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hi i'm still looking for my mbti i always get 1.ESTP/2.ISTP 3.ESFP. i'm a girl 22yo people said that maybe i'm ENFJ? because i love people and being with them, attract feel attached easly.

i'm very emotionally mature ans understand others, i can know who they without speak to them.

I make sure that everyone is included in the group and feels like they belong and are not left out, even if I don’t always feel it emotionally or sometimes I do. I still feel obligated to do it because I don’t want anyone to be hurt. It’s not necessarily because I feel it deeply every time, but because it is a principle I have. ( Ti-Fe ? )

I really don’t think I’m a Fe-dominant type, because that kind of thing drains me, and other people’s emotions drain me as well. I don’t enjoy helping others, and I don’t like feeling responsible for them or guiding them in their decisions.

I can do it from time to time if I feel that the person is not becoming dependent on my opinion. What I truly enjoy is debating or sharing my knowledge when it involves logic and reasoning. For example, solving a problem or explaining a logical calculation is mentally stimulating to me, because I like demonstrating that I can reason clearly.

I also rarely know what I’m feeling. Most of the time, I feel nothing in particular. My emotions tend to come more from external experiences, such as going out or spending time with people I care about. And when I’m not doing well, it’s usually other people who tell me that I should talk about my problems.

don’t really like my personality because I become very very attached to people. I genuinely love being around others, and even if I’ve only talked to someone once, I may immediately want to see them, meet up, go out, or have a meal together.

I’m often drawn to people I find attractive, and I can get emotionally attached to them very quickly. But when I’m no longer with them, I sometimes start questioning the point of having friends at all, or I suddenly feel drained and lose interest for a while.

Even so, I know that I do care about them and that my feelings for them are real. It’s just that my desire for connection tends to come in intense waves, followed by moments of emotional distance. That’s why I like having a lot of friends, so I don’t get tired of any one friend.

I’m not a very talkative person. My conversations are usually quite simple and based on what I see around me, the things in my environment, and straightforward connections between them like food, activities, or whatever is happening in the moment. If nothing comes to mind, I don’t force the conversation.

I don’t naturally have the kind of conversations where ideas keep branching out endlessly the way they often seem to for Ne-dominant types.

If I invite someone over and we don’t do anything in particular, I tend to become quiet and nonchalant; I may not talk at all, and I find that boring. On the other hand, if we cook together, go out, or do some kind of activity, that’s when I feel like myself, as long as emotions come to me it all depends on whether that happens.

That’s why I thought I might be an ISTP or ISFP, but my very sociable side approaching people and really liking people a lot makes others tell me that I might be an ESTP or ESFP.

funny thing :

i see myself in enfj caractere like marinette duping cheng ahha

type me help

hi i'm still looking for my mbti i always get 1.ESTP/2.ISTP 3.ESFP. i'm a girl 22yo people said that maybe i'm ESFJ? because i love people and being with them?

I make sure that everyone is included in the group and feels like they belong and are not left out, even if I don’t always feel it emotionally or sometimes I do. I still feel obligated to do it because I don’t want anyone to be hurt. It’s not necessarily because I feel it deeply every time, but because it is a principle I have. ( Ti-Fe ? )

I really don’t think I’m a Fe-dominant type, because that kind of thing drains me, and other people’s emotions drain me as well. I don’t enjoy helping others, and I don’t like feeling responsible for them or guiding them in their decisions.

I can do it from time to time if I feel that the person is not becoming dependent on my opinion. What I truly enjoy is debating or sharing my knowledge when it involves logic and reasoning. For example, solving a problem or explaining a logical calculation is mentally stimulating to me, because I like demonstrating that I can reason clearly.

I also rarely know what I’m feeling. Most of the time, I feel nothing in particular. My emotions tend to come more from external experiences, such as going out or spending time with people I care about. And when I’m not doing well, it’s usually other people who tell me that I should talk about my problems.

don’t really like my personality because I become very very attached to people. I genuinely love being around others, and even if I’ve only talked to someone once, I may immediately want to see them, meet up, go out, or have a meal together.

I’m often drawn to people I find attractive, and I can get emotionally attached to them very quickly. But when I’m no longer with them, I sometimes start questioning the point of having friends at all, or I suddenly feel drained and lose interest for a while.

Even so, I know that I do care about them and that my feelings for them are real. It’s just that my desire for connection tends to come in intense waves, followed by moments of emotional distance. That’s why I like having a lot of friends, so I don’t get tired of any one friend.

I’m not a very talkative person. My conversations are usually quite simple and based on what I see around me, the things in my environment, and straightforward connections between them like food, activities, or whatever is happening in the moment. If nothing comes to mind, I don’t force the conversation.

I don’t naturally have the kind of conversations where ideas keep branching out endlessly the way they often seem to for Ne-dominant types.

If I invite someone over and we don’t do anything in particular, I tend to become quiet and nonchalant; I may not talk at all, and I find that boring. On the other hand, if we cook together, go out, or do some kind of activity, that’s when I feel like myself, as long as emotions come to me it all depends on whether that happens.

That’s why I thought I might be an ISTP or ISFP, but my very sociable side approaching people and really liking people a lot makes others tell me that I might be an ESTP or ESFP.

type me help

hi i'm still looking for my mbti i always get 1.ESTP/2.ISTP 3.ESFP. i'm a girl 22yo

I make sure that everyone is included in the group and feels like they belong and are not left out, even if I don’t always feel it emotionally or sometimes I do. I still feel obligated to do it because I don’t want anyone to be hurt. It’s not necessarily because I feel it deeply every time, but because it is a principle I have. ( Ti-Fe ? )

I really don’t think I’m a Fe-dominant type, because that kind of thing drains me, and other people’s emotions drain me as well. I don’t enjoy helping others, and I don’t like feeling responsible for them or guiding them in their decisions.

I can do it from time to time if I feel that the person is not becoming dependent on my opinion. What I truly enjoy is debating or sharing my knowledge when it involves logic and reasoning. For example, solving a problem or explaining a logical calculation is mentally stimulating to me, because I like demonstrating that I can reason clearly.

I also rarely know what I’m feeling. Most of the time, I feel nothing in particular. My emotions tend to come more from external experiences, such as going out or spending time with people I care about. And when I’m not doing well, it’s usually other people who tell me that I should talk about my problems.

don’t really like my personality because I become very very attached to people. I genuinely love being around others, and even if I’ve only talked to someone once, I may immediately want to see them, meet up, go out, or have a meal together.

I’m often drawn to people I find attractive, and I can get emotionally attached to them very quickly. But when I’m no longer with them, I sometimes start questioning the point of having friends at all, or I suddenly feel drained and lose interest for a while.

Even so, I know that I do care about them and that my feelings for them are real. It’s just that my desire for connection tends to come in intense waves, followed by moments of emotional distance. That’s why I like having a lot of friends, so I don’t get tired of any one friend.

I’m not a very talkative person. My conversations are usually quite simple and based on what I see around me, the things in my environment, and straightforward connections between them like food, activities, or whatever is happening in the moment. If nothing comes to mind, I don’t force the conversation.

I don’t naturally have the kind of conversations where ideas keep branching out endlessly the way they often seem to for Ne-dominant types.

If I invite someone over and we don’t do anything in particular, I tend to become quiet and nonchalant; I may not talk at all, and I find that boring. On the other hand, if we cook together, go out, or do some kind of activity, that’s when I feel like myself, as long as emotions come to me it all depends on whether that happens.

That’s why I thought I might be an ISTP or ISFP, but my very sociable side approaching people and really liking people a lot makes others tell me that I might be an ESTP or ESFP.

type me help

hi i'm still looking for my mbti i always get 1.ESTP/2.ISTP 3.ESFP. i'm a girl 22yo

I make sure that everyone is included in the group and feels like they belong and are not left out, even if I don’t always feel it emotionally or sometimes I do. I still feel obligated to do it because I don’t want anyone to be hurt. It’s not necessarily because I feel it deeply every time, but because it is a principle I have. ( Ti-Fe ? )

I really don’t think I’m a Fe-dominant type, because that kind of thing drains me, and other people’s emotions drain me as well. I don’t enjoy helping others, and I don’t like feeling responsible for them or guiding them in their decisions.

I can do it from time to time if I feel that the person is not becoming dependent on my opinion. What I truly enjoy is debating or sharing my knowledge when it involves logic and reasoning. For example, solving a problem or explaining a logical calculation is mentally stimulating to me, because I like demonstrating that I can reason clearly.

I also rarely know what I’m feeling. Most of the time, I feel nothing in particular. My emotions tend to come more from external experiences, such as going out or spending time with people I care about. And when I’m not doing well, it’s usually other people who tell me that I should talk about my problems.

don’t really like my personality because I become very very attached to people. I genuinely love being around others, and even if I’ve only talked to someone once, I may immediately want to see them, meet up, go out, or have a meal together.

I’m often drawn to people I find attractive, and I can get emotionally attached to them very quickly. But when I’m no longer with them, I sometimes start questioning the point of having friends at all, or I suddenly feel drained and lose interest for a while.

Even so, I know that I do care about them and that my feelings for them are real. It’s just that my desire for connection tends to come in intense waves, followed by moments of emotional distance. That’s why I like having a lot of friends, so I don’t get tired of any one friend.

I’m not a very talkative person. My conversations are usually quite simple and based on what I see around me, the things in my environment, and straightforward connections between them like food, activities, or whatever is happening in the moment. If nothing comes to mind, I don’t force the conversation.

I don’t naturally have the kind of conversations where ideas keep branching out endlessly the way they often seem to for Ne-dominant types.

If I invite someone over and we don’t do anything in particular, I tend to become quiet and nonchalant; I may not talk at all, and I find that boring. On the other hand, if we cook together, go out, or do some kind of activity, that’s when I feel like myself, as long as emotions come to me it all depends on whether that happens.

That’s why I thought I might be an ISTP or ISFP, but my very sociable side approaching people and really liking people a lot makes others tell me that I might be an ESTP or ESFP.

type me help

hi i'm still looking for my mbti i always get 1.ESTP/2.ISTP 3.ESFP. i'm a girl 22yo

i make sure that everyone is included in the group and feels like they belong and are not left out, even if I don’t always feel it emotionally or sometimes I do. I still feel obligated to do it because I don’t want anyone to be hurt. It’s not necessarily because I feel it deeply every time, but because it is a principle I have. ( Ti-Fe ? )

I really don’t think I’m a Fe-dominant type, because that kind of thing drains me, and other people’s emotions drain me as well. I don’t enjoy helping others, and I don’t like feeling responsible for them or guiding them in their decisions.

I can do it from time to time if I feel that the person is not becoming dependent on my opinion. What I truly enjoy is debating or sharing my knowledge when it involves logic and reasoning. For example, solving a problem or explaining a logical calculation is mentally stimulating to me, because I like demonstrating that I can reason clearly.

I also rarely know what I’m feeling. Most of the time, I feel nothing in particular. My emotions tend to come more from external experiences, such as going out or spending time with people I care about. And when I’m not doing well, it’s usually other people who tell me that I should talk about my problems.

don’t really like my personality because I become very very attached to people. I genuinely love being around others, and even if I’ve only talked to someone once, I may immediately want to see them, meet up, go out, or have a meal together.

I’m often drawn to people I find attractive, and I can get emotionally attached to them very quickly. But when I’m no longer with them, I sometimes start questioning the point of having friends at all, or I suddenly feel drained and lose interest for a while.

Even so, I know that I do care about them and that my feelings for them are real. It’s just that my desire for connection tends to come in intense waves, followed by moments of emotional distance. That’s why I like having a lot of friends, so I don’t get tired of any one friend.

I’m not a very talkative person. My conversations are usually quite simple and based on what I see around me, the things in my environment, and straightforward connections between them like food, activities, or whatever is happening in the moment. If nothing comes to mind, I don’t force the conversation.

I don’t naturally have the kind of conversations where ideas keep branching out endlessly the way they often seem to for Ne-dominant types.

If I invite someone over and we don’t do anything in particular, I tend to become quiet and nonchalant; I may not talk at all, and I find that boring. On the other hand, if we cook together, go out, or do some kind of activity, that’s when I feel like myself, as long as emotions come to me it all depends on whether that happens.

That’s why I thought I might be an ISTP or ISFP, but my very sociable side approaching people and really liking people a lot makes others tell me that I might be an ESTP or ESFP.

hi i'm still looking for my mbti i always get 1.ESTP/2.ISTP 3.ESFP. i'm a girl 22yo

can i be an ESTP if : If I make sure that everyone is included in the group and feels like they belong and are not left out, even if I don’t always feel it emotionally or sometimes I do. I still feel obligated to do it because I don’t want anyone to be hurt. It’s not necessarily because I feel it deeply every time, but because it is a principle I have. ( Ti-Fe ? )

I really don’t think I’m a Fe-dominant type, because that kind of thing drains me, and other people’s emotions drain me as well. I don’t enjoy helping others, and I don’t like feeling responsible for them or guiding them in their decisions.

I can do it from time to time if I feel that the person is not becoming dependent on my opinion. What I truly enjoy is debating or sharing my knowledge when it involves logic and reasoning. For example, solving a problem or explaining a logical calculation is mentally stimulating to me, because I like demonstrating that I can reason clearly.

I also rarely know what I’m feeling. Most of the time, I feel nothing in particular. My emotions tend to come more from external experiences, such as going out or spending time with people I care about. And when I’m not doing well, it’s usually other people who tell me that I should talk about my problems.

don’t really like my personality because I become very very attached to people. I genuinely love being around others, and even if I’ve only talked to someone once, I may immediately want to see them, meet up, go out, or have a meal together.

I’m often drawn to people I find attractive, and I can get emotionally attached to them very quickly. But when I’m no longer with them, I sometimes start questioning the point of having friends at all, or I suddenly feel drained and lose interest for a while.

Even so, I know that I do care about them and that my feelings for them are real. It’s just that my desire for connection tends to come in intense waves, followed by moments of emotional distance. That’s why I like having a lot of friends, so I don’t get tired of any one friend.

I’m not a very talkative person. My conversations are usually quite simple and based on what I see around me, the things in my environment, and straightforward connections between them like food, activities, or whatever is happening in the moment. If nothing comes to mind, I don’t force the conversation.

I don’t naturally have the kind of conversations where ideas keep branching out endlessly the way they often seem to for Ne-dominant types.

If I invite someone over and we don’t do anything in particular, I tend to become quiet and nonchalant; I may not talk at all, and I find that boring. On the other hand, if we cook together, go out, or do some kind of activity, that’s when I feel like myself, as long as emotions come to me it all depends on whether that happens.

That’s why I thought I might be an ISTP or ISFP, but my very sociable side approaching people and really liking people a lot makes others tell me that I might be an ESTP or ESFP.

hi i'm still looking for my mbti i always get 1.ESTP/2.ISTP 3.ESFP. i'm a girl 22yo

can i be an ESTP if : If I make sure that everyone is included in the group and feels like they belong and are not left out, even if I don’t always feel it emotionally or sometimes I do. I still feel obligated to do it because I don’t want anyone to be hurt. It’s not necessarily because I feel it deeply every time, but because it is a principle I have. ( Ti-Fe ? )

I really don’t think I’m a Fe-dominant type, because that kind of thing drains me, and other people’s emotions drain me as well. I don’t enjoy helping others, and I don’t like feeling responsible for them or guiding them in their decisions.

I can do it from time to time if I feel that the person is not becoming dependent on my opinion. What I truly enjoy is debating or sharing my knowledge when it involves logic and reasoning. For example, solving a problem or explaining a logical calculation is mentally stimulating to me, because I like demonstrating that I can reason clearly.

I also rarely know what I’m feeling. Most of the time, I feel nothing in particular. My emotions tend to come more from external experiences, such as going out or spending time with people I care about. And when I’m not doing well, it’s usually other people who tell me that I should talk about my problems.

don’t really like my personality because I become very very attached to people. I genuinely love being around others, and even if I’ve only talked to someone once, I may immediately want to see them, meet up, go out, or have a meal together.

I’m often drawn to people I find attractive, and I can get emotionally attached to them very quickly. But when I’m no longer with them, I sometimes start questioning the point of having friends at all, or I suddenly feel drained and lose interest for a while.

Even so, I know that I do care about them and that my feelings for them are real. It’s just that my desire for connection tends to come in intense waves, followed by moments of emotional distance. That’s why I like having a lot of friends, so I don’t get tired of any one friend.

I’m not a very talkative person. My conversations are usually quite simple and based on what I see around me, the things in my environment, and straightforward connections between them like food, activities, or whatever is happening in the moment. If nothing comes to mind, I don’t force the conversation.

I don’t naturally have the kind of conversations where ideas keep branching out endlessly the way they often seem to for Ne-dominant types.

If I invite someone over and we don’t do anything in particular, I tend to become quiet and nonchalant; I may not talk at all, and I find that boring. On the other hand, if we cook together, go out, or do some kind of activity, that’s when I feel like myself, as long as emotions come to me it all depends on whether that happens.

That’s why I thought I might be an ISTP or ISFP, but my very sociable side approaching people and really liking people a lot makes others tell me that I might be an ESTP or ESFP.

how to know if i'm ESTP or ESFP

how to know if i'm esfp or estp?

help :(

hi please help.

Since February ..

It feels like my body is lying down, lacking vitality, like a lack of sugar, and I feel like I’m struggling to breathe.

It feels like in video games where the health bar goes down. I stay in bed all day. I can stand up and walk, but I feel like my body is severely lacking sugar and is internally collapsing. It feels like a kind of faintness or malaise, as if I need to lie down, but even lying down I still suffer of this strange internal sensation. It feels like I might slowly die a gentle death, like my body is being drained of sugar or vitality, and it is just trying to survive and keep functioning.

I’ve had an EKG, blood tests, and my blood pressure checked at the doctor. Nothing abnormal was found. My ferritin is 18. People on Reddit say it’s low, I don’t know… I’ve stopped going to the emergency room because they tell me I’m not in an emergency situation..? i can't work i cant live

My hemoglobin is normal, and I have trouble believing people who say it is due to my ferritin, because two years ago my ferritin was 8 and I felt fine, so why is it that now with 18 I don’t feel well? i have a very bad insomia since 2years too.

is it dysautonomia ? CFS ? POTS ? :(

hi please help.

Since February ..

It feels like my body is lying down, lacking vitality, like a lack of sugar, and I feel like I’m struggling to breathe.

It feels like in video games where the health bar goes down. I stay in bed all day. I can stand up and walk, but I feel like my body is severely lacking sugar and is internally collapsing. It feels like a kind of faintness or malaise, as if I need to lie down, but even lying down I still suffer of this strange internal sensation. It feels like I might slowly die a gentle death, like my body is being drained of sugar or vitality, and it is just trying to survive and keep functioning.

Here is your sentence in English:

I’ve had an EKG, blood tests, and my blood pressure checked at the doctor. Nothing abnormal was found. My ferritin is 18. People on Reddit say it’s low, I don’t know… I’ve stopped going to the emergency room because they tell me I’m not in an emergency situation..? i can't work i cant live

My hemoglobin is normal, and I have trouble believing people who say it is due to my ferritin, because two years ago my ferritin was 8 and I felt fine, so why is it that now with 18 I don’t feel well?

is it dysautonomia ? CFS ? POTS ? :(

Sexe F22 sans antecedent.

Depuis février…

J’ai l’impression que mon corps est allongé, sans vitalité, comme un manque de sucre, et j’ai du mal à respirer.

C’est comme dans les jeux vidéo où la barre de vie descend. Je reste au lit toute la journée. Je peux me lever et marcher, mais j’ai l’impression que mon corps manque fortement d’énergie et s’effondre de l’intérieur. C’est une sorte de malaise ou de faiblesse, comme si je devais m’allonger, mais même allongé je ressens toujours cette sensation étrange à l’intérieur de moi. J’ai l’impression de mourir lentement d’une mort douce, comme si mon corps était vidé de sucre ou de vitalité, et qu’il essayait simplement de survivre et de continuer à fonctionner.

J’ai eu un ECG, des analyses de sang et ma tension vérifiée chez le médecin. Rien d’anormal n’a été trouvé. Ma ferritine est à 18. Les gens sur Reddit disent que c’est bas, je ne sais pas… J’ai arrêté d’aller aux urgences parce qu’on me dit que ce n’est pas une situation d’urgence.

Je ne peux pas travailler, je ne peux pas vivre.

Est-ce une dysautonomie ? un syndrome de fatigue chronique (SFC) ? un POTS ?...

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hi please help.

Since February ..

It feels like my body is lying down, lacking vitality, like a lack of sugar, and I feel like I’m struggling to breathe.

It feels like in video games where the health bar goes down. I stay in bed all day. I can stand up and walk, but I feel like my body is severely lacking sugar and is internally collapsing. It feels like a kind of faintness or malaise, as if I need to lie down, but even lying down I still suffer of this strange internal sensation. It feels like I might slowly die a gentle death, like my body is being drained of sugar or vitality, and it is just trying to survive and keep functioning.

Here is your sentence in English:

I’ve had an EKG, blood tests, and my blood pressure checked at the doctor. Nothing abnormal was found. My ferritin is 18. People on Reddit say it’s low, I don’t know… I’ve stopped going to the emergency room because they tell me I’m not in an emergency situation..? i can't work i cant live

is it dysautonomia ? CFS ? POTS ? do i am crazy ?

Help please do i have cfs ? I'm girl 22yo

It feels like my body is collapsing and with every breath it slowly empties itself like a kind of dying sensation. Like I’m at the edge of death. As if my body is draining out of life. I can still force myself to get up and move and it feels a bit less intense then, but as soon as I stop exerting myself or try to sleep it’s like my body shows me how dead it feels after any effort and I start feeling this again ect. My heart beats normally but very very strongly like it’s doing too much effort I simply can’t live anymore I can’t go out or even stay standing to work in a restaurant I literally feel like I’m dying I don’t have another term for it

Hello,

I'm maybe idk a SP ( isfp/istp/estp/esfp)

I have a problem i met a group friend in voice app. And i have nothing to say when they speak ? :(

But in Real Life i'm more can speak and have social skill's, approach people ? But in call and with them nothing...

What's the reason ? Is it normal for sp?

We’ll probably never build a strong connection or mutual appreciation online because I’m like this. But in real life, I don’t have this problem at all — I’m more visual, I move around, and ideas come naturally. In calls, my mind just goes blank. That's make me sad

Hello,

I'm maybe idk a SP ( isfp/istp/estp/esfp)

I have a problem i met a group friend in voice app. And i have nothing to say when they speak ? :(

But in Real Life i'm more can speak and have social skill's, approach people ? But in call and with them nothing...

What's the reason ? Is it normal for sp?

We’ll probably never build a strong connection or mutual appreciation online because I’m like this. But in real life, I don’t have this problem at all — I’m more visual, I move around, and ideas come naturally. In calls, my mind just goes blank. That's make me sad

Hello,

I'm maybe idk a SP ( isfp/istp/estp/esfp)

I have a problem i met a group friend in voice app. And i have nothing to say when they speak ? :(

But in Real Life i'm more can speak and have social skill's, approach people ? But in call and with them nothing...

What's the reason ? Is it normal for sp?

We’ll probably never build a strong connection or mutual appreciation online because I’m like this. But in real life, I don’t have this problem at all — I’m more visual, I move around, and ideas come naturally. In calls, my mind just goes blank. That's make me sad :(

Do he know i'm interested ?just wanna be friend. (He is not an entp )

I’ve made several efforts to get to know him:

– I reached out multiple times

– I sent a “getting to know you” type message

– I was kind of the one who initiated things overall

On my side, I’ve checked in on him a few times, suggested watching a K-drama together, asked how he was doing for no reason and he asked why ? Than when he was sick, and at one point I even said something like:

“Last time I think I was a bit awkward, I’ve thought about it and I’d like to get to know you better, slowly, if you’re up for it?”

He said yes (“sure if you want”), but I didn’t continue the conversation after that for umm 4 days.

There were also some external things, like Instagram suggestions. At one point he jokingly asked me if I had stalked him because I showed up in his suggested follows right after I searched for his profile :’)

Anyway, here’s my actual question:

I joined his voice room where he was speaking and interacting with 1 person and me. I asked a question in the chat, and he answered it out loud during the discussion. I stayed in the room, still in the comments, and then he suddenly messaged me privately. He said my name and something like:

“If you have any questions or want to talk more about the 4 schools, don’t hesitate. If I can help, I’d be happy to.”

What confused me is that he was still actively speaking in the voice room at that moment, and I was still there in the chat… yet he chose to message me privately 🤨?

Because the last time we talked about a similar topic, he didn’t DM me. He just kept talking in the room and said generally that I could ask questions, without reaching out privately.

So this time felt different, and I don’t know if I’m overthinking it.

Do you think this means something?

Do he maybe he knows I’m interested or he think that I Wana be his friend ???

Salam alaykoum,

I’d like some honest advice about a situation.

There’s a man 27y I’ve only spoken to very briefly (once in a group setting just for fun, and another time he came in my voice chat just a short exchange, he asked me question about my life ect..). We don’t really know each other but we are in the same groupe. It’s on a voice chat app where people talk in group rooms.

He is generally sociable:

– he talks with different people, including a lot of friends women

– he can be comfortable and even joke around in group settings

But with me:

– there hasn’t really been any interaction or connection so far

From my side:

– I’m very reserved online (I live with my family, so I can’t really speak freely in voice chats)

– even in one-on-one conversations, I struggle to build a connection online

– I’m not comfortable with conversations that don’t have a clear purpose

– however, in real life, I’m much more natural, expressive, and at ease more skills

He also seems calm and not very talkative, so our interaction ends up being quite flat without the group.

I don’t want to:

– play a role and start to speak in the groupe.

– force a personality

– or talk just for the sake of talking

My intention is serious (marriage if there is compatibility).

I simply told him I’d like to get to know him, and he replied “yes if you want,” so I’m not really sure how he understood my intention maybe just like friend or something light

So I have a few questions:

👉 Would it be inappropriate or strange if a woman directly suggests something more serious, like meeting in a respectful setting (with a third person present) to see if there is compatibility?

👉 Can being this direct scare a man away?

👉 Or is it better than staying in endless online conversations with no clear purpose and do things slowly

BarakAllahou fikoum for your advice :/

Hi how can i be sure i'm estp/istp and not isfp/esfp?

I'm sentive to what other make me feel, i have no emotions alone, = fe ?

I always got estp in test but i can accept that i'm an ESTP?? Maybe istp?

I’m very nonchalant. I sometimes feel like I’m just pretending when I talk to people, it annoys me and it gets on my nerves. But at the same time, I like people. When I’m alone, I’m really happy about the moments I spent with them, it recharges me. And yet there’s always this bitter feeling: conversations feel tiring and annoying, but paradoxically I still enjoy them.

I like approach and have a lot new friend i can't have the same