u/StoreSignificant5884

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Did i say or do somwthing wrong. To my mom?

My mom comes in my room and told me . She's hungry, and to tell my husband to get her pick her up some food.

I had said to her cant Leejong pick up some food for you.

She got upset and went into her room.

The i felt bad, bc hell shes my mom she probably is hungry so I told my husband, hey can u pick up some food for my mom .

He said sure. Then my husband said why isn't her husband ever making your mom food thats. Bit weird I said I dont no.

Then my husband said ok ask her what she wants

Then she came out the room. My mom and I said mom mom mom she walks past my room. Went into hers locks the door . I have no idea if she heard me so I texted her on WhatsApp and said

Mom he wants to no wht did u want to eat

Then my mom said its ok

Now I feel like shes upset wth me and thinking stuff?.

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u/StoreSignificant5884 — 8 hours ago
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Everytime I want to start a business my business Everytime people always ask me fpr money or choas happens

Every time I start doing my research for starting something, or start focusing on my business, something happens. Family asks me for money, or chaos and arguments happen within my family where I live. It got to the point my husband didn’t believe me at first because I never told him, but until he seen it for himself.

He came to me and said, “Babe, you know what? As much as you want to start your business, STOP. Don’t do it. Don’t do it now because this is getting out of hand scary.” He said he’s afraid as well to start my business because every time — EVERY SINGLE TIME — someone in my family starts a real argument or chaos, or people start asking me for money.

Has anyone gone through this? Like when you want to start something for a really long time and chaos, angry family members, or everyone asking you for money suddenly starts happening? Has this ever happened to anyone, please? Because I feel crazy. Am I the only one this is happening to in this world? Can someone explain what’s going on and why this is happening? 😭😩

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u/StoreSignificant5884 — 11 days ago

My husband saod lazy fuck to me in front of the kids just bc I ignored him

We all have are days in life i watch my kids from 5 am to 8 9 pm 4 days a week

My husband works 12 hours so it's litterlt just me with a 2 year old that doesn't go to achool and a 7 year old that does go to school.

I felt So Hurt 😪 bc its hurting me

He even works weekends even the whole weeks it's been like thos since last year

So how am I lazy how do I recover and heal from such bad mouth talk

I wake up feed kids get their clothes from over night brush their teeth do their hair get stroller ready drop one off to school then attend my 2 year old and still gove breakfast lunch dinner with snacks pick my other kid up even when it snows and rains bc we have no car I make dinner with them teach them to read and write even tho im not the best at it but I try then I make dinner f for the kids and my husband even lunches over night just flr my husband to come home and call me a lazy fuck bc he got mad at me for interfering when he was talking to are kid for their bad behavior so he got mad called me names I feel so useless bc I have no money tl to move on by myself with the kids

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u/StoreSignificant5884 — 13 days ago
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My sister is lesbian. She keeps saying how much she hates men, they’re the problem. I got overwhelmed with hearing the same thing for the past 20 years. I said to her, OK, OK, I don’t wanna keep hearing how much you hate men, please go work on your healing, work on yourself.

Then she got upset and said your husband plays video games a lot, that’s why people view him like not sensible.

So I got livid, angry, so upset with her because I said just because you don’t like men doesn't mean you have to bash my husband for playing video games at night, leave him alone.

Then she said, oh he’s a man child. I said you know what, if you’re gonna disrespect my husband then you have no rights to talk to me and my husband because that’s disrespectful, and I said how can you disrespect my husband like that when he’s always saying nice things about you.

So I told my husband, and I said do me a favor and stay away from my family. My husband said why is she disrespecting me, if she doesn’t like men imagine what she thinks of our son.

Fast forward, my sister was hugging my son. My 2 year old started crying because he didn’t wanna be held, he wanted to play. So I said leave him alone, you’re activating him and he’s gonna get cranky and then I gotta deal with the cries. So she pushes him off her and said see this is why I like girls because they are more calmer, see watch this. Then she grabs my 7 year old daughter, hugs and kisses her and said look, see nothing. I got pissed, she’s comparing. I said,

Wow, you really need to go get your healing. Then she projecting her lesbianism on my kid saying why couldn’t she like girls. When I get kids I’m gonna make sure my kids date.

I told my husband, he said babe keep my kids away from her, she’s weird, rude and disgusting and disrespectful. When we move she’s not gonna see our kids again.

Then she said, rants about ew why would any girl wanna be dck down by men, they’re ugly, they’re ugly.

I said OMG if all you have to say is negative things about men then you have no rights being around my son, how can you speak like that then hug your nephew.

I said when you get kids your first born will be a boy and I wonder how quick you’re gonna humble yourself. I said if you hate men so much, SOOOOO much, then why use men, take their semen and get a baby. A person like you is mentally not ready to have kids because if you get a boy you’re gonna just say what you’re saying about my husband and baby boy to your kid.

Then she got mad and said I rebuke. I said the only thing that you should rebuke is your negative energy that you’re conjuring up because you need healing.

So my husband and I decided when we move to cut our kids out my family life because it’s so weird to be around negative energy. I told her I don’t wanna hear your negative input on men.

She said that my husband also ankid bc he watched cartoons and plays video games at night and that instead of playing video games he should make money my husbsnd works 2 jobs and comes home and still has time to love my kids and me and when my husband at work he stays on cam with me like vlogging to entertain me to get my mind out of depression he buys me gifts saves money works so hard just for pple like her to view ao low bc she doesn't like men jeep that negative to yourself

Plus

I said when you’re married and in love with your husband and you got kids with him and your relationship healthy, you don’t want to hear these mind fck talk games in your head by a narcissist angry lesbian. It fcks with your brain because that’s all I heard from her was anger, anger, problem men. Like stop. Its to heavy for me my chest cant take such negative energy

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u/StoreSignificant5884 — 16 days ago

My kid 7 years Female is isn't listening or behaving always talking back mommy and daddy dont argue infront of them dont no whey everyday she angry when j mean angry she goes to bed angry wakes up angry achool angry it seems so flipping ungrateful what am I doing wrong the behavior is not a good way for my child tk be acting like she has the world her back

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u/StoreSignificant5884 — 16 days ago

My kid got a classroom picture from picture day but we haven't recieved it i ask the teacher principal they said go online when i went online its not available how do i go abouts getting my kods classroom picture

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u/StoreSignificant5884 — 26 days ago