u/FarRain451

Been dating this guy over a couple of months. We then both went on vacation and stayed chatting. There’s a very heavy attraction between us both physically but only emotionally. We align on so many things

I wanted to go home with him after the 3rd date but I’ve done that before and i regretted doing so. So we never had sex. And then we went on vacation ( separately ofc). While he’s away he kept up the contact and we called and exchanged pictures.

It was all going really well. I remember on his dating profile it said that he didn’t want kids. He’s 6 years younger than me. I have one child and I’m done having kids. So I asked him one day why he didn’t want kids and he answered that he had not decided yet if he didn’t want any.

So this just confuses me and I ask him what changed. He is confused and I refer back to his profile. He said he didn’t see why it should matter as we are still early days. I say it does matter because I’m not gonna have anymore and I won’t get involved with someone who wants kids.

I became distant after that even though he still tries to text and now he says he probably doesn’t want kids . Just seems unserious to me and not the person I met who knew what he wanted . I still like him and I’m attracted to him. I feel bad for going cold on him but idk what to say. Am I over reacting?

Edit Seems like people think I’m ghosting this guys for days. And that’s somehow worse than lying about wanting kids My bad. By distant I meant that internally I became distant to him. I started having doubts. We talk throughout the day. When we both have time. Ghosting is not my style and that’s what many of these comments suggest that I am doing to this guy.

I date men so I only see mens profile. What I don’t understand is that i see so many who never show their face or even eyes on their pictures:

Wears sunglasses so can’t see the eyes
Pictures are from the back
Hangs head down
Pictures are from a far distance away
Makes silly faces

I want to see your eyes and your face in a normal relaxed state. No extreme grimaces, no sunglasses , no head hanging down , and close enough so I can see your face.

The excessive gym pictures , party pictures , group pictures , pictures with children is also a pet peeve. I nope so many people because I’m tired of guessing who they are or what they actually look like . If you do have to put other people in the picture put a smiley face to cover their face.

This is about men’s pictures. If you take offense and want to make it about all your issues with women keep it moving. This is not about that b

Hope you’ll have a great day. It’ll be hot at hell here which means we august 14th people have been good this year. I’ll be celebrating with family. How are you celebrating?

I’m scared to type the actual number.

And it’s when nene gets into it with Kandi on season 2 that I start seeing a more unlikable side to Nene. There’s a lot of insecurities under that tough exterior. Shes funny as hell but can’t take accountability

I overthink a lot. And I’m texting with this guy I have only met a few times. He’s away and we’ve still kept in touch. But when he says something sweet to me I don’t know how to respond.

I’ve not dated in a while. I don’t want to say the wrong thing. He’s very good at expressing himself and is very caring and considerate. I know I can come off aloof or like a snob because I hold back a lot and yes I am in therapy regularly

Also emojis ,I don’t think I’m using them right . So I avoid doing that. He’s very keen and we’ve all these plans when he gets back. I sometimes leave him hanging because I’m thinking of the best way to reply. I’m a complete idiot at this obviously . In person I’m sarcastic with a smile that’s how I flirt.

I need lessons in texting.

Rumors Kill
The First 48: Season 30, Episode 3

After a mysterious motorcycle rider stalks and shoots down a Tulsa man, detectives must piece together the events leading up to his death to find out who wanted him dead and why.

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I washed a feather pillow yesterday on 90° by accident. I was told it would ruin . I then dried it for over an hour and left it in the sun the whole day. My pillow is like new and smells amazing.

What do we think about the first episode of season 30 and the North Charleston team ?

Episode description:

A North Charleston man asking for help at a stranger's doorstep dies from a gunshot wound to the leg, and the search for the shooter leads in an unexpected direction.

I use purple shampoo maybe once a month. I’ve fine blonde shoulder length hair. I rinse for a longgg time and the final rinse is with cold water. I leave it on for about 5 minutes. I let it air dry. Next day my scalp is itchy . Anyone else ?

I tried many different brands. It’s always the same.

For the past two days there's been a weird sweet smell lingering in around my living room. It kinda smells like honey but not in a good way. I've taken the couch apart as the smell is more prominent when I sit there . It's not myself lol I've asked people. We had a heatwave over 100 F
last week . Anyone who can give me a clue what I should be looking for ?

For the past two days there’s been a weird sweet smell lingering in around my living room. It kinda smells like honey but not in a good way. I’ve taken the couch apart as the smell is more prominent when I sit there . It’s not myself lol I’ve asked people . We had a heatwave over 100 F last week . Anyone who can give me a clue what I should be looking for ?

I have always been somewhat overweight. I’ve never dieted so my weight has stayed the same for decades. The thing is that I love food. I cant stop thinking about what my next meal will be. What my snack will be afterwards. I love everything healthy and unhealthy. I know all there is to know about a healthy lifestyle. I just don’t care to do it. And it’s always been like this. When I was a kid I was normal sized but my parents called me fat and took me to the doctor often who would tell them I was fine. I slowly believed
I was fat when I wasn’t. I did a different sport 4 times a week. I would start to hide food because my parents were terrified I would eat anything unhealthy. So when I started living by myself I felt a freedom I never felt before , I could buy and eat what I wanted. I hid anything unhealthy when they would visit because to this day being fat is a crime in their book. They comment on my body still to this day . I’ve been diagnosed with depression anxiety and ptsd. I don’t binge or anything. I just love everything to do with food and I’m over feeling shame about it. Idk if it’s a good or bad thing that I don’t care to be what my family wants me to be. But there’s so much shame around food that I’ve made it an obsession instead of letting it be a normal thing. I just wish i didnt feel so bad when it makes me happy.

The left ear feel compact but there’s no fizz sound sensation when I add hydrogen peroxide.

In 2022 I went no contact with my sister. I’ve for a long time tried to get our relationship right . I know that I should’ve spoken up before and been better at setting boundaries. So after many years of trying I gave up.

She got diagnosed with histrionic personality disorders some years before that but didn’t accept treatment. I always knew she needed help and had hoped that once she got into treatment our relationship would get better.

Since I went no contact it’s been difficult to navigate how my son deals with her. He’s early 20s. So he’s an adult and he’s seen and heard what she’s been like his whole life and now because she’s no longer talking to me she will put him in uncomfortable situations. Last thing she told him was that “when you’re tired of dealing with your mom I’ll take over”.

She chose not to have kids. But has told all the kids in our family that she will show them s good time when they’re tired of their parents . I know this can be said in jest but she’s serious. My cousin told me that her 14 year old daughter got an email from my sister saying that my sister could show her the night life when she’s on her school trip to where my sister lives.

When at family get togethers no one’s male spouse are safe. Very sexually provocative. Very loud and all this is in front of the kids. There’s so much more to this but idk if anyone else has experience with issues like this with family members?

I’m in therapy and my sister called my therapist to warn him that I was not allowed to talk about her. Yes it’s a lot.