Narcissistic grandma's gonna relinquish her financial responsibilities to my wife, or I move out.
For fucking weeks I've been trying to warn my wife that if she doesn't figure out the situation about how her grandmother is fucking up our finances, there's going to be consequences. Well, here we are with a shutoff notice from our electric company and not only does it make zero fucking sense for us not to have been able to cover all our bills, for months, this entire time, grandmother also told us she only has $100 to put towards the bill.
This is after three thirty day extentions and/or grants towards our power bill we got from a doctor because for a while a person with insulin lived with us and they can't just shut off your power if you push back with a doctor. But that can only be done three times.
Now, how we even got into a situation where we couldn't pay the electric bill is a mystery to me, because I didn't ask, because all I know is grandmother was paying bills she shouldn't be paying. I trusted my wife to reign her in because frankly, grandmother is also a narcissist and I don't have the tact not to tell her about herself. For weeks I have been asking, and telling her there's gonna be hell to pay if the electric goes off.
So now I'm pissed and fed up enough that I'm experiencing this because I trusted people to act like fuckin adults, so here's the deal: If grandmother doesn't give my wife the credentials to the social security money and relinquish her financial responsibilities, I'm moving the fuck out at the end of the week.
Fuckin done with this shit. I'm not leaving my wife, but I'm not gonna enable this fuckin shit either.