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I was in Jail (PC because I'm Trans, and was the only other trans person in the jail, it was highly isolating.) not prison, for 25 days. Had a agg DUI and didn't have the resources to get bonded out. Eventually a family member found out where I was and got out.--------This was 6 days ago. PC was highly isolating and the guards were something else. My lawyer said I'm not going back since I did minimum time already for agg dui in my state and no priors, but still I feel tht fear has been lingering over me.-----Bless the people who have gone years and years through this and have been able to adjust back on the outside. I realize my situation could of been a lot worse, and I'm grateful for that----thank you and prayers to you and your futures

Due to certain health goals, I'm thinking of stopping T for 6 months to a year. I'm a bit nervous to do so, especially since I had a hysterectomy earlier this year. The longest I've been off T in the past 10ish years is just about give or take 4 months. I know it's always best to talk to a health care provider, just was curious though.

Due to certain health goals, I'm thinking of stopping T for 6 months to a year. I'm a bit nervous to do so, especially since I had a hysterectomy earlier this year. The longest I've been off T in the past 10ish years is just about give or take 4 months. I know it's always best to talk to a health care provider, just was curious though.

Got a lawyer already through indigent system so I'm good there. Agg DUI, first offensive. I do have a understanding that agg dui is seen as felony status in Oklahoma.

---Alch over .15 and hit the back of one car which hit the back end of another car. So auto Agg. According to police report, no one went to hospital but "bodily injury assumed"

----Spoke with lawyer, he said he already chatted with DA and he said worst case is deferred sentence.------Reason I did 25 days was because I had no money, and no one to bond me out.---Court in a month and a half. Just scared I guess. Scared of going back in

I know a gentlemen who is low incomed and he recently lost his car due to a wreck.

He's been walking quite often, but thought he could get to places in town/ commute to work/ run errands a bit easier & quicker especially since it's a bit hot outside.

Would love to see how I could help him.

Was wondering if anyone happens to know of any resources in town I can connect him to. Thank you.

Anyone that has affordable notary services that will be open tomorrow that are closer to more of the eat side of town?

I walk often and ride the bus often so wans't sure if there were any notary places I have been over looking.

Alot of my social fulfillment came from a online game. After some drama and situations that impacted me on that game, I had decided to step away. But now I feel so lonely and think about the people on there everday, but I dont go on because I dont feel its good for me. I dont know what to do now

I was thinking applying to work at Regal as a bartender.

The closest thing I've had to a bartender was when I worked at a restaurant pouring draft beers, and sometimes making mixed drinks, but the making of mixed drinks honestly wasnt often, and there was directions to make the mixed drinks.

Just was curious of anyones else experience.

I was thinking applying to work at Regal as a bartender.

The closest thing I've had to a bartender was when I worked at a restaurant pouring draft beers, and sometimes making mixed drinks, but the making of mixed drinks honestly wasnt often, and there was directions to make the mixed drinks.

Just was curious of anyones else experience.

For most of 2018-2023, I had a very sedentary life. I mostly ate, slept, and played online social games where I filled the need of socializing.

----Starting in August of 2023, I went through many intense situations such as breakup, eviction, and living in 2 houses where family members were highly abusive.

-----Anyways, ended up in a shelter, where I kinda had to be more outgoing, I was in high survival mode. I worked hard then got my own place. Got my own place. Recently I had decided to remove myself from the game for many reasons and start my own exposure therapy.

-----It's been honestly boring, difficult, all about emotion this emotion that, and I go out and do things just to do them and it feel like days go by with nothing fun. I'm also on a new meal plan, drinking/ smoking less, and I'm going to start seeing a therapist which I'm not sure would help. There's aspect of therapy I don't agree with.

-----I know a large part of that is not having that social reliance on the game. What I really crave is consistent schedule. Been looking for work. My semester starts in August which I'm really excited and will give me focus & a schedule, for but feels so far away.

----Any tips for things to feel less boring, uncomfortable, unfulfilled etc

Back when I was dating my exes, my life was quite different. I was very sedentary, I would say pretty agoraphobic, not really focused on anything etc. Whole life revolved around being comfortable.

Alot of things have transpired to where my effort in life is much different, I'm more social, and have goals.

But I can't help but almost compare how they would feel about how I currently live. Like I can't seperate it and it's bothering me and I just want to live my life for me without the feeling of someones ghost learing over me.

Would love perspective

Back when I was dating my exes, my life was quite different. I was very sedentary, I would say pretty agoraphobic, not really focused on anything etc. Whole life revolved around being comfortable.

Alot of things have transpired to where my effort in life is much different, I'm more social, and have goals.

But I can't help but almost compare how they would feel about how I currently live. Like I can't seperate it and it's bothering me and I just want to live my life for me without the feeling of someones ghost learing over me.

Would love perspective

Back when I was dating my exes, my life was quite different. I was very sedentary, I would say pretty agoraphobic, not really focused on anything etc. Whole life revolved around being comfortable.

Alot of things have transpired to where my effort in life is much different, I'm more social, and have goals.

But I can't help but almost compare how they would feel about how I currently live. Like I can't seperate it and it's bothering me and I just want to live my life for me without the feeling of someones ghost learing over me.

Would love perspective

I have for the past about 5 months or so have been kinda stepping away from the Neville Goddard belief system.

I'm not a athiest, I believe there's something.

I do also believe your mentality has a massive impact on your life, but just from certain life experiences, my perspectives on the "truth" have been shifting a bit.

Transitioning from the Neville mentality is not something that alot of people in general go through, let alone things like law of attraction/ assumption etc.

Just was wondering if I could shoot anyone a pm

I know this has been asked on here recently but can't find the post.

Was wondering about run/ walk clubs and was wondering if anyone on here is in a run club themselves.

I walk every single day, but haven't ran in so long and never been to a running club meetup so was just a bit nervous of just showing up to one of the gatherings.

I played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily for connecting on this game.

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

This probably one of the first times Ive walked away consciously from something that was having a impact on me like this.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?

I played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily for connecting on this game. It was a

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?

I played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily on this game for connection.

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This is probably the first time in my life where I felt something was unhealthy and walked away.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?

I played a social online game on and off for many years. In early 2024 due to personal things going on in my life and not really having friends, I relied heavily for connecting on this game. It was a

Had made intense friendships, romantic relationships, and aquintances.

After a particularly unhealthy drama/ situation that had occured that had left me feeling in the trenches, and it with it having impact in my real life, I had decided to walk away from the game.

This was maybe 3 months ago. Despite making alot of changes in my life, I still have a sense of fomo and still think about certain people on there everyday.

I feel like I'm missing out even though logically I know I'm not.

Anyone else felt that sense of missing and got over it over time?