what does my taste in women say about me as a gay man?

whats my occupation, where am i located, how does my life look like, hit me

u/dustydancers — 1 day ago

how are you feeling about generative AI? need advice in my relationship.

my partner is using AI a lot and basically for everything. he identifies as a communist, is technically highly educated and intelligent, a critical and very analytical, rational thinker. is it odd to find this to contradict his heavy AI usage? specifically ChatGPT and DeepSeek..

he uses it in a daily routine to train cognitive functions, like literacy and articulation training, language practices, as support to understand issues and express things more cohesively.

he even uses it in our relationship, which has led to quite a few arguments because it does make me feel disconnected to him in different ways and i also simply am grossed out by that practice and do not want it in out relationship. he prompted a presentation about a dynamic / relationship issue we had been talking about, and while it was accurate and even helpful, it left me feeling emotionally alienated.

i dont think i have to mention the ethical implications of AI and what mass consumption of this means in terms of environmental and human impact. but he keeps saying there is no ethical consumption under capitalism which - yea thats true but im also not gonna start mass consuming based on that argument or start consuming all the stuff i choose not to due to trying to be as ethical as i can be, for my own peace of mind and comfort.

what are your opinions on this? i wonder if this kind-of problem is getting more common and how people are dealing with it.

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u/dustydancers — 6 days ago

plum jam

i have a big jar of this and though i love it, i dont eat this often enough and am worried it might spoil. i also dont have a big fridge and hate having unnecessarily occupied space taken up in it for long times. i buy it when i have a craving for a childhood favorite: crepe with cheese and plum jam.

anything that comes to mind for this? maybe smth i can portion up and freeze for sweet cravings? thank you in advance!!

u/dustydancers — 6 days ago

looking for stained glass-style windowstickers

hey all! been looking for this kindof windowsticker but all i can find is temu/amazon or etsy and i really don’t want to buy online.

have you seen something like this around? maybe around don xuan or sonnenallee? im also willing to make my own, buy handmade and so on - so all tips are welcome!

u/dustydancers — 8 days ago

Plage bei meiner Cousine im Schlafzimmer - was ist das und wie bekämpfen wir die?

Sie ist seit einer Woche in ihrer ersten eigenen Wohnung und jetzt direkt sowas. Ich habe sowas noch nie gesehen! Wir sind in Berlin, falls das nützlicher Kontext ist…

u/dustydancers — 9 days ago

Was sind diese Fliegen in meiner Küche? Keine Fruchtfliegen, oder?

Sie scheinen sehr träge zu sein und ich konnte sie einzelnd vom Fenster wischen. Leider finde ich die Quelle nicht aus der sie kommen! Hatte solche noch nicht im Haus.

u/dustydancers — 16 days ago

two years ago i lost my first and best friend

this is my oma. it is her birthday today and she would’ve been 90. my deepest connection to anyone and i still dont know how to navigate life without her. ive never seen a sign of her but i feel her when i look at the moon and sometimes i feel her hair in the clouds, ive felt her in the tip of flowers growing around me. please tell me something, please. please tell me if you know how to get in touch with her

u/dustydancers — 16 days ago

tiny studio layout support needed

life troubles had me moving here, i might be here for at least a year. its generally actually very nice and in a lovely area but the furniture ive decided to keep is a bit awkward in this space - which set up makes more sense? bonus points for feng shui advice, as i am a troubled sleeper and spend a lot of time home..

pics 1&2 were how it was initally, 4&5 is how i just moved it around. i really want to fit my coffee table, but since it is round and 50cm in diameter, i don’t know which layout would allow it. for reference, that seating pouf thing is 60cm diameter.

u/dustydancers — 20 days ago

im not sure if i could improve this layout

specifically my feet are facing either my closet and slightly the door to the hallway or the window. my mother told me where to hang the feng shui mirrors, do they make sense this way? thank you in advance 🫶🏼 i will be in this studio space for quite some time so i will try to make it as comfortable to my energy as possible

u/dustydancers — 20 days ago

Frage zu temporärer Obdachlosigkeit und Jobcenter-Besuch

Hallo, ich hoffe ich bin an dieser Stelle richtig.

Ich bekomme seit Februar keine Unterstützung mehr zur Miete, seit Mai auch sonst keine Grundsicherung vom Jobcenter. Das liegt an schwerer psychischer Krankheit. Ich kläre das derzeit und habe morgen früh endlich eine Vorladung zum Termin bei. Jobcenter. Ich habe etwas Sorge, dass sie mich danach direkt zu Hause aufsuchen möchten. Da ich meine Miete nicht mehr leisten konnte bin ich derzeit bei einer Freundin, und titsche noch zwischen anderen FreundInnen umher - ich kan unmöglich die Menschen vom Jobcenter dorthin einladen.

Was könnte in so einem Fall passieren? Ich werde sehr ehrlich sein.

Ich hoffe jemand kann mir irgendetwas erklären. Ganz liebe Grüße!

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u/dustydancers — 20 days ago
▲ 21 r/Staiy

ein einblick in die aktuelle stumpfe, dickköpfige geschichtsrevisionierende einstellung hierzulande

solche dinge wurden uns auch noch netterweise von der geschichtslehrerin 2014 gesteckt aber naja der genozid wurde ja auch erst 2021 offiziell von deutschland anerkannt 🫠

u/dustydancers — 23 days ago
▲ 23 r/was_esst_ihr+1 crossposts

Leftover party : last of my mom’s mantı with yoghurt dill and pickles, ajvar, baked carrots, potatoes, radishes, asparagus-tips. topped off with some wild herb salad

u/dustydancers — 25 days ago