Needing people to hang out with for the summer lmao

I’m moving back up there tomorrow because my family is moving out of state so it makes the most sense for me to just go back to Humboldt. The thing is all my friends are at home for the summer and I have nothing to do except chud out and doomscroll. I’m looking for people to hang out with and I’m down to do literally anything I just need to not be alone all summer thanks gang 🙏

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u/bh447 — 5 days ago

I’m moving back to Humboldt for school, but everyone I know is gonna be away for the summer for another 2 months. What do you guys recommend to avoid boredom and loneliness in the area?

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u/bh447 — 5 days ago

Trying to pass someone on the sidewalk who’s walking slower than you but they’re still walking fast enough that you have to speed walk to pass them

Like it’s not their fault but still annoying

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u/bh447 — 6 days ago

Oddly specific music request: looking for goth music that feels like walking through a freezing cold forest at night

Sort of like a nature-y vibe if that makes sense

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u/bh447 — 6 days ago

Alternative scene?

I’m looking to get into the alternative scene in the area but not really sure how, and if there’s much of one at all.

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u/bh447 — 6 days ago
▲ 4 r/FTMMen

Needing some general dating advice

I’m 20 and been on T for a year now, just had top surgery earlier this year too. I’m starting to feel more confident and at a point where I want to start dating, and I’m only into cis women. I live in a pretty liberal area so I’m not worried about transphobia I might encounter in dating, but worried about having more limited options because I don’t have a penis, and I’m also just not sure how to approach women. I’m in college so I’d like to maybe talk to girls in my classes but I’m so socially awkward I don’t know how lol.

How do you guys talk to women you’re interested in, especially ones you’ve never talked to before?

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u/bh447 — 6 days ago

20ftm, my family is moving to Portland this summer and I want to make some friends in advance

I’m a college student in CA so I’ll still be away at school most of the time, but in this economy I’ll be living with my parents during school breaks and probably a couple years post grad.

I’m studying anthropology but career-wise I might honestly end up doing something totally unrelated, I’m currently kind of interested in cosmetology and might check out cosmetology programs in Portland.

I’m into metal, goth, alt scene in general, which I know Portland has plenty of but I’m just not sure where to look lol. Trying to collect as many piercings as possible…

Down to do pretty much anything and I’m looking for some new adventures. Please comment or send a DM if you wanna chat 🙏 I’ll need someone to show me around the city

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u/bh447 — 6 days ago

I hate being expected to be friendly and conversational all the time

For example I was going to a baseball game and my dad asked if I know what I wanna get to eat yet and I simply said “no,” and he got mad. Like sometimes I just don’t have more to say…

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u/bh447 — 7 days ago
▲ 284 r/Scary

Is anyone else really freaked out by the ocean on satellite view?

I remember exploring Google Earth when I was a kid and having to cover my eyes when going over the ocean. I still get scared by it, I was just looking at some island nations on Google Maps with satellite view and almost felt dizzy. It feels like I’m gonna see some weird giant ocean creature or a huge shipwreck or something even though I know I won’t.

u/bh447 — 9 days ago
▲ 783 r/evilautism+1 crossposts

It’s so hard to get a job

I’ve had a couple jobs in the past but they didn’t work out well, one I was fired from after less than a month (long story short, I told them during the interview I’m a slow learner and they said that’s fine, then they fired me for being a slow learner. 😐) and the other one I quit after almost a year because we got a new manager who was really rude towards me and made me scared to show up. Now I’m back on the job search and having trouble again. Most places won’t even send you a rejection email! I’d rather hear a rejection than nothing at all!!! And a lot of online applications seem to have questions that deliberately confuse you. The attached picture is from the CVS application. It asked a bunch of questions that seemed to be more like “how much can you put up with us treating you like shit? How hard are you gonna work your ass off and put down your life for this company?” rather than about my actual values and performance. Like ideally I’d have a job where I’m accountable for results but ALSO get praised for good performance and not treated like an animal. Like does it have to be one or the other? I’m certain there can be a balance lol

u/bh447 — 10 days ago

When you express a mild emotion and people exaggerate it/respond in a disproportionate way

For example:

“The service at this restaurant is kinda taking a while.”

“It’s fine, can you calm down? We’re not in a rush.”

Or:

“The sound of babies crying on a plane is a little annoying.”

“You’ll survive, everyone has to deal with it. You need to learn to cope.”

Or even with positive emotions:

“I’m excited for the football game tonight.”

“There’s football games all the time, what are you so happy about? Chill out”

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u/bh447 — 11 days ago
▲ 56 r/trans

What are your lighthearted pet peeves regarding being trans?

Doesn’t exactly have to be a pet peeve but I’m talking about little annoyances, not bigger and deeper issues such as transphobia, struggling to pass etc

For example: putting a binder on over a sunburn 🥴

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u/bh447 — 14 days ago

Scar lightening tips?

My scars have faded surprisingly well but one side has a section of darker red scar tissue. I used scar strips for about 2-3 months post op as my surgeon recommended, I’m now 6 months post op. If I go back to scar strips, would it have any effect? Is there anything else I can do? Thanks!

u/bh447 — 14 days ago
▲ 0 r/anime

Looking for a catgirl anime where the girls look like adults

I was getting into Nekopara but stopped liking it because it made me uncomfortable that the girls look like kids, even if they are adults. Can someone recommend one where the catgirls are and look like adults?

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u/bh447 — 14 days ago

Grown adults not using their words when they’re upset

This has several manifestations
- slamming doors, stomping around, being noisy when they’re in a bad mood
- silent treatment
- acting different/cold towards you

I’m not a mind reader and if you just tell me what’s wrong we can fix it 🥀

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u/bh447 — 15 days ago

Thoughts on Ultra Blue Hawaiian?

Just tried it for the first time today, it’s good and I’d probably buy again but I find it a little lacking in flavor compared to others.

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u/bh447 — 15 days ago
▲ 69 r/ftm

Got called “amigo”

I’m so hype about it lmao. I was at my dad’s favorite taqueria buying him a hat with its logo for Father’s Day and the cashier said “gracias amigo” and fist bumped me. I’ve been passing pretty consistently for the past few months despite my long ass hair now that I’ve been on T for a year but something about it being in another language makes it feel even better lol

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u/bh447 — 15 days ago

When the bus driver steps on the gas before you sit

I get you have places to be but everyone has time to wait a second for someone to sit down so they don’t stumble. What’s worse is when it’s someone who’s elderly or disabled. If they fall, not only could it be 100x worse for them but it’ll also be a fat lawsuit

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u/bh447 — 15 days ago