u/Specialist_Cry_2081

Sadece ben aşırı duygusalım diyor

Çok düşünüyormuşum…

I know I sound very silly in many ways but I wonder has anyone else feel like this? I always feel like I got a do something unique or I got a have very specific style but I don't know what that is.

I have wasted years. But I could not find my way. I sometimes even thought about quitting art but I can't. I feel like I am missing something and I gotta find it.

Paylasacak hic bir seyim yok. Napiyor her kes yav

I recently started dating, and I love my boyfriend so much, but I’m constantly anxious. I try not to show it, and I act like I’m chill, but inside, I feel jealous of his female friends. I keep having thoughts like, “What if my boyfriend would want to date them if they showed even 0.01% of the interest that I show him?”

I also compare myself to the girls around him in terms of their appearance and success, and it makes me feel a bit insecure and upset. I am always trying the best I can and I started working out.

He has told me that I’m completely different from anyone else to him ibecause no woman has ever shown him such a deep emotional and sexual connection. He also tells me that we have so many common interests that I’m almost like the female version of him.

Still, I’m constantly anxious that he might meet someone else and leave me for her. These thoughts are mentally and emotionally draining me, and sometimes I even think about leaving him just to give him his freedom.

I want to become more confident in myself and in our relationship. I don’t want to constantly worry about losing him or feel jealous of other women. How can I deal with these feelings and learn to feel more secure in my relationship?

arkadaşım yapma zorlu bir şey her ay yapman gerekiyor filan diyor ama ben açmak istiyorum. kaşlarım sıkı ama kahverengi küllü tonlarda istiyorum yapmak. Her hangi bir markanın 8.1 olur mu?

Zorlu zamanlardan sonra birlikte olduk, uzun zaman önce başlamadan bitmiştik. İlişkimiz o kadar taze her şey daha çok yeni ama ben hep onu kaybedecekmişim gibi hissediyorum. Böyle ihtimal de var aslında yurt dışına taşınmak istiyor ama hiç de belli değil. Bense bugün saatlerle onun için ağladım. Hiç bir şeyin tadını çıkaramaz oldum. Anlıyorum ki her şey zamanla sonlanır ve bu normal ama bundan önceki ilişkim de aynı şimdiki gibi kısa sürüyorken bitmişti ve galiba artık travma var.

Kendimi bir şeyin sonlanacağına nasıl alıştıra bilirim? Devam edemem diye düşünüyorum

Amacım hoç bir kadını kıyaslamak ve ya küçümsemek değil. Ancak Rus kızlarının “pick me” tavırları ve sürekli yapılan bu tatsız karşılaştırma videoları pazarlama gibi duruyor, türk olmayan biri olarak bile beni rahatsız ediyor. Daha da üzücü olan ise, birçok erkeklerin kendi milletinin kadınları hakkında genel ve küçümseyici yorumlar yapması. Bunu gerçekten oldukça utanç verici buluyorum

We are really close and have tons of things on the common. We are a match on sexual and romantic way. Also we are good friends too, we can talk about literally for days , have jokes etc. This gonna sound crazy but I have seen my friends in relationships but they don't even share such level of similarity with each other as I do with this man. I really like him and he knows that. I am treating him very good. But he doesn't wanna go beyond flirt. It is not like I am expecting huge commitment like marriage lol. I wanna be his gf and want him to be exclusive to me. He told me he got gfs in the past so why not me. He treats me exactly like a gf but never tells he loves me or such. I have went no contact with him for 8 months in the past and only came back to make me love him more.

I feel I gotta be super successful or such to make him like me? ( we both are 24)

We are right now is very complex situation cause I brought about this topic what am I to him? I feel like he truly cares about me but never commit to me.

I decided not to flirt with him and stay as friends. But deep down I still want him.

My heart is beating so low. I am trying so hard not to text him. Our convos are so dry and he doesn’t even inititate.I can’t stand it.

I have been with this guy for 1,5 months and he is extremely kind, affectionate and shows me love. I also really like him and we also had something in the past about him that triggers me. We knew each other on instagram and talked for months and when we wanted to meet up , he started act distant, added new girls. This hurt me so I left him.

We finally started seeing each other 8 months later in real life and the everything was perfect. He is totally the best guy I have ever met and treats me so good. We have many things on the common that we are perfect as friends too.

After a month later I asked him about what does he see me as? Since I am not talking sexually and flirty with the people I am not into, I wonder what he thinks of me. I told him that he liked me. He told me he was just casually flirting with me. We had some brief argument and but anyways we still keep talking sometimes not flirty but just normally. But he already seems less interested in our talks. I have lost all my interest in him already as a romantic partner and since we had break up in the past, now it seems useless to me to do that again. But since we had many interests on the common, it is really hard for me to not to talk

Uzaklaş filanla olmuyor. 9 ay hic konuşmadık çok kötüydüm. Şimdi bir kaç aydır konuşmaya başladık ondan ne olduğumuzu sordum ciddi olmayan bir şey dedi. Bana adeta kız arkadaşıymışım gibi davranıyor ama başka kızlarla da ilgileniyor. Kendisi aynı zamanda benim en yakın arkadaşım. O kadar ortak hobiler ve s var ki sanki aynı insanız gibi. 9 ay dönemde bir kaç kişiyle görüşmeye başladım lakin asla onunla olduğumuz gibi değiliz. Onunla küçük bir muabbet bile o kadar yakın ve derin hissetdiriyor ki. Öncekinde çıkıp gitmiştim ama şimdi arkadaş kalmak istiyorum ama hala çok üzülüyorum.

I have fallen in love 2 times in my life and this man has only used me. And one of him was my closest friend and the man I still love. I already have issues and the one recent happened totally destroyed me. Because I gave him a second chance, and hurt myself even more.

It is not easy for me to find new people to to love again. I still love this guy but he doesn't want me. We have even went no contact in the past for almost a year but did not help.

I am feeling very embarrassed for being used again. I feel like dumped trvsh

I just can't do with someone else. I love him so much that I let him to use me. I am feeling so low

Basically nothing serious. I don't know what i am gonna do now on. I can't eat or sleep

zaten depresyondaydim simdi intihar dusunuyorum..

I used to blame myself for so long walking away from this man many months ago. He came back and I gave him a second chance. Even though he was acting totally different and better than his previous version, after few dates I asked him about whether he likes me or not and I got hurtful truth.

Now I am in pain and it is so hard and I don’t know what I am gonna do. This hurts me since I got the harsh truth there is no hope for us. it ended altogether

çok kötüyüm ağlıyorum kimse özelden ulaşa bilir mi

erkekler yazmasın zaten kötüyüm

Everything is so sweet between us but I can’t stop thinking that we only started dating after he explored other women while I was there first time. And he knew I liked him.

I love him and he is good now but I can’t stop feeling this way. He treats me well and told me he has changed but idk.

How do I tell him this? This often bugs my mind and I wanna throw up. I often think about he did not get the attention from other women so now he is with me. He just told me he gets along better with me than anyone else.

I am afraid to ruin everything but I have no peace either.

I am started seeing this man but I can't stop comparing myself to the other women around him or in general. He has not told anything bad about my looks but I feel like I am not his type physically. We get along with each other really good and he is very affectionate with me and treats me well. But I can't deal with the feeling that he is gonna leave me soon if he meets someone prettier.

He is also average guy tbh and I feel like he is not getting attention from the other girls so that is why he is with me.

How do I stop feeling like this?