsk 1 -2 after many month.

Its frustrating