As a person with autism, what would you recommend for someone like me?
So you see recently i got a job working as a Kitchen Aid (Yes I know what your going to say but being around food doesn't mean I know what to do with it at home!) and as a person with Autism cooking for myself is so complicated for me! I live with my parents, and up until now they've basically been my personal chefs. But life has other plans as well, you see my mom's working now, and while my dad helps when he can (Because he's retired) he also has his own life too. My boss sometimes gives me some food because she doesn't have her restaurant yet and I'm just working through her house, which I appreciate. But I don't want to just survive on other people's kindness forever, especially her once she gets the restaurant and things will be harder. I want to actually know and learn how to feed myself, here's the problem i encounter though every time I try to figure out how to cook though.
Whenever i try to do research on trying to find something, i just don't know what to find and its such a struggle for me because i don't have the foundation or any guidance to help me! But then theirs the problems with the instructions which are either way too vague or written like a novel, i don't need a whole block of text i just need to know what to do with the pan. On top of that i don't have a car, so if a recipe wants 12 specialty ingredients from three different stores I'm not going to be able to do anything at this point. I've even tried cooking apps too, and most of them have the same problem with them being complicated, cluttered, and built for people who already know what they're doing. I'm not trying to become a five-star chef, I just want simple, no-nonsense recipes that assume I'm starting from zero, with stuff can actually get, and something that doesn't make me scroll through my own life story to get to "add salt." I know i won't be perfect chef right away, nobody is, but i actually want to learn instead of relying on everyone else forever. So does anyone know a website, app, or anything built for actual beginners that keeps it simple? Because I'm tired of feeling like I'm shouting into the void here especially with something simple as this!