u/Sanbikaa

▲ 5 r/self

I’m crippled by indecision and fear of failure

Hey everyone, I’m 24 and I haven’t seen any of my dreams or aspirations to the end because there’s so much I wanna do and yet I’m so terrified of failure. I believe it comes from living with my mom and having to mature quicker than I was mentally prepared for, she never wanted to work so at an early age I had to put things I wanted to do on the back burner so I could afford rent and food for us. I tried going to college five times each time online classes, each time I’ve ended up dropping out because online schooling doesn’t help me at all but I was unable to do anything else since getting reduced hours or working part time would risk us being homeless.

I’m out of that situation now, living with my girlfriend of five years even though I’m able to work part time and go to school I’m still terrified of failing again and even though I have more freedom to express myself and explore interest I still can’t bring myself to see any of them out.

Is there something wrong with me? I don’t know how to solve this issue, it makes me feel like I’m drifting through life instead of taking control.

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u/Sanbikaa — 1 day ago

I’m crippled by indecision and fear of failure

Hey everyone, I’m 24 and I haven’t seen any of my dreams or aspirations to the end because there’s so much I wanna do and yet I’m so terrified of failure. I believe it comes from living with my mom and having to mature quicker than I was mentally prepared for, she never wanted to work so at an early age I had to put things I wanted to do on the back burner so I could afford rent and food for us. I tried going to college five times each time online classes, each time I’ve ended up dropping out because online schooling doesn’t help me at all but I was unable to do anything else since getting reduced hours or working part time would risk us being homeless.

I’m out of that situation now, living with my girlfriend of five years even though I’m able to work part time and go to school I’m still terrified of failing again and even though I have more freedom to express myself and explore interest I still can’t bring myself to see any of them out.

Is there something wrong with me? I don’t know how to solve this issue, it makes me feel like I’m drifting through life instead of taking control.

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u/Sanbikaa — 2 days ago

I’m crippled by indecision and fear of failure

Hey everyone, I’m 24 and I haven’t seen any of my dreams or aspirations to the end because there’s so much I wanna do and yet I’m so terrified of failure. I believe it comes from living with my mom and having to mature quicker than I was mentally prepared for, she never wanted to work so at an early age I had to put things I wanted to do on the back burner so I could afford rent and food for us. I tried going to college five times each time online classes, each time I’ve ended up dropping out because online schooling doesn’t help me at all but I was unable to do anything else since getting reduced hours or working part time would risk us being homeless.

I’m out of that situation now, living with my girlfriend of five years even though I’m able to work part time and go to school I’m still terrified of failing again and even though I have more freedom to express myself and explore interest I still can’t bring myself to see any of them out.

Is there something wrong with me? I don’t know how to solve this issue, it makes me feel like I’m drifting through life instead of taking control.

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u/Sanbikaa — 2 days ago

New to the series, what game should I get?

What the title say. I'm new to the AC series and since it's on sale I'm wondering which one should I get. Any recommendation would be great

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u/Sanbikaa — 10 days ago

What the title say. I would like to get into this genre of games but when I look on steam for immersive sims I get job simulation games or the weird mix of arpg and souls like. Do yall have any recommendations and some advice to fully enjoy these types of games?

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u/Sanbikaa — 20 days ago

I'm new when it comes to buying keyboards and I'm not sure which one would fit my needs better. I play a lot of games mainly ARPGs, rougelikes(Gunfire Reborn and Witchfire) and MOBAs, they're roughly the same price, K100 being 20ish more than K10 HE so it's hard to rule them out from price alone.

I've used mechanical keyboards before and they're fine, some a bit too loud for me liking but gets the job done however, I've never used a keyboard with magnetic switches before so I can't say anything on it. Are they better than mechanical switches or is it the same?

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u/Sanbikaa — 21 days ago
▲ 8 r/JRPG

I'm trying to decide which game to get, their both on sale for roughly the same price (KH being 3$ more) but I'm not sure which one would be the better buy. I don't play JRPGs, mainly RPGs and ARPGs like Cyberpunk and PoE, but I want to dive into JRPGs because they look fun and engaging.

I like the 2d-3d art style of Octopath, the music from what I've heard sounds great the break system and charging up your skills so they can hit hard and multiple times seems pretty cool. However I'm not sure how I feel about all the stories being separated also I've heard the game can be a slog if you don't wanna be under leveled.

I remember playing KH 365/2 and dream drop distant on the DS and 3DS aside from that I don't know much about the series outside of it being as confusing as trying to keep up with Metal Gear. The music I love simple and clean and face my fears I can listen to on repeat for days. I just don't know if the game is still good or is it a situation where folks are blinded by nostalgia. I'm on PC btw

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u/Sanbikaa — 24 days ago