▲ 13 r/trans

I’m getting a sinking feeling this is all wrong

I came out 2 days ago (mtf), and I’ve been feeling worse and worse ever since. I don’t know why; but I just feel… wrong? I’ve never had a big change like this, and I don’t really know if it’s even right. I could just be jumping the shark and trying to find a label for myself when there isn’t one. Like I’m just trying to be different. I felt fine in my own skin before discovering myself, and now I just feel weird and wrong and bad. I don’t know what’s going on with me. I could be wrong about this whole thing. But now that it’s out of the box, I can’t really put it back in. I don’t know. This may sound like incoherent ramblings, but I need to get this off my chest.

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u/Mintyboi10 — 1 day ago

Favorite character who gives you EXTREME gender envy?

Mine is Mitsuru Kirijo from Persona 3. I know next to nothing about persona but this character makes me really want to put on a dress and knee high boots

u/Mintyboi10 — 2 days ago

I came out to my sister and some friends: they where super supportive! (Transfem)

A massive weight has been taken off my shoulders. It feels so good to be accepted by people who care about me!

Now I don’t really know where to go from here. I have no idea which direction to go in, as I really don’t know how else to go about being more myself without drawing attention to myself. I’m going to grow out/dye my hair and maybe dabble in makeup, but other than that I don’t know where to go. Any help would be great!

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u/Mintyboi10 — 3 days ago
▲ 5 r/Hair

Hair care/style help: My mom keeps giving me nonsensical information on how to wash my hair, withholding information on how to properly wash my hair, and then INSISITING that she did tell me how to wash my hair properly

This is a bit more ranty towards the end so be prepared

My mom keeps bitching about how my hair is always greasy. So I asked her “how can my hair be less greasy”. She then said that I should stop touching my hair so much and to skip conditioner every other day, which she has told me a thousand times. But then she hits me with “you should actually wash just the tips instead of the roots and the tips”. Like WHAT?! WTF?! Ignoring that that makes ZERO sense, she insisted she told me this multiple times despite this all being new information to me. She never ONCE explained that, and instead just kept bitching about my hair being too greasy. And yes, it is greasy, she NEVER ONCE told me how to help it. Research never helped and I’m way too nervous to ask my hairdresser for help (I get awkward around certain people and I don’t know hair terms, so I end up stuttering and mom fills in for me), so this seems like VITAL INFORMATION. And when I tell her about it, she just says “read the bottle and follow instructions”. WHY WOULD I DO THAT, ITS FUCKING HAIR SOAP?! WHY TF WOULD I EVER THINK TO READ THE INSTRUCTIONS?!

Now my mom (and everyone at the table) thinks I’m stupid and incapable of reading instructions and I feel like shit. I hate how my hair looks and I hate how it’s so greasy and tangled all the time. It’s annoying as shit to do anything with it because it’s so god damn tangled and super short when I want it long to my neck at least.

And on that note, my parents keep insisting I get my hair cut short because it’s tangled and messy, which I don’t really know what to do about. And then we watch Star Wars Episode 3 and then they’re like “you should TOTALLY grow your hair out like anakin” and honestly, piss right off. You’ve have been telling me for a YEAR to cut my hair, and then you see someone on the Telly who looks good with hair that looks vaguely similar to mine, and suddenly you want me to grow it out more

I HATE HAVING PEOPLE TELL ME HOW MY HAIR SHOULD LOOK BUT I HAVE GENUINELY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I SHOULD DO WITH IT PLEASE HELP IDK WHAT I WANT I JUST WANT IT GROWN OUT

u/Mintyboi10 — 4 days ago

Just came out to a friend and realized that I have no idea what I’m doing

So, after not-so-subtly dropping hints to my friend, he just asked “are you gay” which I responded with “I’m not, but I’m trans” and he was chill with it. However, I haven’t really talked about it since, and while he definitely took it well, I don’t know where to go from here. I want to tell him my preferred pronouns and new name, but I don’t want it to sound rushed and hasty. Any advice would be swell

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u/Mintyboi10 — 5 days ago

Question: how to evolve my haunter without needing wired communication (switch version)

I’m on a long drive and I want to evolve my Haunter Luigi. However, I’ve never used the communication feature in this game, so I have no clue how to use it. Can someone assist me in both setting up the connection and helping me evolve Luigi?

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u/Mintyboi10 — 5 days ago

Personal headcannon/theory - The Lamb Baby in one of Sariel’s logs was the player character

This could be a long shot but I think it would make sense

If the player is the last lamb, then it’s possible they where hidden by another person until the Old Faith found them when they where an adult. So Sariel found the player as a baby, sent them away while Woolhaven burner, they where found by another person who sheltered them from the Old Faith until they where eventually caught and executed, starting the game

Idk, it’s just what makes the most sense to me

u/Mintyboi10 — 7 days ago
▲ 191 r/MtF

Well fuck, guess I’m a girl

Yeah, I think I’m outa the questioning phase. I used to not know wtf I was, but now I can say without a doubt that I am trans.

I kept getting jealous of girls- no specific girl in particular, moreso just all of them. And I realized that that’s who i want to be. It’s not that I feel trapped and restricted as a guy, but I think id be a million times happier as girl. So I think what I’m going to do is this: grow out my hair, shave my facial hair more often, tell my supportive sister, and hopefully get some clothes that I feel comfortable in. I don’t really know what else to say, but I kinda need somewhere to announce this bc my family wouldn’t support and I’m not in a good place to tell my sis

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u/Mintyboi10 — 12 days ago

I don’t have Prodigal Child, but I’ve completed the Fox question and have the staff.

I then sacrificed Ratau, but I don’t have the achievement or the fleece. So wtf is going on?

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u/Mintyboi10 — 13 days ago

Seaspray and Powerglide in Germany! - week 1

Pics at the airport, my hosts school, in the Marienplatz, on the Zugspitze, at BMW Wolt and in the Berchtesgaden salt mine!

u/Mintyboi10 — 13 days ago

Weird bug: the Layered Jacket keeps magically disappearing off of followers and being removed from my made clothing list

So, I wanted to give Yngya a cloak that looked like her tendrils, and the layered jacket fit perfectly. Unfortunately, every time I make it and page on a crusade, it’s magically gone and yngya is back to her regular clothes. The jacket is also missing from my made clothing list and I have to make it again. I tried giving it to another follower and the same thing occurred. So idk why it’s happening, but I want to know if anyone else has this issue (I am playing on switch)

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u/Mintyboi10 — 14 days ago

[OC] just a tall alien girl and her short alien slime girlfriend

Tashika (tall) is very anti-social and shy, and she especially hates when Terri (short, created by u/Kris-P-Baken) displays her affection in public. Mostly because Terri will go over the top, wrapping her arms around Tashi multiple times like a stretch Armstrong. Still, Tashika is extremely endeared by Terri and loves her to bits (though she would never admit that to anyone, especially her family)

Also, side note, I suck BALLS at drawing Terri’s hairtecles. I also really suck at side views, but luckily this one wasn’t so bad

u/Mintyboi10 — 15 days ago

How do I replace this piece on Seaspray?

Brought him to Europe for pictures, saw the piece was missing in my bag while still in the states, and am worried I lost it somewhere. If I can’t find it when I get home, how should I go about replacing it (without buying another Seaspray)

u/Mintyboi10 — 15 days ago

How should I go about starting with the actual meat and potatoes of a dnd campaign?

Hiya! I’m a new DM, and I’ve got the beginnings of a plot I’d like to turn into a dnd campaign. Unfortunately, I don’t really know where to start on things like dungeon maps, actual story dialogue, and most importantly, HOW TO MAKE ENEMIES. I’m super into starting a game with some pals but I genuinely have no clue where to start. Any advice is appreciated

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u/Mintyboi10 — 17 days ago

I hate Abomination follower forms because they simply because I can’t have Shamura x Ygnya kid

In my cult, Ygnya and Shamura are lovers, and now I wanna have them as a ship. Unfortunately, I don’t want to because it’d come out looking like this. And it’s not that I don’t like them, it’s that I can’t even change it to something else. I would GLADLY change it for something else, but nope! Fuck you! You get an unborn fetus as the child of two former gods! This seems like an easy fix but it’s just something I have to live with

u/Mintyboi10 — 17 days ago

Hey guys! Bit of a weird request, but does anyone have an advice for how to build a good mono fighting team. I think I’d be fun to cosplay a gym leader, and I wanna do it with my beloved Popsicle!

u/Mintyboi10 — 18 days ago

Someone PLEASE tell me how to pronounce these characters names?!? (Woolhaven spoilers)

I genuinely cannot figure out how Marchosias and Yngya’s names are pronounced. I’ve never struggled to pronounce a characters name as much as these two oh my god dude

u/Mintyboi10 — 20 days ago
▲ 2 r/Munich

I will be coming to Munich in a few days for a trip. I was wondering if there are any good collectors shops for action figure collectors

Post title says it all, really. Just looking for something to do for the 3 weeks and thought I might engage in my hobbies

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u/Mintyboi10 — 21 days ago

Is there a good chance this will work to permanently fix my Thunderclash custom? If not, what else could I do?

For context, I accidentally snapped the ball joint on the head trying to get the stock head off. Finally got a hand drill to fix it with, but unfortunately I bother it and got the hole crooked. I managed to keep it in, but i sincerely hope it’ll stay in. I intend to cut off the edge of the paper clip once I get back from a 3 week vacation. After that, I’m going to sand down the joint with a file before attaching the head

I think if this fails, I’ll just buy another figure and start again 😭

u/Mintyboi10 — 22 days ago

What’s your favorite case of “Im sorry, you got WHO to voice this character?”

I love completely out of left field castings. Gimme your favorites!

My pick is the man, the myth, the legends, Sylvester Stallone as King Shark

u/Mintyboi10 — 23 days ago