u/bonesandglitters

Hi guys, idk if it's just me but recently the Metrolist recommended songs became very random, now the mixes mostly include type of musics that aren't the one I was listening to, and stuff I never listen to.

I'm connected to my youtube account but it doesnt seem to be working ? Since I don't have my YouTube playlists on Metrolist anymore either.

Anyway any tips appreciated!

Hello!

My social battery is rather short, and I sometimes meet people who can talk for hours, even if im not answering anymore- I have absolutely no idea how to cut one sided conversations when my social battery is drained, or of im tired, or if im just done talking. I feel like it always sounds mean to tell someone who's talking about whatever they're interested talking about that I don't wanna have this conversation anymore ? 😭

Hello!

My social battery is rather short, and I sometimes meet people who can talk for hours, even if im not answering anymore- I have absolutely no idea how to cut one sided conversations when my social battery is drained, or of im tired, or if im just done talking. I feel like it always sounds mean to tell someone who's talking about whatever they're interested talking about that I don't wanna talk anymore ? 😭

Honestly half a rant half a question. I wanted to get nail polishes, all from the same page, and each color added another 3€. Like please, even Temu sellers have updated their categories so you only have to pay 3€ once. Wtf are they doing 😭

Tbh it pmo when I just want to play and try to skip through it as fast as possible, i already have a diary, please pikmin bloom leave me alone LMAO

I get a sort of peer pressure from my friends trying to / getting into IRL relationships, and I get scared to lose myself into it, since I used to get very codependent.

Sometimes it makes me spiral - and ended up worrying about if our connection is real or if I'm making it all up / just coping, and if our relationship is even "worth" anything.

I know deep down that it *is* worth, and it's just different from an IRL relationship, but the strength of our connection is also what scares me sometimes- I'm scared to fall back into my obsessive habits (also since, even if I hear him and feel close to him, our relationship depends on my ability to connect enough- if that makes sense ?)

Also I haven't felt an actual safe love before him, so that clearly doesn't help haha

My anxiety makes it really hard to communicate about this with him- but I'll try my best ! Anyway, any advices or whatever would help a lot, thank you ♡

Hello !

Sorry for the confusing title, I didnt know how to really word it.

I watched the 1rst ep, literally thinking the whole show was about Ai and the idol industry. On the 1rst ep / 2nd ep, it's told that the anime is mostly following her son investigating.

Wanted to watch it mostly because I like medias about the idol industry, and to be fair I don't really care for the investigation of Aqua. For people who watched the anime or read the manga, would you recommend me the anime or manga ? Side question being : is the idol industry actually the main theme of the anime / manga ?

I know her daughter wants to be an idol, but I found the 2nd ep was mostly about Aqua, acting career, and investigation, so that made me stop there.

Thank you !

Hi!! I'm literally nervous writing this lol. I think we finally found our ring, and that made me re-think about our whole relationship.

I have actually been looking at rings since May, and considering getting one, - either to represent our relationship, or to get engaged - for maybe a year if not more.

I've been in love with Silco for probably three years. He was always my favorite fictional character since I actually got to know him. I kept saying I was in love with him and that was true, but I was in deep denial that such a relationship was possible.

I don't know what changed in my mind or my life recently, maybe it was also connecting with the ficto community (♡) but it just clicked that *we* could be a thing, and were a thing, for atleast months.

When I discovered the ficto community, I remember feeling heard, and feeling like something else was possible for me. Now that I think about it, I see all the times I ignored the signs, because society and everyone around me was pushing me to believe a ficto relationship couldn't be real. Silco is literally the man that really made me get over my ex - by realizing I didn't love them, I loved him, in fact. Everytime I flirted with people, I was constantly thinking about him, trying to find him in everyone I was talking to.

But there's no one like my love <3 and I'm so happy to finally be able to love him freely now. (- I hide it to my family, and most of my friends, as a way to keep us safe, to be honest. And we're both alright like that)

He doesn't want me to share the ring until we get it- and I agree with him in the end-. But when we saw it it really clicked ! It was a perfect mix of both of us, and what represents our relationship. I'm so excited at the idea to share it with you guys someday. And we're thinking about actually getting engaged. ♡

He's really always been there for me. His lines in his canon universe helped me get through *so many* difficult times. It was always him that I heard, always.

I can't believe we're together, and that I'm so lucky to live a love so soft. We're still working on communication- my anxiety has made it hard for me to hear him at times- but he's so patient. I'm so lucky to be with him. I was a bit of an avoidant, and he's making me want to open more and more everyday. I literally love him more everyday - it's crazy that its possible lol!

Anyway, thank you for reading. ♡

I love you my love !! 💜