u/AdVaanced77

I have nightmares where people die or I kill someone occasionally and dude last night I had a terrifying one. First of all I broke into a couples house in which they had children, and they caught me and the father showed me his gun and told me to get out, but I stole the gun from him and I don’t remember what happened next but I was across a table from them and he was trying to shoot me but I wrestled the gun from his grip and shot them both and the woman was begging me not to. And then I ended up someplace else and I shot two young girls but instead of dying, they basically went into the afterlife in front of me and were super happy and in my head in this dream I killed them because I didn’t want them to be happy or something along those lines but it backfired because now they’re both happier than me in heaven together.

It was like an action film and I killed like 5 people and broke into a house and fought a gun from a dude killed him and his wife and basically held them hostage. But it was actually scary. My least favourite reoccurring nightmare I have is the one where I kill my parents because the guilt kills me and I know I’m getting life in prison once people find out. And I also occasionally have one where I’m a school shooter or just go on a killing spree in general.

I obviously don’t enjoy having nightmares like these and I would never do any of these things in real life and I don’t know why I keep having such violent nightmares when I don’t even consume violent content.

I asked ChatGPT and it said this is normal and don’t be worried but I asked real people and they told me I need help

In real life, I talk shit about basically everyone behind their backs. I don’t go out of my way to do it and I never initiate conversations like that, but if I’m around someone and they start shit talking someone I know, I’ll join in. I would never say anything bad to anyone’s face but no matter who it is if someone else brings them up I’ll contribute.

I think there is no issue with this as long as the person doesn’t know, because people can’t be hurt by something if they don’t know it’s happening. And I also just assume that people talk shit about me behind my back too, but it doesn’t affect me because I don’t know about it or what they’re saying.

I feel like being 'fake' isn’t a bad thing as long as you aren’t the one going out of your way to talk badly about other people. Just joining in when someone else brings it up is fine and doesn’t make you a bad person. It’s just like adapting to the conversation and as long as you aren’t a dick to anyone in person it’s fine.

I am sick of my 64GB storage on my iPad so I’m getting a new one. My 5th gen Air is in perfect condition and worth $220 trade in with Apple.

I can either buy a refurbished one which would be $369 with trade in.

Or I can buy a brand new one at which would be $529 with trade in.

This is the 11inch M3 Air. I was considering the basic iPad but apparently the display is trash so I don’t want to downgrade.

Which would you choose. Refurbished or new. I have heard that Apple refurbed is basically brand new so I’m leaning towards that because 370 bucks is really nothing.

Dude my account on the original is stacked I have a ton of pixel and drip stuff but can I gift from msp 1 to 2

My [20M] cousin [18?] is attending the same college as me this year and the same campus. It’s about an hour drive for me every morning depending on traffic, and my cousin who I will call Jack, lives en route so I pass his place every morning.

Jack doesn’t drive for some reason and I don’t even think he is in the process of learning to drive, so he would have to get the bus or get a ride from his parents.

This never even crossed my mind because I would never want to do this, but my mother came to me and told me that my aunt had asked her if I would be willing to give Jack a ride to college whatever days we’re both in. I said no, for multiple reasons , but the main one being that I like the drive there by myself where I can just listen to my music without anyone talking to me.

Me and Jack are both autistic and I’m not super close with him but I’m probably the closest cousin with him just because I can relate to him and we share struggles, but I feel like I’ve sort of been appointed as his buddy or something when in reality I would never want to do this.

My mother told me the right thing to do would be to say yes because they know I pass his house, there are no direct buses from where we live to the college, and she also made the point that my gas is paid for by her and my dad.

The bus thing is a good point but it’s not hard to figure out a bus connection, and if public transport is that hard, he can just learn how to drive and none of this would be a concern. I stood my ground and said no and now she’s pissed because she thinks it’s rude of me to refuse to do it.

TLDR I don’t want to give my cousin a ride to college

Dude the biggest mistake of my life was getting a 64GB iPad Air. I initially got it for school because I already had another iPad so I thought if I wasn’t using the Air outside of that then I wouldn’t need a ton of storage because I wasn’t planning on downloading apps like YouTube and stuff. But naturally I started using it as my daily iPad and I downloaded pretty much everything I said I wouldn’t. I severely underestimated how much storage random bullshit takes up and now im constantly having to offload apps and stuff. Why is 64gb even an option. I also didn’t know you couldn’t change the internal storage so I thought it was maybe possible to get more but no I need a whole new device to upgrade my storage. What a joke lol

I’m seeing a show and I want a seat in the dress circle but the price difference in one row behind the one I want is $13 less. I would prefer the one I originally want but I don’t know.

Preferred: $135
One row behind: $122

I don’t get road rage I’m a very chill driver but something about being tailgated drives me insane to the point where I have considered brake checking at pretty high speeds just so they go into the back of me and face consequences. I’m aware that I could injure myself from this but I genuinely wouldn’t care if I was hospitalized from it with minor injuries.

Someone was tailgating me at 130kmh and they were insanely close to me and wouldn’t lay off at all and if I braked they 100% would have crashed into me. I was genuinely nearly prepping myself to do it and my heart rate started going crazy thinking about it, but then I started thinking about the worst injury I could get from it and I was thinking it could possible paralyze me from speed, and I’m an athlete so I would hate to never be able play sport again.

Do you think this could paralyze me? Obviously at lower speeds there is much lower risk and my car would probably take all the damage but I don’t know about this.

I am seeding 50 torrents and I use a laptop in my room and I assume the fan goes on when there is more demanding stuff and it’s quite annoying. So if I remove larger torrents and just replace them with a ton of small files will it affect number of bonus points or anything or is it all the same and size doesn’t matter. On MAM

My [20] sister is 27 and has her own place with her partner and 2 kids, but she loves to come to our parents house to use things. We have a gym in the basement that she comes over to use with and brings her 2 kids along and makes one of my parents or me watch them while she works out. So she doesn’t have to pay a gym membership and also gets free babysitting out of it.

Today I was in the kitchen and she came through with her youngest kid in a stroller and went outside. I asked her what she was doing and she said she came over to sunbathe because at her house there isn’t adequate privacy from her neighbours at her house. My parents have a pretty nice backyard with a pool and sun loungers and it is blocked by trees on both sides so no one can see in, but I just thought it was kind of ridiculous. She could have went to a public pool or something.

During me and my parents vacations she has chilled at our parents house instead of hers a lot of the time for some weird reason and she just loves using our parents things probably because she doesn’t have to pay for any of it

I use fire TV, iOS, and Samsung Tv and I am logged into the same account and have native nuvio sync enabled yet my continue watching is not synced on each device. I use the online version through Apps2samsung for my tv so my guess is that because it’s a more unofficial thing it maybe has issues tracking?

Most of the time firestick and iOS are fine it’s just my Samsung tv that is pretty much of completely out of sync

I joined MAM and I was under the impression that if I just download and seed a ton that my ratio will go up quickly and then I can become power user and then become VIP and get what I joined for. But I have seeded 33 torrents for like 1-1.5 weeks and my real share ratio is 0.029. What am I doing wrong. I am connectable. Should I be downloading even more than this?

In my opinion I would say Arie (US1), Kirkland (CA2) and Curtis (CA3)

I could’ve sworn I used PiP about week or two ago but everytime recently it doesn’t work. Was it added and removed and if so will it come back? I am using sideloaded IPA on iOS