u/meatis2goodsrry

I sometimes say misandrist stuff because I’m mad or my past experiences but I won’t deny…

I’m sorry but I actually do love men, I do. If i didn’t love men I wouldn’t befriend or date them or listen to them or want to be in their company, but I do. I love men’s personalities, their voices, their humor and their looks. I find men really attractive, their bodies too. They are hot, i’m sorry but I have to say it, I can’t hate men, even though I say I do sometimes, I never mean it. I’m a man lover, sorry 😕

I’m still a woman lover obviously, but I am very attracted to men in a way that’s different than women. Maybe i’m a pick me, maybe i’m male centered, who knows.

There’s a difference between a person with insecurities, and an insecure person. Everybody has insecurities but there’s people who are genuinely just insecure, it’s their personality and I cannot stand this phenomenon particularly in other women because **they make it every other women’s problem.**

A woman posts her body, maybe she had plastic surgery, or maybe she didn’t, it gets popular because they find her attractive, then you have those women in the comments hating and being mad at her for “unrealistic beauty standards”. She’s just existing! Women’s bodies are not a statement and don’t need to be. They are insecure about how they look and think women need to downplay or hide themselves so they can feel better. Or a girl gets popular for being pretty, girls start hating on her because their boyfriends find them attractive, or they make a girl block their man because he’s the one that’s lusting. I’ve seen this play out in real life, they’re the same type of women who push modesty, slut shame other women because they get more attention.

A woman dates a guy, he has an ex that maybe he actually isn’t over, instead of confronting him about it or leaving, she attacks his ex and every other girl he’s been involved with. Or she’s the ex, sees he has a new girlfriend, and still hurt about how the relationship ended, she decides to mess with the new gf instead of moving on. This happens with female friends too, worried that **HE** is the one who will cheat, but doesn’t talk to him about it, she makes him cut off his friends as if that’ll stop a unloyal guy. They always take it out on other women because of their issues with a man. And it’s in their right to be hurt about anything in relation, especially when you’re in love, but it’s not fair to go after women who didn’t do anything to you.

They constantly make their insecurity another girls fault and put the onus on other people instead of recognizing how they’re insecure and trying to be better, insecurity is obviously not something so easy to overcome, I have been very insecure in ways but I still have some conscious. I don’t hate insecure women, and I don’t like when any woman feels bad about anything, but people shouldn’t have to be uncomfortable to make you comfortable. The coddling is annoying.

The only reason Janelle became “boring” after a while was because the girls literally killed her spirit, she was super turnt up in the beginning and then they just had to start with their bullying. Like how could you have fun in the house when everyone just hates you?

And when people say older men are predatory, men want to be mad but they are. I just went on a livestream and this guy in his 40s started talking about age gaps and the women on the panel were saying how it is weird to date an 18 year old when you’re that age, I joined to give my opinion because it was coming from older women, I’m 20, and wanted to share my experience. I said I agree and I don’t find older men attractive and boom, all the men started crying and yelling at me, literally. Like they just started calling me all types of bitches and sluts and making fun of my sex life when I never brought that up lol all because I don’t want men their age

older men are really convinced young women want them and we don’t, the only ones that do usually have some form of daddy issues, trauma or just want money, but the average girl is not looking for some 30 year old man. they love saying older women are used up and dried up when it’s like bro, we think the same thing about y’all weirdos!! at least i do. they’re so delusional, if you’re around my age please speak up and do not let these men try to convince you or turn you against older women.

Disclaimer: I am a straight woman, still am straight.

But I would be lying if I say I don’t ever get turned on by other women, specifically when they’re mean to me and it makes me feel so embarrassed because obviously why would anyone like you to be mean to them…but i do. And I’m not trolling, it just, whenever I used to get made fun of in high school by girls, it would hurt for a minute but then it’d make me feel really hot inside and then I would want them to bully me some more, now that i’m 20 I feel that even more, it’s like I feel very submissive to them and I like that 😭 IDK, i am straight though, like i only like men, but sometimes i rage bait online bc i like reading the mean comments of girls and it excites me. it just makes me feel really pathetic and helpless and i like it

i think maybe it’s bc i watched a lot of bullying skits growing up on youtube, and the girls were also kinda flirty while bullying? and it just, i wanted to be the girl. It just also validates me in a way and i’m not sure why or how that even makes sense but it makes me feel like i’m apart of the girls because i’m autistic so sometimes i feel like an alien, but…yeah

IDK IDK, but i just get really turned on by mean girls, i’m sorry i do, they’re just so dominate and intimidating and it makes me feel so…AHHHH but men being mean is no go, only in bed lol i’m sorry

I feel like Judi could most likely fight if she was angry enough? because that damn punch she gave Shelly and her knuckle afterwards, god damn, AND that kick to the face she gave priscilla? Jesus, she definitely has strength to her, just no technique or experience.

I am not falling for the propaganda that misandry is just as bad as misogyny. We just got news that abortion is about to be banned in 50 states, you’re on the internet crying because a random girl said she hates men. One of you can go out and never experience shit for being your gender, and it’s not women who have that privilege. I know this sub is full of teenagers so your brain is not fully developed, but grow up. And I don’t care how many of you call me a misandrist, you’ll just be proving my point. You even saying it is equal to so privileged in itself, nobody is making laws about your body and oppressing you just for having a damn uterus.

Looking back at when Stasi beat Shelly’s butt, I realized shelly was going to let Angie take the fall. Stasi kept only looking at Angie to throw shelly off and made it seem like she was going to fight Angie, Shelly at no point stood up and admitted it, she just kept trying to include both of them in the scandal, and yeah angie was involved but shelly was really the one who put something in her contacts. Shelly really did not care that much about angie, even angie admitted it at the reunion. Notice how at the reunion too, when Angie and Priscilla fought, Shelly was ONLY holding back angie and blocking her? Yeah, angie had every right lol Shelly was fake

this is a compliment lol but I’m rewatching season 7 and judi reminds me so much of myself more than I remember because she’s so awkward lol like i don’t really know how to explain it well enough but she’ll say stuff and phrases and it just sounds like she’s trying to fit in or how she keeps on babbling like it’s just super cute

Not assault, but whenever I bump into things, or like fall down, it feels good? Like I don’t know, yeah the pain hurts but like the act of me being in pain, and then being in distress just feels good? Like I was watching scream 4, and the scene where one of the characters, Jill, she gets her arm slit and has to wear a cast the rest of the film, after getting out the hospital… I wish that were me, I just love being knocked down and physically weak, like it feels good. I also want to know how it is staying the night at a hospital and being in pain and bruises and in that white cloth. Like I also really love limping, like if I hurt my ankle or something, I like to limp, I used to wish I broke my ankle when I was younger. I just like being weak physically and in distress, and I love seeing people in movies like this and also hearing their groans. And I love bruises, I wish I got more. maybe i’m just weird, or have a fetish, idk. sometimes I imagine myself being thrown off a stage and falling onto the floor, my back in pain and somewhere bleeding, or that someone pushes me, or i get into a fight and get slapped super roughly and my hair just goes everywhere and my lip is busted. idk, it’s just exciting

Not assault, but whenever I bump into things, or like fall down, it feels good? Like I don’t know, yeah the pain hurts but like the act of me being in pain, and then being in distress just feels good? Like I was watching scream 4, and the scene where one of the characters, Jill, she gets her arm slit and has to wear a cast the rest of the film, after getting out the hospital… I wish that were me, I just love being knocked down and physically weak, like it feels good. I also want to know how it is staying the night at a hospital and being in pain and bruises and in that white cloth. Like I also really love limping, like if I hurt my ankle or something, I like to limp, I used to wish I broke my ankle when I was younger. I just like being weak physically and in distress, and I love seeing people in movies like this and also hearing their groans. And I love bruises, I wish I got more. maybe i’m just weird, or have a fetish, idk.

it’s so funny how tasha would say people are jealous of her especially stasi but stasi just admitted on live that tasha would sleep in full faces of makeup 😭. i heard the same thing about ashley from bgc6 but ppl were actually jealous of her

i literally don’t get the hype with any of these girls but especially stunnagirl, she literally kidnapped a woman and slit her stomach, THEN put her in a cage like a dog. seriously why? she’s evil asf, there’s no redeeming qualities about her. sure, she can make a good beat and catchy song but all she really raps about is her pussy or some nigga, like every other fucking new rapper these days. why do y’all support these ghetto violent ass women is beyond me, literally they think life is just about fighting, guns or selling pussy. trying so much to be “hood” you’re not hood. it’s deplorable. i’m tired of baddies in general at least bgc was not just about one thing

say i’m reaching idc, but gigi and steph were only chosen because of their color and body, yeah gigi has a bit of rhythm but all of those girls were on the same level dancing wise, this was 2013, colorism at its peak and eveyrone wanting someone exotic, especially black men. i’ve seen it before and i’m only 20, this has been a thing for years. It’s not a coincidence they choose the only light skin latina thick girls, and nae because she was actually the good dancer. it had a lot to do with body too, the obsession with short and thick.

I hate the phrase “protect your daughters” because it’s just so reductive and seems to put the onus onto young girls and women to stop violence against them. And every time I bring this up, it’s always people getting weirdly defensive like “Oh you can’t teach men not to rape” or something like that. Do y’all hear yourself? You can absolutely teach your little sons not grow up into the adult men who rape, teaching them about consent, boundaries, how to respect women, rape culture, misogyny and everything else that goes into why violence is high against women. Boys are not born evil or hateful towards girls, society teaches them to be that so don’t tell me you can’t teach your son to against that conditioning, parents are simply lazy and would rather not hold their sons accountable for anything and expect their daughters to hear the load.

And just because you teach your daughters how to protect themselves, doesn’t mean they’re still not able to experience harm, you can teach her everything in the handbook and she can still be a victim, why not reduce that victimhood by teaching the boys around her to not victimize a woman? Again, putting the onus on girls as if it’s our responsibility to not get raped, it’s ridiculous. Y’all are literally just lazy asf and would rather go with “it’s gonna happen anyway” route instead of trying to minimize that anyway you can. So no you’re not protecting your daughters, you’re simply letting little boys grow up to be violent and expecting your young daughters to bear the consequences. That’s not protection, that’s enabling. A lot of you are apart of the problem, directly or indirectly. This is why “boys will be boys” is such a popular phrase because y’all would rather just excuse men’s actions and let them terrorize whoever instead of putting in the work to help stop it.

You’re not protecting your daughters until you educate your sons, period. And it’s even more weirder because why are y’all not also teaching your sons how to protect themselves against violence? Y’all don’t care about boys or girls and it’s very clear.

A lot of those rejection killings wouldn’t be so high if you taught your son how to take no for answer when they’re little.

But you’ll teach your boys how to be a “ladies man”, pfft.

i watched season 7 and like two times shelly keeps mentioning how she punched judi and at the end she asked judi if she wants to the shirt she got punched in and maybe my eyes r playing tricks but…when did shelly and judi ever even have a actual physical fight LOL besides when judi popped the hell out of her in the confessional, but even then shelly didn’t do anything. Like they literally never actually physically fought. just Shelly pushing Judi, and judi pushing shelly. I swear shelly is lunatic

Something I hate that women do, and I have been at fault for this, is whenever a man commits a really hurtful or heinous act specifically against another woman, we are the first to reduce him to being “stupid.” It’s so annoying and it’s not out of nowhere, this started with the whole “boys will be boys” bullshit that was an excuse for men’s bad actions. I see this a lot in abusive, like toxic and emotionally abusive relationships, the guy is always accused of being stupid or that men are dumb, it’s like no they aren’t, men know exactly what they’re doing and we’re the dumb ones for believing they don’t. Like no, the guy that’s manipulating you and leading you on isn’t incapable, he’s not accidentally doing that. It’s some weird cope I feel like but it’s annoying because it just takes away accountability and minimizes the harm men cause. Like the Dv4d case, I saw a few women call him stupid when people are pointing out how his plan unfolded, but not because he got caught, but that he couldn’t do this very detailed act because he’s just “stupid” he clearly fucking isn’t if he almost got away with it by taking very cautious steps.

It’s also so infantilzing, people see men as children who aren’t at fault for their actions. Women are not given that same “grace” it’s like women are actually seen as more deceptive. Overall, the notion that men are stupid after eveyr bad thing they do isn’t the gotcha you think it is, you’re not actually insulting men, you’re just letting them get away with their poor behavior because if he’s so stupid, obviously he didn’t know what he was doing, and you’re just hurting women in the process. This doesn’t just apply to bad situations, I’ve seen this rhetoric spread just in general. Its like how people think cheating is just in a man’s dna, or chalking up their creepy behavior to “he’s a man, what do you expect”, shit like no, not to mention the weird bioessentiliasm.

It’s so annoying, like that’s a grown ass man, the times I have seen women get called stupid is either misogynistic or in actual relation to their intelligence, never to dumb down their actions so why do men get the same leeway? It’s patriarchy and it’s not okay. Like the obsession with infantilzing men needs to stop.

My point is stop taking accountability away from men, they get to keep doing the shit they do because we keep writing them off as just “he doesn’t know any better.” Like no he actually does and he takes advantage of the fact we’re so ingrained in patriarchy that we have to make excuses.

Something I hate that women do, and I have been at fault for this, is whenever a man commits a really hurtful or heinous act specifically against another woman, we are the first to reduce him to being “stupid.” It’s so annoying and it’s not out of nowhere, this started with the whole “boys will be boys” bullshit that was an excuse for men’s bad actions. I see this a lot in abusive, like toxic and emotionally abusive relationships, the guy is always accused of being stupid or that men are dumb, it’s like no they aren’t, men know exactly what they’re doing and we’re the dumb ones for believing they don’t. Like no, the guy that’s manipulating you and leading you on isn’t incapable, he’s not accidentally doing that. It’s some weird cope I feel like but it’s annoying because it just takes away accountability and minimizes the harm men cause. Like the Dv4d case, I saw a few women call him stupid when people are pointing out how his plan unfolded, but not because he got caught, but that he couldn’t do this very detailed act because he’s just “stupid” he clearly fucking isn’t if he almost got away with it by taking very cautious steps.

It’s also so infantilzing, people see men as children who aren’t at fault for their actions. Women are not given that same “grace” it’s like women are actually seen as more deceptive. Overall, the notion that men are stupid after eveyr bad thing they do isn’t the gotcha you think it is, you’re not actually insulting men, you’re just letting them get away with their poor behavior because if he’s so stupid, obviously he didn’t know what he was doing, and you’re just hurting women in the process. This doesn’t just apply to bad situations, I’ve seen this rhetoric spread just in general. Its like how people think cheating is just in a man’s dna, or chalking up their creepy behavior to “he’s a man, what do you expect”, shit like no, not to mention the weird bioessentiliasm.

It’s so annoying, like that’s a grown ass man, the times I have seen women get called stupid is either misogynistic or in actual relation to their intelligence, never to dumb down their actions so why do men get the same leeway? It’s patriarchy and it’s not okay.

My point is stop taking accountability away from men, they get to keep doing the shit they do because we keep writing them off as just “he doesn’t know any better.” Like no he actually does and he takes advantage of the fact we’re so ingrained in patriarchy that we have to make excuses.

i mean i have some pent up anger from trauma but these girls, like some of them were so angry and it was scary to watch, like valentina, benz, julie, dani, gigi, jazmone, etc. like what the fuck?