question related to SI (TW)

if God is all loving and you can ask for forgiveness, why couldn’t someone who took their life ask for forgiveness and salvation in their final moments and not go to hell (if they do), or in other religions have final moments in a state of meditation to go out in a peaceful state to offset negative karma. what about the monk who set himself on fire?

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 1 day ago

am i “babying” myself?

am i infantilizing myself if i still want to be close to my mom? i haven’t moved out yet but plan on it soon but i want to stay close by and see her a ton. I already feel baby enough still living with her, and the internet is cruel making fun of “adults” that live at home. I know it’s different for everyone but I try my best to be responsible and help, i’m not just living in the basement. I’m at community college right now, help with errands, work part time, walk my childhood dogs, do arts and crafts. But I still sleep with a stuffed animal and love comfier outfits and a big iced coffee… and the occasional cry in the back room at work.

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 3 days ago

face aging/body

when is skin still “young” and producing stable levels of collagen etc and you are unlikely to have signs of aging naturally (ie, more influenced by things like smoking excessive sun exposure) I thought it was till mid 20s and then gradual less but skin doesn’t show many signs of aging until after your twenties/early 30s. Is this true and is there anything you should start doing early as prevention and things to do to reverse”? I also have some absorption issues and sometimes dip into too low of a weight which has been pissing me off because i’m very diligent with eveytbing else but i can’t control this and it f up my hormones ☹️

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 3 days ago

face aging/body

when is skin still “young” and producing stable levels of collagen etc and you are unlikely to have signs of aging naturally (ie, more influenced by things like smoking excessive sun exposure) I thought it was till mid 20s and then gradual less but skin doesn’t show many signs of aging until after your twenties/early 30s. Is this true and is there anything you should start doing early as prevention and things to do to reverse”? I also have some absorption issues and sometimes dip into too low of a weight which has been pissing me off because i’m very diligent with eveytbing else but i can’t control this and it f up my hormones ☹️

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 3 days ago

best things to do?

is it possible to reverse signs of aging while

preventing it from getting worse? without surgery, and just simple skincare. Is it even possible to get rid of sagging/wrinkles lines etc?

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 3 days ago

want to be a gym girl and lock tf in

where’s the best place to start in the gym as someone who wants to be strong and fit, have visable jacked muscles as a woman, and eat cleanly on a budget. I want to start my journey for real this time. I’m doing it for my mental health, and anti aging. I’m a huge sunscreen wearer, and want to start lifting heavy because i’ve heard it helps slow cellular aging and keep bones strong af. To anyone who has done it, how do you build real muscle (almost like bodybuilders but not as extreme) as a woman just starting out?

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 6 days ago

questions and concerns

hey everyone. i’ve been kind of spiraling a lot recently and would like some words from those who have been in the same boat. To start, i’ve been feeling incredibly embarresed and childish that i am still struggling with my ed and other mental health conditions well into my adult life. It’s hard to meet new people and the first thing they do is stare at your arms. OCD is a bitch and having to take medicine just to survive makes me feel weak. Secondly, i’ve been wondering how ed’s affect aging? That might not be the right wording but i try to be diligent with sun exposure, always wear spf, rarely smoke or drink, use collagen peptides, try to take supplements and use “graceful aging” skincare to prevent wrinkles etc and any potential joint pain etc. But I am very worried that the ed is throwing all of my efforts away and I am doomed to aging badly or something of the sort. I’m aware of the effects anorexia has on the body, but I also know the things like smoking and sun exposure account for an out 80 ish percent of visable aging. So just wondering if other folks with ed’s experience any premature aging or if my efforts are nothing due to my illness. My approach currently and with my team is harm reduction, so if anyone has tips for that i’d appreciate hearing from you as well :)

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 6 days ago

questions and concerns

hey everyone. i’ve been kind of spiraling a lot recently and would like some words from those who have been in the same boat. To start, i’ve been feeling incredibly embarresed and childish that i am still struggling with my ed and other mental health conditions well into my adult life. It’s hard to meet new people and the first thing they do is stare at your arms. OCD is a bitch and having to take medicine just to survive makes me feel weak. Secondly, i’ve been wondering how ed’s affect aging? That might not be the right wording but i try to be diligent with sun exposure, always wear spf, rarely smoke or drink, use collagen peptides, try to take supplements and use “graceful aging” skincare to prevent wrinkles etc and any potential joint pain etc. But I am very worried that the ed is throwing all of my efforts away and I am doomed to aging badly or something of the sort. I’m aware of the effects anorexia has on the body, but I also know the things like smoking and sun exposure account for an out 80 ish percent of visable aging. So just wondering if other folks with ed’s experience any premature aging or if my efforts are nothing due to my illness. My approach currently and with my team is harm reduction, so if anyone has tips for that i’d appreciate hearing from you as well :)

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 6 days ago

questions and concerns

hey everyone. i’ve been kind of spiraling a lot recently and would like some words from those who have been in the same boat. To start, i’ve been feeling incredibly embarresed and childish that i am still struggling with my ed and other mental health conditions well into my adult life. It’s hard to meet new people and the first thing they do is stare at your arms. OCD is a bitch and having to take medicine just to survive makes me feel weak. Secondly, i’ve been wondering how ed’s affect aging? That might not be the right wording but i try to be diligent with sun exposure, always wear spf, rarely smoke or drink, use collagen peptides, try to take supplements and use “graceful aging” skincare to prevent wrinkles etc and any potential joint pain etc. But I am very worried that the ed is throwing all of my efforts away and I am doomed to aging badly or something of the sort. I’m aware of the effects anorexia has on the body, but I also know the things like smoking and sun exposure account for an out 80 ish percent of visable aging. So just wondering if other folks with ed’s experience any premature aging or if my efforts are nothing due to my illness. My approach currently and with my team is harm reduction, so if anyone has tips for that i’d appreciate hearing from you as well :)

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 6 days ago

questions and concerns

hey everyone. i’ve been kind of spiraling a lot recently and would like some words from those who have been in the same boat. To start, i’ve been feeling incredibly embarresed and childish that i am still struggling with my ed and other mental health conditions well into my adult life. It’s hard to meet new people and the first thing they do is stare at your arms. OCD is a bitch and having to take medicine just to survive makes me feel weak. Secondly, i’ve been wondering how ed’s affect aging? That might not be the right wording but i try to be diligent with sun exposure, always wear spf, rarely smoke or drink, use collagen peptides, try to take supplements and use “graceful aging” skincare to prevent wrinkles etc and any potential joint pain etc. But I am very worried that the ed is throwing all of my efforts away and I am doomed to aging badly or something of the sort. I’m aware of the effects anorexia has on the body, but I also know the things like smoking and sun exposure account for an out 80 ish percent of visable aging. So just wondering if other folks with ed’s experience any premature aging or if my efforts are nothing due to my illness. My approach currently and with my team is harm reduction, so if anyone has tips for that i’d appreciate hearing from you as well :)

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 6 days ago

best tips!

what is the best things to do for anti aging (prevention and solution). Currently using a gentle vitamin c serum, daily sunscreen year round (mainly mineral), and just cerave daily sometimes some rose water spray. i try to eat the highest nutrient dense foods possihle and take supplements like collagen powder, calcium/vitamin d, multi, drink non dairy milks, protein powders. Supplements are needed for low bone density from health issues that have caused me to lose a lot of weight in the past and not be able to digest nutrients well. i am doing a bit better now and just try to eat easy digestible and high nutrient foods since i vant eat much without pain. i am working with my team on this, but its mainly just been harm reduction and testing different foods/drinking meal replacements. i am also female so this can affect my menstrual cycle etc. thanks everyone <3. i’ve been considering some micro needling and maybe baby botox but it freaks me out a bit and my budget is pretty limited right now.

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 8 days ago

best tips?

what is the best things to do for anti aging (prevention and solution). Currently using a gentle vitamin c serum, daily sunscreen year round (mainly mineral), and just cerave daily sometimes some rose water spray. i try to eat the highest nutrient dense foods possihle and take supplements like collagen powder, calcium/vitamin d, multi, drink non dairy milks, protein powders. Supplements are needed for low bone density from health issues that have caused me to lose a lot of weight in the past and not be able to digest nutrients well. i am doing a bit better now and just try to eat easy digestible and high nutrient foods since i vant eat much without pain. i am working with my team on this, but its mainly just been harm reduction and testing different foods/drinking meal replacements. i am also female so this can affect my menstrual cycle etc. thanks everyone <3. i’ve been considering some micro needling and maybe baby botox but it freaks me out a bit and my budget is pretty limited right now.

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 8 days ago

best things to do?

what is the best things to do for anti aging (prevention and solution). Currently using a gentle vitamin c serum, daily sunscreen year round (mainly mineral), and just cerave daily sometimes some rose water spray. i try to eat the highest nutrient dense foods possihle and take supplements like collagen powder, calcium/vitamin d, multi, drink non dairy milks, protein powders. Supplements are needed for low bone density from health issues that have caused me to lose a lot of weight in the past and not be able to digest nutrients well. i am doing a bit better now and just try to eat easy digestible and high nutrient foods since i vant eat much without pain. i am working with my team on this, but its mainly just been harm reduction and testing different foods/drinking meal replacements. i am also female so this can affect my menstrual cycle etc. thanks everyone <3. i’ve been considering some micro needling and maybe baby botox but it freaks me out a bit and my budget is pretty limited right now.

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 8 days ago

harm reduction?

does anyone have any harm reduction tips? been dealing with this disorder for so long and would like to help out my body and skin as much as i can when things get tough. advice for any kind of side effect is helpful but i would esp like harm reduction strategies for preserving skin (collagen, hydrating) and bone density. thank you!!

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 8 days ago

unrealistic?

so scared for the future. if everything sucks right now and people aren’t able to move out, get a good paying job, be genuinely comfortable and happy… how do I see many people in the world doing that (young people) and many who aren’t able to? Which brings me to: I don’t wanna fuck this up. What should I actually major in that won‘t be taken by ai and has the potential to make really good money (support me, not paycheck to paycheck, and eventually living large). I’m leaning towards jobs/majors such as nursing, occupational therapy, social work, child life, human services, cosmetology, public health.

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 10 days ago

advice needed :)

Hi everyone hope you are well! Trying to get the best products, habits, and routine down for anti aging and possibly correcting signs of aging like sagging wrinkles all that jazz. i currently use a regular moisturizer and try to use sunscreen daily. I want the most aggressive method to look years younger and do prevention if possible. side note- i do have some health issues and nutritional struggles which at times i can be a bit unstable and underweight periods. but i try my best to control what i can, try to do weight bearing and take supplements like vitamin d calcium and regular multi. i want to know if anything is possible to “freeze” and be youthful (honestly, like zendaya she’s insane) as long as i can, or have dewy glowy skin at any age. i want to feel confident and comfortable in my skin to wear what i want and be who i am too, and feel less judged (being id’d at the bar wouldn’t hurt either 😂). thanks all!! 

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 14 days ago

advice needed :)

Hi everyone hope you are well! Trying to get the best products, habits, and routine down for anti aging and possibly correcting signs of aging like sagging wrinkles all that jazz. i currently use a regular moisturizer and try to use sunscreen daily. I want the most aggressive method to look years younger and do prevention if possible. side note- i do have some health issues and nutritional struggles which at times i can be a bit unstable and underweight periods. but i try my best to control what i can, try to do weight bearing and take supplements like vitamin d calcium and regular multi. i want to know if anything is possible to “freeze” and be youthful (honestly, like zendaya she’s insane) as long as i can, or have dewy glowy skin at any age. i want to feel confident and comfortable in my skin to wear what i want and be who i am too, and feel less judged (being id’d at the bar wouldn’t hurt either 😂). thanks all!! 

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 14 days ago

best tips :)

 Hi everyone hope you are well! Trying to get the best products, habits, and routine down for anti aging and possibly correcting signs of aging like sagging wrinkles all that jazz. i currently use a regular moisturizer and try to use sunscreen daily. I want the most aggressive method to look years younger and do prevention if possible. side note- i do have some health issues and nutritional struggles which at times i can be a bit unstable and underweight periods. but i try my best to control what i can, try to do weight bearing and take supplements like vitamin d calcium and regular multi. i want to know if anything is possible to “freeze” and be youthful (honestly, like zendaya she’s insane) as long as i can, or have dewy glowy skin at any age. i want to feel confident and comfortable in my skin to wear what i want and be who i am too, and feel less judged (being id’d at the bar wouldn’t hurt either 😂). thanks all!! 

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 14 days ago

resources and help needed

could someone find me some resources please? I’m currently 18 and going into senior year and am being kicked out. I need to finish hs and also find money to hold down my living space, food, essentials, and get good health insurance due to my mental health which needs many prescriptions, regular outpatient, and occasionally higher levels of care. I have been working and saving as much as i can but i need to figure out what to do. Im likely going to go to community or state school for nursing, get it as soon as i can, and then possibly get my masters in social work because my goal is to work in addictions. thanks everyone. i also have a older car which i would like to keep because i need it for transportation.

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u/Opposite_List_303 — 27 days ago