u/NiceSmilee

MODS 🙏(not generalizing of course 😅, also humor doesn't have to be very high effort aka more lines)

PS. It’s not an invitation to bash men.

Abu Huraira told that Gabriel came to the Prophet and said, "Messenger of God, here is Khadija who has come bringing a vessel containing condiments and food. When she comes give her a greeting from her Lord and from me, and give her the good news that in paradise she will have a house of brilliant pearls in which there will be no clamour or toil."

Both in Bukhari and Muslim
[Mishkat 6185]

The exemplary wife who supported the Prophet SAW in every way possible. Financial, emotional, logistical.

She is the most high status women of this Ummah and 2nd most high status woman of human race after Maryam AS, our lord sent her greetings 😭 

Abu Huraira told that Gabriel came to the Prophet and said, "Messenger of God, here is Khadija who has come bringing a vessel containing condiments and food. When she comes give her a greeting from her Lord and from me, and give her the good news that in paradise she will have a house of brilliant pearls in which there will be no clamour or toil."

Both in Bukhari and Muslim
[Mishkat 6185]

She is the most high status women of this Ummah and 2nd most high status woman of human race after Maryam AS, our lord sent her greetings 😭 

Abu Huraira told that Gabriel came to the Prophet and said, "Messenger of God, here is Khadija who has come bringing a vessel containing condiments and food. When she comes give her a greeting from her Lord and from me, and give her the good news that in paradise she will have a house of brilliant pearls in which there will be no clamour or toil."

Both in Bukhari and Muslim
[Mishkat 6185]

She is the most high status women of this Ummah and 2nd most high status woman of human race after Maryam AS, our lord sent her greetings 😭 

Abu Huraira told that Gabriel came to the Prophet and said, "Messenger of God, here is Khadija who has come bringing a vessel containing condiments and food. When she comes give her a greeting from her Lord and from me, and give her the good news that in paradise she will have a house of brilliant pearls in which there will be no clamour or toil." Both in Bukhari and Muslim [Mishkat 6185] She is the most high status women of this Ummah and 2nd most high status woman of human race after Maryam AS, our lord sent her greetings 😭 

Abu Huraira told that Gabriel came to the Prophet and said, "Messenger of God, here is Khadija who has come bringing a vessel containing condiments and food. When she comes give her a greeting from her Lord and from me, and give her the good news that in paradise she will have a house of brilliant pearls in which there will be no clamour or toil."

Both in Bukhari and Muslim
[Mishkat 6185]

She is the most high status women of this Ummah and 2nd most high status woman of human race after Maryam AS, our lord sent her greetings 😭 

For men:

• Earning a halal livelihood.
• Providing and protecting.
• Leading/guiding the family upon Islam.

For women:

• Pleasing their husband.
• Bearing and raising righteous children.
• Caring for the home and family.

The West is pushing hard to undermine the traditional role of women. They want women to be like men and want them out of their homes for obvious reasons. Unfortunately, just like many Western women, many Muslim women have also bought into this agenda.

An Islamic family can't thrive when women don't take pride in and willingly fulfill their roles. Instead, many aspire to the more glamorous and celebrated role of a career. I believe this is one of the root causes of many family issues in contemporary times.

Career for a wife often leads to three major problems:

1. Neglected children.
2. A neglected husband.
3. Most workplaces provide great opportunities for sin. (yeah, nothing happens on day one.)

Careerism is anti feminine, Women with career ego(having the career and career ego is different) are not wife material IMO.

The tarbiyah of kids isn't possible for such career women. Even before tarbiyah, kids need to be detoxed from what they learn at school, so giving them time and full attention is important.

In this age, 10x more effort is required because of all the fitnah. Allah won't question you if your kids didn't experience a certain lifestyle or have certain material things (which many career women use as a justification), but He will question you if you failed to give your children proper tarbiyah.

Many think a career will let them afford nannies and daycare, so they believe their responsibility is fulfilled. Norais, ing children isn't just about feeding them. Giving them your time, attention, and supervision is essential. Outsourcing their tarbiyah is one of the worst decisions a couple can make.

The best asset and investment you can build is righteous children.

To Muslim sisters: your career won't bring you closer to Allah(rather it will be the opposite in most cases). Fulfilling your role as a wife and mother will. That is an act of worship.

For men:

• Earning a halal livelihood.
• Providing and protecting.
• Leading/guiding the family upon Islam.

For women:

• Pleasing their husband.
• Bearing and raising righteous children.
• Caring for the home and family.

The West is pushing hard to undermine the traditional role of women. They want women to be like men and want them out of their homes for obvious reasons. Unfortunately, just like many Western women, many Muslim women have also bought into this agenda.

An Islamic family can't thrive when women don't take pride in and willingly fulfill their roles. Instead, many aspire to the more glamorous and celebrated role of a career. I believe this is one of the root causes of many family issues in contemporary times.

Career for a wife often leads to three major problems:

1. Neglected children.
2. A neglected husband.
3. Most workplaces provide great opportunities for sin. (yeah, nothing happens on day one.)

Careerism is anti feminine, Women with career ego(having the career and career ego is different) are not wife material IMO.

The tarbiyah of kids isn't possible for such career women. Even before tarbiyah, kids need to be detoxed from what they learn at school, so giving them time and full attention is important.

In this age, 10x more effort is required because of all the fitnah. Allah won't question you if your kids didn't experience a certain lifestyle or have certain material things (which many career women use as a justification), but He will question you if you failed to give your children proper tarbiyah.

Many think a career will let them afford nannies and daycare, so they believe their responsibility is fulfilled. Norais, ing children isn't just about feeding them. Giving them your time, attention, and supervision is essential. Outsourcing their tarbiyah is one of the worst decisions a couple can make.

The best asset and investment you can build is righteous children.

To Muslim sisters: your career won't bring you closer to Allah(rather it will be the opposite in most cases). Fulfilling your role as a wife and mother will. That is an act of worship.

For men:

• Earning a halal livelihood.
• Providing and protecting.
• Leading/guiding the family upon Islam.

For women:

• Pleasing their husband.
• Bearing and raising righteous children.
• Caring for the home and family.

The West is pushing hard to undermine the traditional role of women. They want women to be like men and want them out of their homes for obvious reasons. Unfortunately, just like many Western women, many Muslim women have also bought into this agenda.

An Islamic family can't thrive when women don't take pride in and willingly fulfill their roles. Instead, many aspire to the more glamorous and celebrated role of a career. I believe this is one of the root causes of many family issues in contemporary times.

Career for a wife often leads to three major problems:

1. Neglected children.
2. A neglected husband.
3. Most workplaces provide great opportunities for sin. (yeah, nothing happens on day one.)

Careerism is anti feminine, Women with career ego(having the career and career ego is different) are not wife material IMO.

The tarbiyah of kids isn't possible for such career women. Even before tarbiyah, kids need to be detoxed from what they learn at school, so giving them time and full attention is important.

In this age, 10x more effort is required because of all the fitnah. Allah won't question you if your kids didn't experience a certain lifestyle or have certain material things (which many career women use as a justification), but He will question you if you failed to give your children proper tarbiyah.

Many think a career will let them afford nannies and daycare, so they believe their responsibility is fulfilled. Norais, ing children isn't just about feeding them. Giving them your time, attention, and supervision is essential. Outsourcing their tarbiyah is one of the worst decisions a couple can make.

The best asset and investment you can build is righteous children.

To Muslim sisters: your career won't bring you closer to Allah(rather it will be the opposite in most cases). Fulfilling your role as a wife and mother will. That is an act of worship.

For men:

• Earning a halal livelihood.
• Providing and protecting.
• Leading/guiding the family upon Islam.

For women:

• Pleasing their husband.
• Bearing and raising righteous children.
• Caring for the home and family.

The West is pushing hard to undermine the traditional role of women. They want women to be like men and want them out of their homes for obvious reasons. Unfortunately, just like many Western women, many Muslim women have also bought into this agenda.

An Islamic family can't thrive when women don't take pride in and willingly fulfill their roles. Instead, many aspire to the more glamorous and celebrated role of a career. I believe this is one of the root causes of many family issues in contemporary times.

Career for a wife often leads to three major problems:

1. Neglected children.
2. A neglected husband.
3. Most workplaces provide great opportunities for sin. (yeah, nothing happens on day one.)

Careerism is anti feminine, Women with career ego(having the career and career ego is different) are not wife material IMO.

The tarbiyah of kids isn't possible for such career women. Even before tarbiyah, kids need to be detoxed from what they learn at school, so giving them time and full attention is important.

In this age, 10x more effort is required because of all the fitnah. Allah won't question you if your kids didn't experience a certain lifestyle or have certain material things (which many career women use as a justification), but He will question you if you failed to give your children proper tarbiyah.

Many think a career will let them afford nannies and daycare, so they believe their responsibility is fulfilled. Norais, ing children isn't just about feeding them. Giving them your time, attention, and supervision is essential. Outsourcing their tarbiyah is one of the worst decisions a couple can make.

The best asset and investment you can build is righteous children.

To Muslim sisters: your career won't bring you closer to Allah(rather it will be the opposite in most cases). Fulfilling your role as a wife and mother will. That is an act of worship.

Your short height isn't unattractive but your insecurity and inferiority complex are.

Confidence is far more attractive than a few extra inches.

Stop obsessing over something you can't change, and focus on what you can: your character, fitness, social skills, financial stability etc.

Another thing I find unattractive in men is constantly seeking validation from women and trying to shape themselves around what women want, especially when those preferences are dictated by the media. Don't let media-driven standards define your self-worth. Instead, focus on becoming the man Islam expects you to be, your naseeb will chase you Inshallah.

Your short height isn't unattractive but your insecurity and inferiority complex are.

Confidence is far more attractive than a few extra inches.

Stop obsessing over something you can't change, and focus on what you can: your character, fitness, social skills, financial stability etc.

Another thing I find unattractive in men is constantly seeking validation from women and trying to shape themselves around what women want, especially when those preferences are dictated by the media. Don't let media-driven standards define your self-worth. Instead, focus on becoming the man Islam expects you to be, your naseeb will chase you Inshallah.

I see non stop posts of men and women saying

"I dont want to get married/I will never get married/I hate the idea of marriage/what do I do if I dont want to get married"

Whats gotten into you people? Dont you know that marriage is among the most important things in our religion? Dont you know that Allah and the Prophet ﷺ both heavily emphasized marriage?

Surah 16:72

"And Allah has made for you spouses of your own kind, and given you through your spouses children and grandchildren. And He has granted you good, lawful provisions. Are they then faithful to falsehood and ungrateful for Allah’s favours?"

Surah 24:32

"Marry off the ˹free˺ singles among you, as well as the righteous of your bondmen and bondwomen. If they are poor, Allah will enrich them out of His bounty. For Allah is All-Bountiful, All-Knowing."

Mishkat al-Masabih 3096

Anas reported God’s Messenger ﷺ as saying, “When a man marries he has fulfilled half of the religion; so let him fear God regarding the remaining half.”

Mishkat al-Masabih 3254

Anas reported God’s Messenger as saying, “When a woman observes the five times of prayer, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, she may enter by any of the gates of paradise she wishes.”*

* A way of saying nothing will prevent her from entering paradise.

Abu Nu'aim transmitted it in al-Hilya.

Imam Bukhari رحمه الله said, "Marriage for the youth in the time of fitnah is more obligatory then Hajj." [Fatawa Manar al Islam 2/575].

I will receive hate for this, but it needs to be said. Posts demonising marriage on here should be banned, it does nothing but vilify one of the most important acts in Islam

We dont need less of marriage in our ummah, we need more of it. Hate of marriage is one of the direct causes of zina in our society

This is how you do it. Video

I comment under such posts to have an "uncomfortable talk", this is what I mean exactly 😅

No disrespect to parents, of course. But since this is a serious matter, so some level of boldness is justified to get the message across.