u/VideoSharp8658

So turned 28 and have a fear of getting older.

I fear people are more judgemental and less forgiving as you age and being interested in certain hobbies and you have to do certain things

I don't really have a friend group and fear missing out as didn't party much when younger

Also honestly I wish I got to know more/certain people at uni to have branched out/been more social and feel was wasted as perhaps too introverted

Also I fear being seen as old compared to young adults and thus if I am, it puts me on the same level as someone 40+ or mid 30s

I really wish I was 21-25 again

I am 28 and not found a job for over a year since 2024 of NOV.. I am in Canada and am applying like crazy but nothing. I have a degree in global development and MA in polisci and have had only one interview last month and got nothing and am feeling depressed/stuck and not progressing anywhere

I am doing part time stuff for my parent but I feel the longer this goes on, they are trying to decide my path for me such as saying I should start my own company and are really pushing that and don't really want to do that or going back to school but feel that's not so helpful as I need experience. Unsure how courses can help

I am frustrated as people my age are in higher positions and I've barely started an entry level role

I tried to manifest one job and got nothing from it and even wrote out posts/replies

Honestly what can I do or any tips as I am getting pissed. I applied for one summer job program and didn't even get an interview

I am 28 and not found a job for over a year since 2024 of NOV.. I am in Canada and am applying like crazy but nothing. I have a degree in global development and MA in polisci and have had only one interview last month and got nothing and am feeling depressed/stuck and not progressing anywhere

I am doing part time stuff for my parent but I feel the longer this goes on, they are trying to decide my path for me such as saying I should start my own company and are really pushing that and don't really want to do that or going back to school but feel that's not so helpful as I need experience. Unsure how courses can help

I am frustrated as people my age are in higher positions and I've barely started an entry level role

Honestly what can I do or any tips as I am getting pissed. I applied for one summer job program and didn't even get an interview

I am 28 and not found a job for over a year since 2024 of NOV.. I am in Canada and am applying like crazy but nothing. I have a degree in global development and MA in polisci and have had only one interview last month and got nothing and am feeling depressed/stuck and not progressing anywhere

I am doing part time stuff for my parent but I feel the longer this goes on, they are trying to decide my path for me such as saying I should start my own company and are really pushing that and don't really want to do that or going back to school but feel that's not so helpful as I need experience. Unsure how courses can help

I am frustrated as people my age are in higher positions and I've barely started an entry level role

Honestly what can I do or any tips as I am getting pissed. I applied for one summer job program and didn't even get an interview

I am 28 and not found a job for over a year since 2024 of NOV.. I am in Canada and am applying like crazy but nothing. I have a degree in global development and MA in polisci and have had only one interview last month and got nothing and am feeling depressed/stuck and not progressing anywhere

I am doing part time stuff for my parent but I feel the longer this goes on, they are trying to decide my path for me such as saying I should start my own company and are really pushing that and don't really want to do that or going back to school but feel that's not so helpful as I need experience. Unsure how courses can help

I am frustrated as people my age are in higher positions and I've barely started an entry level role

Honestly what can I do or any tips as I am getting pissed. I applied for one summer job program and didn't even get an interview

I am 28 and not found a job for over a year since 2024 of NOV.. I am in Canada and am applying like crazy but nothing. I have a degree in global development and MA in polisci and have had only one interview last month and got nothing and am feeling stuck and not progressing anywhere

I am doing part time stuff for my parent but I feel the longer this goes on, they are trying to decide my path for me such as saying I should start my own company and are really pushing that and don't really want to do that or going back to school but feel that's not so helpful as I need experience. Unsure how courses can help

I am frustrated as people my age are in higher positions and I've barely started an entry level role

Honestly what can I do or any tips as I am getting pissed. I applied for one summer job program and didn't even get an interview

I was wondering what do you say and why?

I was wondering how do they work exactly/role and all?

I wonder as is this a normal age difference no one would care about in universe or would peers of both parties be suspect

for example does the older person come across as dating that young as they can't get women their age so should they be portrayed in a negative light? Like being seen as a manchild/loser/bum etc

honestly what's the most realistic way to depict this romance and how would readers feel about this sort of relationship?

Child marriage is a problem now and we have more advancements showing the harms that are biological/physical as well

but was wondering were Hausa/Igbo/Fula etc physicians aware of. the harms of very early pregnancy under 15? Any notes or stuff indicating that

So my friend told me she went on a few dates with a dude who was 19 a few months back and she was 25. She said it was cuz she wanted to do a hook up but ended not doing so cuz the dude was too young

But am feeling the ick/appalled even that she even went on dates despite not doing anything. I mean if someone told you they went on dates with a 16/17 year old, it'd be gross and its the same thing honestly as she went out with a child

So am not sure but leaning towards cutting her of or telling people tbh

Curious what would your thoughts be and why?

For example 18 and 26-30 I'd be disgusted and suspicious so how about this?

I wonder how bad it is and all?

So I am concerned when white women say this about all men which includes black men

a white woman said she believes men deserve less rights and should start in jail

However I am wary as this comes from a context of white women having a history of enslaving and getting black men lynched and mass incarceration

So are you also wary of these statements

I wonder as a friend (younger) did this for 2 years and they don't seem to regret it

but I heard people say 22 is ethically a child to someone almost 30 so what's your view honestly?

I wonder as one is a young adult and the other isn't so is it odd?

People use phrases such as kids and young adults so does that mean its creepy?

So was wondering as would not do this as feel its not compatible but that said..does it fall under grooming perhaps