u/Plenty_Bit4688

I know this has been asked on here recently but can't find the post.

Was wondering about run/ walk clubs and was wondering if anyone on here is in a run club themselves.

I walk every single day, but haven't ran in so long and never been to a running club meetup so was just a bit nervous of just showing up to one of the gatherings.

I played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily for connecting on this game.

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

This probably one of the first times Ive walked away consciously from something that was having a impact on me like this.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?

I played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily for connecting on this game. It was a

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?

I played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily on this game for connection.

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This is probably the first time in my life where I felt something was unhealthy and walked away.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?

I played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily for connecting on this game. It was a

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?

played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily for connecting on this game. It was a

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?

I played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily for connecting on this game. It was a

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?

My last experience with counseling went meh. I'm from the midwest as a black transman so not a lot of people on my area can relate to certain aspects of my life.

Was wondering if anyone on here does counseling and your rates, etc.

I got a interview tomorrow. Got dress pants and polo shirt. Do you guys suggest tucking in polos?

I've been watching true crime vids on yt, and I'm noticing watching that every day all day can be impactful.

Wondering if anyone had any suggestions in shows or docs where people change their lives around from bad circumstances?

I know traffic is heavy in the mornings so just was curious

They're a genuine local non profit and they help alot of folks in underserved communites here in town. Just really nice people who work there.

I have a job interview next week as a legal assistant and a bit nervious.

On the ad, they stated they want someone with 3 years of experience in foreclosure or mortgage servicing operations, which I have zero but still somehow still got an interview.

I have a bit of experience doing admin assistant adjacent tasks (I was a zoning researcher for a while, and did very basic clerical task when I was working as a temp court clerk assistant a year ago.)

I have a few days to prepare, but was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for the interview, including how to dress (male).

I have copy and pasted the expecations of the role if you'd like to read them.

Any suggestions would be awesome!

• Assist attorneys in the preparation and filing of legal documents, including pleadings, motions, and orders.
• Maintain case files ensuring that all relevant materials are organized and easily accessible.
• Coordinate and schedule appointments, meetings, and court dates, communicating necessary information to all relevant parties.
• Draft routine correspondence such as letters and emails, on behalf of the firm.
• Manage client relationships, providing timely updates on case progress, and addressing client inquires or concerns.
• Maintain strict confidentiality of sensitive client information and adhere to all ethical guidelines and standards set forth.
• Collaborate with other support staff to ensure efficient and seamless office operations.
• Communication through email, phone, fax in a prompt, clear, concise, and professional manner.
• Additional responsibilities may involve coordinating communication between departments or teams, maintaining communication records, and staying up to date on relevant technology and tools to enhance communication efficiency.
• Performs other related duties as assigned by management.

I have a job interview next week as a legal assistant and a bit nervious.

On the ad, they stated they want someone with 3 years of experience in foreclosure or mortgage servicing operations, which I have zero but still somehow still got an interview.

I have a bit of experience doing admin assistant adjacent tasks (I was a zoning researcher for a while, and did very basic clerical task when I was working as a temp court clerk assistant a year ago.)

I have a few days to prepare, but was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for the interview, including how to dress (male).

I have copy and pasted the expecations of the role if you'd like to read them.

Any suggestions would be awesome!

• Assist attorneys in the preparation and filing of legal documents, including pleadings, motions, and orders.
• Maintain case files ensuring that all relevant materials are organized and easily accessible.
• Coordinate and schedule appointments, meetings, and court dates, communicating necessary information to all relevant parties.
• Draft routine correspondence such as letters and emails, on behalf of the firm.
• Manage client relationships, providing timely updates on case progress, and addressing client inquires or concerns.
• Maintain strict confidentiality of sensitive client information and adhere to all ethical guidelines and standards set forth.
• Collaborate with other support staff to ensure efficient and seamless office operations.
• Communication through email, phone, fax in a prompt, clear, concise, and professional manner.
• Additional responsibilities may involve coordinating communication between departments or teams, maintaining communication records, and staying up to date on relevant technology and tools to enhance communication efficiency.
• Performs other related duties as assigned by management.

I've only ever ran into one fellow black trans dude and that was some years ago, wondering if anyone else is out here!

Like for example the hand, forearm, neck tattoos.

Being a black transmen is such a unique experience tbh and just wanna connect with other dudes. I tried hitting up Black Transmen Inc in TX, but I guess they're closed now. Would be so cool to hear from you guys

Being a black transmen is such a unique experience tbh and just wanna connect with other dudes. I tried hitting up Black Transmen Inc in TX, but I guess they're closed now. Would be so cool to hear from you guys

Being a black transmen is such a unique experience tbh and just wanna connect with other dudes. I tried hitting up Black Transmen Inc in TX, but I guess they're closed now. Would be so cool to hear from you guys

After I had stopped pursuing I guess a "situationship" I have been moving on. It's been a bit up and down feelings wise, but it's been a positive trajectory.

The hurt I felt actually set me on a path of taking life more seriously and naturally more greatful for things.

Only thing is, when waking up I think about old relationships or people I was once was connected with. Like every morning. And the thoughts are starting to feel violating and dissapointing.

Like "dude, again with the thoughts??" It feels like me personally, I am emotionally detaching, but my thoughts themselves aren't in the moving on process with me.

I'm sure it's a normal part of the process

I used to feel an incredibly depressing sadness, feeling like "I miss them etc" but now I'm more sad that I'm even thinking about the situations still even though it's been months to a few years in other situations.

Things have changed so much for me mentally and in life in general past few months, I just don't want to be stuck in the same thought patterns about the past.