how are you verifying that a match is actually a REAL human before meeting up? The paranoia is real.
▲ 667 r/Nicegirls

how are you verifying that a match is actually a REAL human before meeting up? The paranoia is real.

Ugh, I’m so close to deleting all my dating apps and throwing my phone into the ocean. I almost got completely fooled by a match last week that turned out to be an incredibly realistic catfish… or maybe even a sophisticated bot. I honestly couldn’t tell.

It’s getting scary out there, ladies. The old ways of checking someone just aren’t enough anymore. What’s your actual routine before you agree to meet for a drink or coffee?

What’s actually working for you right now? Are you still doing the “hold up three fingers” selfie thing, or have you found a better way to make sure you’re not walking into a trap?

u/willmorris92 — 7 days ago

The weird trend of companies buying Salesforce or NetSuite just to use them as expensive spreadsheets

Founders drop a massive fortune on heavy-duty systems like Salesforce or NetSuite because they want clean automation and scale. But then, the team ends up using maybe 20% of what the platform can actually do. The rest just sits there as premium shelfware.

The worst part is the "human middleware" setup. Sales closes a deal in CRM, and then an operations admin manually copy-pastes the client data into the billing system by hand. If people are acting as your data integration layer, the architecture is broken. Plus, managers still extract raw CSVs every single Friday just to build manual reports in Excel because the native dashboards feel too clunky.

It’s an insane waste of budget and creates massive technical debt because teams prefer building brittle custom scripts instead of fixing their broken workflows. I was reading a breakdown by Nuage on how this integration divide completely drains tech budgets, and it maps out this software underutilization perfectly.

How do you guys handle pushback from employees who refuse to use native system automation and stick to their old manual habits?

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u/willmorris92 — 11 days ago
▲ 7 r/ScrapMetal+1 crossposts

First time sorting scrap metal, is it worth selling or just recycle it?

So I've been doing some home cleanups and ended up with a decent pile of mixed metal. Old copper wire, some aluminum brackets, a few steel pipes. I had no idea what any of it was actually worth so I started digging around online trying to figure out what's scrap grade and what's not.

Ended up on a few different sites reading about metal grades and pricing. Also found normetals at some point which had some useful breakdowns on different metal types and what affects value. Helpful for a beginner who doesn't know the difference between bare bright copper and 2 copper.

My question is, for someone just starting out with random household scrap, is it usually worth the trip to a yard or do most people just toss it in recycling if the weight isn't there? Also curious how you guys store it before a run. Do you sort by type right away or just pile it?

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u/Then_Marionberry_259 — 13 days ago

What's one small PC habit you started doing that saved you countless headaches later?

Been thinking lately about how many PC problems I've caused myself simply because I didn't have good habits. Things like never labeling cables, not keeping notes after a fresh Windows install, skipping backups because nothing will happen, or updating drivers right before a gaming session. Every one of those eventually came back to bite me.

Over time I started doing a few simple things: creating restore points before major changes, keeping important installers on a separate drive, documenting BIOS settings, and organizing cables properly whenever I build or upgrade a system. None of it is particularly exciting, but those habits have probably saved me more time and frustration than any hardware upgrade ever has.

I'm curious what habits you've picked up over the years that made PC ownership easier. Could be anything from maintenance routines and backup strategies to troubleshooting tricks or build practices.

What's one small thing you do now that you wish someone had told you years ago?

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u/willmorris92 — 14 days ago

Building my first Shopify store

Has anyone used AI tools to build out product pages before knowing much about Shopify? Did it actually save you time or did you end up redoing everything anyway?

Here's where I'm at. I'm putting together a small Halloween costume store. Nothing big, just something I've been planning for a few weeks. I started using one online tool to generate some product descriptions and page layouts, and honestly it gave me decent output pretty fast. The descriptions were clean and readable. But I'm not sure if the SEO side of things is set up right, and I have no idea if the page structure is good enough to actually convert visitors.

Right now I'm focused on getting the product pages done before the end of October. I don't have a lot of time so I'm trying to move fast. Anyone here gone through this kind of setup as a firsttimer?

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u/willmorris92 — 14 days ago

Is the Champions League becoming too commercialized and losing its magic for ordinary fans?

Been thinking about this a lot lately, especially after the news that the Champions League final will no longer be free to watch in the UK. It feels like every few years there is another decision that pushes the tournament further away from everyday supporters and closer to being a product designed purely for profit.

The expanded format, the new league phase, the broadcasting deals getting carved up behind paywalls. At what point does the competition stop feeling like the greatest club tournament on earth and start feeling like just another premium subscription to add to your growing list?

I grew up watching those iconic nights on freetoair TV. The music hits, the crowd goes wild, and anyone with a TV could be part of it. That accessibility is a huge part of what made football the people's sport in the first place.

Now I am genuinely curious what others think. Does the Champions League still carry the same magic it did 10 or 15 years ago? Or has the constant restructuring and commercialization slowly drained something important out of it? Is there any realistic way back, or is this just the direction football is heading no matter what fans say?

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u/willmorris92 — 16 days ago

The secret is literally destroying my life

I feel like my entire existence right now is just managing secrets. the physical exhaustion of the b/p cycle is bad enough, but the mental gymnastics of hiding it from everyone in my life is just completely breaking me down.

I know I need way more help than my current once-a-week therapist can give me right now. but Ive been so paralyzed by the idea of residential care because the industry standard just seems to be locking you in a sterile ward and treating you like a defiant teenager. Its so humiliating and honestly makes me want to avoid the medical system entirely

was having a late night doom scroll trying to find alternatives and found eating disorder solutions and was just reading about their dual diagnosis approach. Its crazy to me that it’s actually considered "unique" to treat the underlying trauma in a home-like setting instead of just strictly policing someone's behaviors in a hospital room

I hate how broken the behavioral health system is, where finding compassionate care that actually treats you like an adult feels like looking for a needle in a haystack. just feeling really overwhelmed tonight and needed to get this out somewhere where people actually understand the sheer panic of trying to take the next step

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u/willmorris92 — 17 days ago

What was the moment you realized PC gaming was just objectively better for you?

I know this gets talked about in general terms a lot, but I'm curious about the specific personal turning point for people. Not the specs debate or the price argument, just the actual moment where it clicked for you that this was the right platform for your life.

For me it was realizing I could alttab out of a game to pull up a browser, check something, and jump right back in without any friction. Sounds small but coming from console that felt like a superpower. Then I started modding games and it basically became a whole second hobby on top of gaming itself.

Some people I talk to had their moment because of a specific game that was only on PC. Others found it when they built their first rig and realized how much they actually enjoyed putting it together and tweaking it. Some folks came over purely for performance and never looked back.

There are so many different ways people end up here, and I think that says something interesting about why they stick around so hard once they make the switch.

So what was yours? Was it a specific game, a specific feature, a friend who dragged you over, or just pure frustration with limitations elsewhere? Would love to hear the actual stories rather than just the general arguments.

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u/willmorris92 — 19 days ago

Neighbor's massive dead tree is looming over my property. What are my options?

Hey everyone, looking for some advice regarding a hazardous tree situation with a difficult neighbor. As you can see from a similar lot layout, my neighbor has a massive, completely dead evergreen right on our property line. The top section is visibly rotting away, and the way it's leaning, the next big storm is going to send it crashing straight into my detached garage and the kids' play area.

A couple of years ago, a smaller branch from their side snapped and completely crushed a section of our shared fence. Not only did they refuse to help with the repair costs, but they actually had the nerve to ask me for the firewood after I paid out of pocket to have the mess cleared out of my yard. So yeah... trying to have a reasonable, neighborly chat with them is a dead end. Will code enforcement step in and force a homeowner to remove a documented hazard if it directly threatens a neighbor’s property, or am I stuck waiting for it to destroy smthing on my property before insurance deals with it? Thanks in advance!

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u/willmorris92 — 20 days ago
▲ 5 r/Makeup

Did an online makeup course actually help you get paying clients?

I've been looking into a few online programs lately, partly because my wife is thinking about taking makeup artistry more seriously. One that keeps coming up is Online Makeup Academy. The course descriptions talk a lot about building a portfolio, getting certified, and some business basics, which all sounds good on paper.

What I really want to know is whether any of that translated into actual bookings. Did finishing a program directly lead to clients, or did most of the work come from posting on social media and word of mouth?

I coach high school football and I always tell my guys: credentials matter, but real results are what count. Feels the same here. If you went through an online makeup program, how long before you were actually making money from it? And did the business training they offer make any difference?

Thank you!

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u/willmorris92 — 22 days ago

What was the single upgrade that made the biggest difference to your PC experience?

We all have that one moment where a hardware or software upgrade completely changed how we felt about our setup. Maybe it was finally jumping from a hard drive to an SSD and feeling like your machine was born again. Maybe it was going from 8GB to 32GB of RAM and watching your workflow transform overnight. Or that first monitor upgrade from 60Hz to 144Hz where console gaming suddenly felt genuinely unplayable by comparison.

For me it was switching to an NVMe SSD after years on a mechanical hard drive. Boot times went from grabbing a coffee to blinking and missing it. Load screens in games practically vanished. It felt less like a hardware upgrade and more like getting an entirely new machine.

A lot of people overlook how much certain upgrades change things until they actually make the jump. The GPU gets all the attention, but sometimes the humble SSD or a RAM upgrade quietly delivers the most noticeable quality of life improvement for the money spent.

So what was your gamechanger upgrade? Did it live up to the hype or blow past your expectations? Would love to hear what made the biggest realworld difference across different budgets and use cases.

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u/willmorris92 — 26 days ago

maintaining new kitchen layout after recent renovation

after completing the kitchen updates we are now focusing on long term maintenance to keep the new layout functioning smoothly with minimal issues over time. the central island and relocated sink have improved daily use but require regular attention to prevent wear in high traffic areas.

after working with a local contractor on the project we learned the importance of sealing grout every six months and checking plumbing connections annually to avoid leaks or damage. how often should grout be sealed in a high traffic kitchen and what signs indicate the need for professional inspection of the new plumbing lines to catch problems early?

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u/willmorris92 — 26 days ago

Do BA frequent flyers actively track premium fares?

Genuine question for people who fly BA often.

Whenever I price long-haul routes, business pricing feels wildly inconsistent depending on timing, route, and where you even look. Sometimes the difference is way bigger than I expect.

Do most experienced BA travelers just rely on Avios/upgrades, or do people actively monitor business class deals and jump when something reasonable appears?

Trying to understand what the "normal" strategy is for people who fly premium without paying painful retail pricing.

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u/willmorris92 — 30 days ago

the queue system is just psychological warfare at this point

joined a waiting room 15 minutes early like a good little soldier. got put in the queue at exactly on sale time 2000+ people ahead of me cool.

watched the little man walk across the screen for what felt like an eternity. finally get in. half the seats are already claimed by another fan you know the drill.

found something halfway decent in the upper bowl. clicked it- error. clicked another- error. on the third try it finally went through. by then i was so traumatized i just paid whatever they asked.

i've been checking other sites lately just to see if there's less headache. seatgeek is fine but inventory varies. stubhub is hit or miss. vivid seats exists.

still use ticketmaster cause sometimes you have to but man i hate feeling like i'm in a hunger games simulator every time a tour gets announced.

anyone else just mentally exhausted before they even buy the ticket

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u/willmorris92 — 1 month ago

Has anyone used a buyer’s agent in Sydney or Brisbane lately?

I’ve been looking to buy a property for the last few months and found the current market quite competitive with auctions and multiple offers. I decided to try a buyer’s agent.

They helped me with searching, shortlisting properties, attending inspections, and bidding at auctions. I ended up buying a house in the Northern Beaches area. The process was less stressful than doing it alone, and they provided good due diligence. Of course it costs money, but I feel I made a better decision.

Has anyone else used buyer’s agent recently? Was it worth it for you? Looking for honest experiences.

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u/willmorris92 — 1 month ago

The clear lash glue betrayal (and brown liners pulling orange on us)

honestly so over this whole "clean girl" soft makeup trend. every single brand right now is pushing these warm brown eyeliners and mascaras for a natural look, but on my light-medium neutral olive skin they literally look like rust. or worse, it straight up looks like i have an eye infection

Its so annoying dropping $30 on a viral brown pencil just for it to completely clash with my green undertones. I tried to adapt and do individual lashes with clear glue to keep the lash line soft instead of using heavy black liner. but why did no one warn me that clear glue dries down with this weird white-blue cast? Against olive skin it looks absolutely radioactive in the sunlight

I gave up and just went back to using a basic black eyelash glue just to avoid the color theory nightmare completely. at least black is actually black and doesn't randomly oxidize into a neon peach color on my face.

just really tired of the beauty industry formulating everything for warm or cool pink undertones. buying the most basic makeup items shouldn't require this much research ngl.

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u/willmorris92 — 1 month ago

handling deps / critical path in react with a javascript gantt for project tracking

building a react app for team project tracking i needed a way to show task dependencies auto updates on schedule changes and critical path highlights without custom rendering from scratch. a javascript gantt setup integrated nicely with existing redux state for tasks and resources letting me add drag drop reordering plus load histograms that updated live as assignments shifted.

for a recent use case like construction timeline planning it handled baselines progress tracking and export to excel which made sharing updates simple. the api let me customize scales and forms while keeping performance decent on a few hundred tasks via smart rendering.

what react gantt or scheduler libs have you tried for similar dep / resource views and any gotchas with state sync or custom constraints? cheers if anyone has tips on this.

u/willmorris92 — 2 months ago
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what makes a walk really enjoyable for your dog?

Some dogs get excited the second they see the leash, while others are more calm about it.

I’m curious what people notice their dogs enjoy most during walks, the exercise, smells, routes, other dogs, etc.

What makes a walk especially fun for your dog?

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u/willmorris92 — 2 months ago

I have a small B2B cybersecurity consultancy that mainly works with startups and remote teams. Over the past year, we’ve been publishing educational blog content about phishing prevention, employee security training, and data privacy and mostly to build authority and bring in more organic traffic

But we noticed that some of our articles were getting visits from outside the Emglish speaking countries, and got more and more viewers from Finland and the Netherlands. That made me wonder whether translating blog content could open up new SEO opportunities, especially since competition for certain keywords seems lower in smaller language markets

The challenge is that blogs require a lot of ongoing content production. Translating service pages feels manageable because they don’t change often, but translating dozens of articles, and keeping them updated seems like a much bigger commitment.

We tested machine translation on a couple of articles just to see how it looked, and while it was readable, it didn’t sound very natural. Some technical cybersecurity terms also felt inconsistent depending on context

I thought of hiring a language translation company maybe like Ad Verbum. As for me, they seem to handle both localization and terminology consistency, which feels important for technical content

For anyone doing SEO internationally, is translating blog content actually worth the effort? Or is it better to focus only on localizing core landing pages first?

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u/willmorris92 — 2 months ago

Man, I've been trying to help my aunt sell her place in the South End. Nothing fancy, just a solid 3br that needs a little work. We listed it with an agent back in like September and honestly its been a nightmare. Showings every other day, people act interested then ghost us, had one offer fall apart because the buyers loan didnt go through after we waited almost two months.

Shes getting older and just wants to be done with it. Im tired of cleaning the house every time someone wants to look at it. We already moved most of her stuff out but still gotta go back and tidy up before each showing like its a museum or something.

Im starting to think about other options. Like I see those -we buy houses signs everywhere and I always assumed they just lowball everyone but at this point maybe thats better than waiting another six months.

Has anyone actually sold this way in Louisville , did you feel like you left a ton of money on the table ,or was the speed and lack of hassle worth it? Also curious if anyones tried listing as - as-is with a regular agent instead of the cash route. Just trying to figure out what makes the most sense when you just wanna move on with your life.

Appreciate any feedback from people who been through it.

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u/willmorris92 — 2 months ago