Getting my trans brother a binder
Okay, so my sister came out as gender fluid this year. I really didn't understand what it even meant and i'm still not sure if i got the whole idea yet since everyone says a different thing but she admitted and said that she never wanted to be gender fluid, she just was too scared to admit to herself that she wants to be a man. And that made a lot more sense.
Anyway, his name is Elijah now. I can't pronounce it properly yet but i swear i'm trying. His birthday is two months from now and i want to get him a binder and i have to do it soon since shipping takes two months.
I'm surprised to see how many types there are and i want recommendations. He's a bit on the larger size (maybe wight in the 80kg range, wich is about 176 pounds i think), he wear xxl or xl sometimes but he doesn't have that big of a chest, maybe a B or even an A but i'm not sure.
He's about to be 16 and our parents MOST NOT KNOW, the probably wouldn't know from seeing it and would think it's one of my corsets, but maybe something that won't permanently harm the chest would me better.
I'm open for all recommendations and advices, thank you!
update: okay, he HATES tape and i don't know why. at least now i'm sure that i'm going for a binder.