u/marbles_tour

I 25f still live with my parents and have been called messy my entire life (especially being told im too messy for a girl) my parents come into my room spontaneously to check on the cleanliness of my room. I also have hopped around bedrooms in my house throughout my life so my room doesnt even feel like MY space. Im not dirty by any means but am a little messy but i know where everything is. I think its because cleaning and organizing has been associated with pleasing my parents my entire life because i know they are going to come to do those check ins is what has caused me to hate it. Whenever i hear footsteps walking towards my room, my anxiety blows through the roof in fear that i will be yelled at for not keeping it spot clean like they expect me to so i scramble to clean. Did you find yourself to be more organized when moving out? Or was it the same? Ive almost convinced myself im not into cleaning or organizing but im wondering if thats actually true or is it because im in the environment im in. Ive never lived on my own before to know this.

Is patchiness normal in the Brazilian are even after so many sessions? I know have to buy more packages because its so patchy and looks terrible. Some areas are still dark and course while others are completely bald

Trying to gather some data for those like myself with a retroverted uterus to make sure im not the only one, missionary and cowgirl are great for me but doggy style feels like a stabbing pain which sucks because i like the idea of it and so does my partner. Any tips to make it more comfortable and what positions do you find to be comfortable vs uncomfortable? And has this issue impacted your sex life?

Heard some mixed reviews about the NYX lip lingerie stains so are there any other recommendations? Or is the nyx one actually good?

I feel very limited with just whites but i want to expand my collection. I feel like many companies dont make summer clothes in deep winter shades unless its fast fashion websites

I 25f am talking to a guy 26m and we have been hitting it off really well talking and went on two dates. On our last one, he asked how close i am to my parents and what my relationship is like with them and how they are. I dont even remember how i answered this question because i think i gave a very sugar coated answer but the truth is my father is a very toxic person and i absolutely despite him and a textbook narcissist but i still live at home with him. We have a cordial relationship but in no way close. My question is when is it appropriate to open up abusive/toxic family dynamic to the person you are talking to or dating? And how open should you be? I feel as though in a way im almost protecting my dad image which i know i shouldnt do but i dont want to push the person im talking to away either

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Anyone else watch the Michael Jackson biopic and felt everything michael was talking about wanting to be independent and moving relatable? I feel like its crazy to think a man that had it all was still contemplating moving out of his parents home