u/AdVaanced77

I am 20 years old and I currently live with my parents and I am fortunate that they don’t charge rent or anything so I have no bills to pay. I am in college and I have a part time job so I am earning money and saving about half of it.

I constantly get made fun of being being a "leech" and living off my parents. But I am literally better off than these people. I also get people who say “I moved out at 18 and worked hard and whatever else “ like they’re bragging about having a hard life lol. Why would I feel bad about living at home rent free. The only reason most people my age aren’t at home is because they’re in college. It’s literally just cope. People wish they were in my position but to make themselves feel better they make fun of me and say they moved out at 17 or something ridiculous. Why would I be jealous of someone moving out as a teenager

There are zero negative aspects about my current situation. I will have no debt, I pay no bills and I’m earning money.

Dude I was watching porn and the girl was giving a dude a bj and she was sort of like puking and eventually blood started coming out in like small pieces some of it was red and some of it was like actually dark small chunks. It was pretty disgusting and I turned it off but it was grossing me out. But where was she even bleeding from. Can you bleed from sucking dick too hard I didn’t know it was possible.

I [20M] do not like people going into my room. I unfortunately have no lock because my parents don’t want me to have one, but it’s really not an issue anymore because I only live with them and my sister has moved out. I don’t even let our housekeeper go into my room, I just clean it myself. When my sister still lived with us it was constantly an issue that she would go into my room while I was out or at school or something. She has been moved out for a few years I think, but she still occasionally comes over.

I came home from college today and she was cleaning the house and her kid was there. Why she was doing this I’m not sure because we have a cleaner, but anyway I basically just ignored her and went up to my room only to see that she had clearly been in it. She took it upon herself to do laundry for me but she only washed every pair of pyjamas I have (why) and she put clothes that were on my floor onto my bed and she also used some sort of cleaning product on my iPad.

All while I wasn’t at home. Why does she feel the need to invade my personal space when she doesn’t even live in the house anymore. Baffling. I don’t go into her room and sort her shit out when I visit her.

Dude what can I do I’m about to quit the game again because my fucking account won’t import

My family went out to lunch today (which was a nightmare that I could rant a lot more about) and after we ordered food I went to an ATM to take out cash. I came back and sat down and about a minute later a lady came up to our table holding card asking if it was mine, because she must have seen it fall out of my pocket. So I said yes and thanked her and took out my wallet which had a ton of cash in it because that’s what I went to the ATM for. My sister asked me to show her my wallet because she 'wanted to see what way I have it', to which I obviously said no because of how much money I had in it. She said why not and I said because I don’t want her to, and she literally grabbed it out of my hand, and looked inside it. And then proceeded to ask me if she could 'organize it for me'. I said no again and took it from her. She is 27 and I’m 20.

The entitlement to other people’s belongings is crazy.

I have nightmares where people die or I kill someone occasionally and dude last night I had a terrifying one. First of all I broke into a couples house in which they had children, and they caught me and the father showed me his gun and told me to get out, but I stole the gun from him and I don’t remember what happened next but I was across a table from them and he was trying to shoot me but I wrestled the gun from his grip and shot them both and the woman was begging me not to. And then I ended up someplace else and I shot two young girls but instead of dying, they basically went into the afterlife in front of me and were super happy and in my head in this dream I killed them because I didn’t want them to be happy or something along those lines but it backfired because now they’re both happier than me in heaven together.

It was like an action film and I killed like 5 people and broke into a house and fought a gun from a dude killed him and his wife and basically held them hostage. But it was actually scary. My least favourite reoccurring nightmare I have is the one where I kill my parents because the guilt kills me and I know I’m getting life in prison once people find out. And I also occasionally have one where I’m a school shooter or just go on a killing spree in general.

I obviously don’t enjoy having nightmares like these and I would never do any of these things in real life and I don’t know why I keep having such violent nightmares when I don’t even consume violent content.

I asked ChatGPT and it said this is normal and don’t be worried but I asked real people and they told me I need help

In real life, I talk shit about basically everyone behind their backs. I don’t go out of my way to do it and I never initiate conversations like that, but if I’m around someone and they start shit talking someone I know, I’ll join in. I would never say anything bad to anyone’s face but no matter who it is if someone else brings them up I’ll contribute.

I think there is no issue with this as long as the person doesn’t know, because people can’t be hurt by something if they don’t know it’s happening. And I also just assume that people talk shit about me behind my back too, but it doesn’t affect me because I don’t know about it or what they’re saying.

I feel like being 'fake' isn’t a bad thing as long as you aren’t the one going out of your way to talk badly about other people. Just joining in when someone else brings it up is fine and doesn’t make you a bad person. It’s just like adapting to the conversation and as long as you aren’t a dick to anyone in person it’s fine.

I am sick of my 64GB storage on my iPad so I’m getting a new one. My 5th gen Air is in perfect condition and worth $220 trade in with Apple.

I can either buy a refurbished one which would be $369 with trade in.

Or I can buy a brand new one at which would be $529 with trade in.

This is the 11inch M3 Air. I was considering the basic iPad but apparently the display is trash so I don’t want to downgrade.

Which would you choose. Refurbished or new. I have heard that Apple refurbed is basically brand new so I’m leaning towards that because 370 bucks is really nothing.

Dude my account on the original is stacked I have a ton of pixel and drip stuff but can I gift from msp 1 to 2

My [20M] cousin [18?] is attending the same college as me this year and the same campus. It’s about an hour drive for me every morning depending on traffic, and my cousin who I will call Jack, lives en route so I pass his place every morning.

Jack doesn’t drive for some reason and I don’t even think he is in the process of learning to drive, so he would have to get the bus or get a ride from his parents.

This never even crossed my mind because I would never want to do this, but my mother came to me and told me that my aunt had asked her if I would be willing to give Jack a ride to college whatever days we’re both in. I said no, for multiple reasons , but the main one being that I like the drive there by myself where I can just listen to my music without anyone talking to me.

Me and Jack are both autistic and I’m not super close with him but I’m probably the closest cousin with him just because I can relate to him and we share struggles, but I feel like I’ve sort of been appointed as his buddy or something when in reality I would never want to do this.

My mother told me the right thing to do would be to say yes because they know I pass his house, there are no direct buses from where we live to the college, and she also made the point that my gas is paid for by her and my dad.

The bus thing is a good point but it’s not hard to figure out a bus connection, and if public transport is that hard, he can just learn how to drive and none of this would be a concern. I stood my ground and said no and now she’s pissed because she thinks it’s rude of me to refuse to do it.

TLDR I don’t want to give my cousin a ride to college

Dude the biggest mistake of my life was getting a 64GB iPad Air. I initially got it for school because I already had another iPad so I thought if I wasn’t using the Air outside of that then I wouldn’t need a ton of storage because I wasn’t planning on downloading apps like YouTube and stuff. But naturally I started using it as my daily iPad and I downloaded pretty much everything I said I wouldn’t. I severely underestimated how much storage random bullshit takes up and now im constantly having to offload apps and stuff. Why is 64gb even an option. I also didn’t know you couldn’t change the internal storage so I thought it was maybe possible to get more but no I need a whole new device to upgrade my storage. What a joke lol

I’m seeing a show and I want a seat in the dress circle but the price difference in one row behind the one I want is $13 less. I would prefer the one I originally want but I don’t know.

Preferred: $135
One row behind: $122