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So I'm in a hostel and it's mess is full veg (not even an egg is allowed) and I'm from Bengal so obv I'm a hardcore non vegetarian. Now the issue is less about taste and more about quality of food, although the quality of food is still okay, it's genuinely unhealthy. It's a uni in bihar and for some reason they serve puri with jalebi and chole bhature at 8am (???? Why????) And there's like NO way to get proper protein in ur diet because it's extremely carb heavy, fat heavy, veg and will 100% throw off your digestion. We're not allowed to have any appliances in the hostel but my roommate has a kettle i can occasionally use. I decided to buy 15 eggs weekly and have 2 daily (no fridge so i can't store em) and get soya chunks to add to oats and just keep my overall diet healthy n not eat from the canteens but honestly ts ain't enough for someone who did a minimum of 70g protein daily back at home, this will hardly give me 40g along with my hostels god forbidden diet so can someone tell me what i can do Or some low carb, high protein non perishable items? Pls don't suggest protein powder I'm already too broke 🥀🥀🥀

So I'm in a hostel and it's mess is full veg (not even an egg is allowed) and I'm from Bengal so obv I'm a hardcore non vegetarian. Now the issue is less about taste and more about quality of food, although the quality of food is still okay, it's genuinely unhealthy. It's a uni in bihar and for some reason they serve puri with jalebi and chole bhature at 8am (???? Why????) And there's like NO way to get proper protein in ur diet because it's extremely carb heavy, fat heavy, veg and will 100% throw off your digestion. We're not allowed to have any appliances in the hostel but my roommate has a kettle i can occasionally use. I decided to buy 15 eggs weekly and have 2 daily (no fridge so i can't store em) and get soya chunks to add to oats and just keep my overall diet healthy n not eat from the canteens but honestly ts ain't enough for someone who did a minimum of 70g protein daily back at home, this will hardly give me 40g along with my hostels god forbidden diet so can someone tell me what i can do Or some low carb, high protein non perishable items? Pls don't suggest protein powder I'm already too broke 🥀🥀🥀

So I'm in a hostel and it's mess is full veg (not even an egg is allowed) and I'm from Bengal so obv I'm a hardcore non vegetarian. Now the issue is less about taste and more about quality of food, although the quality of food is still okay, it's genuinely unhealthy. It's a uni in bihar and for some reason they serve puri with jalebi and chole bhature at 8am (???? Why????) And there's like NO way to get proper protein in ur diet because it's extremely carb heavy, fat heavy, veg and will 100% throw off your digestion. We're not allowed to have any appliances in the hostel but my roommate has a kettle i can occasionally use. I decided to buy 15 eggs weekly and have 2 daily (no fridge so i can't store em) and get soya chunks to add to oats and just keep my overall diet healthy n not eat from the canteens but honestly ts ain't enough for someone who did a minimum of 70g protein daily back at home, this will hardly give me 40g along with my hostels god forbidden diet so can someone tell me what i can do Or some low carb, high protein non perishable items? Pls don't suggest protein powder I'm already too broke 🥀🥀🥀

Psychology sir holy smash sir I'm gonna give u severe psychological problems jus come to me omg isse better mei ghus jati

College mei sirf chatpati fit checks ho rhe aur vlc mei orientation ke time peeche baith ke sona hi ho rha hai aur kadakti dhoop mei tanning hi ho rhi hai aur kuch nhi

Aur is canteen mei milta to aadha cheez nhi hai

5 saal bad order ata hai utne time mei mai hi 4 jan ka khana bana du

Kal se lungi mei aungi merese na ho rhi college life enjoy

ALSO NASHA MUKTI GANA WTF???????????

REACHED GAYAAAAA YAYYY

Anyone who's in the merit list for ug-pg in english, let's connect!

Ye list niklne se pehle main nikl jaungi

The merit list is supposed to come out today (30/07/2026) and some people r saying it'll come out on 31st or even 1st aug and seeing how late they were with the 2nd cutoff, i can't help but believe that it'll come out late too but who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

2ndly we all know classes for 1st sem will start from 4th August so when will the hostel list come out? I was talking to someone and they said that I'll come out on 3rd August which makes no sense from the college's side since the classes are from 4th and the have to do document verification and stuff and we have to come with hostel payment receipt in order to avail the hostel so if the list comes out on 3rd, there seems to be no way to opt for the hostel by 4th or 5th august, which is quite difficult for out of state students who are away from their home and obviously can't avail a pg for a few days

So is there any legit information about the hostel list as in when it will come out or when we can stay in the hostel esp since classes are from 4th August? Thanks!

As the classes are starting from 4th, what procedure do we have to do after arriving there on 2nd or 3rd? Will there be some document verification or something? Anything to bring?

Talked to this guy like 20 mins ago because i got a wrong product and some lady picked up n forwarded the call to another guy (probably her senior or diff team) n he was SO nice n his voice was amazing. This is entirely random BUT IF FATE EXISTS I'LL FIND U V. M. N I'LL MARRY U IDC THAT IM 18 OHY GOD WHAT A MAGNIFICENT GUY HOW DO MEN LIKE HIM EXIST guys if u know a vikram m. at Amazon hmu /hj

Atp I'll get a job at Amazon 🤷🏻‍♀️

I applied for 2 courses

English 302/252

Bcom 117/100

But i still haven't received the mails?

I placed an order yesterday (19/07/2026) on littlebox during the BOGO sale and today i woke up and it said that the order has been confirmed and they're preparing to dispatch it

Now the issue is that I will leave for college on 1st August and I'm afraid the order won't come by then. I wanted to know how long it takes for littlebox orders to arrive to West Bengal since the day of placing the order (even a rough/ approx estimate is fine)

Might move to cusb for English hons (partial drop) n I'll give cuet next year for some nc (getting sc but not my preferred course) so i wanted to know how the environment there is and if there are festa and stuff and is the campus generally safe? Also hostel mei no non veg food???? 😭😭😭 are there any clothing restrictions? Is there an all india turnover ya log specific areas se hi ate hai? Etc

Would be nice to connect to a senior, preferably female (ladko se mujhe dar lgta hai sowwy)

19F. Need advice on surviving an abusive household until I can become financially independent.

I (19F) was born and brought up in a very abusive family. I'm an only child. Growing up, my parents were physically abusive towards me. When I was around 7 years old, they would beat me until I bled and even hold knives to my wrists. Thankfully, the physical abuse towards me mostly stopped when I was around 12, but the abuse between my parents never did.

Here's the situation:

In 2019, my father had an online affair. My mother and I caught him, but nothing really happened afterwards.

In 2021, my mother had an online affair with our dog's breeder. My father made it into a massive issue—we had to move into my grandparents' house for three months because of it.

Then, around May 2025, my mother had another online affair, this time with one of my father's friends. Again, it never became physical. My father constantly calls her a who*e and accuses her of sleeping around, but as far as I know, nothing physical has ever happened.

I'm not trying to justify my mother's affairs. She is absolutely at fault for those decisions. However, she has had an extremely unhappy marriage. My father was physically abusive for years, was an alcoholic, has tried to murder her multiple times, and has hospitalized her on several occasions due to the beatings. He was also financially abusive throughout their marriage.

On top of that, he has connections with police officers, lawyers, and political figures, and constantly threatens both of us by saying he can use those connections against us if we ever take action.

Financially, things are a mess.

Over the years, he has taken around ₹10 lakhs from my mother and around ₹50,000 from me. He now denies ever borrowing it. Thankfully, I have voice recordings of him admitting he took the money and promising to repay it, although he later denies everything.

One major reason my mother feels trapped is because she wants her money back before leaving. She owns two apartments in her own name—one that my father bought for her years ago as a sort of "don't divorce me" gift, and another inherited from her parents. The house we're currently living in (worth roughly ₹60–80 lakhs for the first floor) will eventually be inherited by my father.

He used to be a very successful businessman and trader, but over the past few years he's lost most of his money through reckless business ventures and risky trading. Last year alone he lost around ₹5 lakhs in a single month. Now he barely works and essentially lives off my mother, who earns only about ₹3,000 a month at a small job she mainly does just to get out of the house because she can't bear staying here all day. Ironically, even though she barely earns anything, the household still depends on that money.

Since 2021, my father has repeatedly claimed that I'm not his biological daughter. I know this is false, and honestly, I think he knows it's false too. I've agreed to take a DNA test multiple times over the past six years, but he never actually gets one done because I think he knows the results won't support his accusations. He just continues using it as another way to humiliate my mother.

He also pawned or loaned away the gold that had been kept aside for my future wedding, which was worth a substantial amount, and lost most of that money in trading as well.

To make matters worse, he also took out insurance worth around ₹49 lakhs, and because of everything that's happened financially, I now have virtually nothing available for my college education. I'm about to start college and may have to pay for much of it myself. I'm also planning to take a partial drop, which will make my education even more expensive.

My current plan is to finish my degree, get a job in around 4–5 years, and then help my mother leave permanently. I've already told her to hold on until then.

My questions are:

- What should my mother and I be doing over the next 4–5 years?

- What legal or financial steps should we start taking now?

- How can I protect myself financially from my father, considering his habit of borrowing money, denying it later, and making terrible financial decisions?

- Should we be documenting things in any specific way?

- Is there anything we should be doing now that we'll regret not doing later if things get worse?

I'm from West Bengal, India, if that changes anything legally.

I'd really appreciate any advice.

TL;DR: I’m a 19F in India from a long-term abusive and financially unstable household. My parents have a history of physical abuse, emotional abuse, affairs, threats, and money disputes. My father has taken large amounts of money, controls most of the finances/assets, and uses alleged police/political connections to intimidate us. I’m about to start college and want advice on how to protect myself and my mother legally and financially until I can finish school, get a stable job, and help her leave.