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How to decide whom to fall in love with?

Tldr: 18yo guy whos never truly fallen in love but wants to figure out what to actually look for in a girl without it feeling selfish or like a checklist. Questions if love is about mutual growth and liberation or just looks and bare minimums and why it cant be both. Ends by saying hed rather keep the questions than get unquestionable answers.

Sorry. Really sorry if this post made you question love and the reality behind it.

This is someone who hasn't fallen in love but many times in "love".

Kinda searching for love rn. Not seeking attention here. Wanna know from you about what should I look into a female when I date her? I sometimes get confused.

I often feel like searching something in someone emplies I am just being mean. Wasn't love something about helping each other grow, explore and scale in life?

Why do we always look for "good looks", hot figures, so called bare minimums..

I sometimes get confused about what to search in a female. Should I search for loyalty, that too again becomes something for me not for her, that becomes bondage but the real love should provide liberation that never comes with bondage, isn't it?

I don't know what to ask from you. I mean I want some kind of answer but the sad part is I myself do not know what the question is!

Teach me what love is, teach me what does it mean to explore to the fullest with caring much about yourself, her, society and everything

18 yr old guy questioning myself and the world I perceive!

I don't seek any kind of reply from you because I believe that it is always better to die with questions which cannot be answered rather than dying with answers which cannot be questioned.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 5 days ago

Need Guidance for BSc Physics (Math Minor) Semester 1 — Teachers & Resources

Hey Reader!

I have started my BSc Physics with minor mathematics from a central university. I feel like the teachers here aren't very great explainers. Also, Physics and Mathematics have very vastness as compared to high school physics and maths.

So plz help me by giving suggestions about resources and studies.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 23 days ago
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Need Guidance for BSc Physics (Math Minor) Semester 1 — Teachers & Resources

Hey Reader!

I have started my BSc Physics with minor mathematics from a central university. I feel like the teachers here aren't very great explainers. Also, Physics and Mathematics have very vastness as compared to high school physics and maths.

So plz help me by giving suggestions about resources and studies.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 23 days ago

Somebody give me suggestion to manage university, self studies and Gym

I am in 1st year of my UG. I am under a partial drop and I need to study minimum 3 hrs everyday for that exam. My college schedule is roughly 9-4. How do I manage college, studies and Gym?

I feel like going to the gym isn't optional because I have been a skinny kid throughout my life. But I cannot tolerate it more. Additionally, I eat in the lunch and dinner in mess. So if somebody could help me with the diet plan than I will really be greatful for it.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 1 month ago
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Somebody give me suggestion to manage university, self studies and Gym

I am in 1st year of my UG. I am under a partial drop and I need to study minimum 3 hrs everyday for that exam. My college schedule is roughly 9-4. How do I manage college, studies and Gym?

I feel like going to the gym isn't optional because I have been a skinny kid throughout my life. But I cannot tolerate it more. Additionally, I eat in the lunch and dinner in mess. So if somebody could help me with the diet plan than I will really be greatful for it.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 1 month ago

How realistic is it to go from SAT score of 1000 to 1500 within 7 months?

How realistic is it to go from SAT score of 1000 to 1500 within 7 months if I dedicate around 2-3 hours per day to it in a disciplined manner?

What are the dos and don'ts????

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 1 month ago
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Came to study at BHU but disappointed due to the situation of Varanasi

So I came here to get admitted into BHU. The moment I arrived to Varanasi, I started questioning my decision. I belong to a place this is very peaceful and people are very civilized. But when I look at the people of Varanasi, sorry to say that but most of them are quite uncivilized. They spit randomly, honk due to no reason, have no sweet way of talking.

I am unable to figure out whether I am missing my home or Varanasi really sucks. I imagined that it might be very peaceful as shown in insta reels not exactly but somehow still the same. But I am getting disappointed though it's my first day here. I have been inside BHU, it's little better but just comparatively.

The biggest problem with I found is this city is full of garbage. Random packs of garbage are thrown anywhere around the city.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 1 month ago

Flat vs PG, which is better?

My situation is like this:-

  1. I want to study insanely as I have taken a partial drop so I want proper study environment and sufficient time for it.

  2. I also want to manage my gym with it so I need to take care of my diet which must necessarily be of my choice.

So in this case which is better? Also is there any option where I can stay in a flat and eat in some mess in which I can choose the food by myself?

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 1 month ago

Suggestions for buying this 2nd hand phone

So I am getting this 2nd hand phone used for 1 year. The battery life is well. The price is around 27k. The variant is 12GB+512GB. Should i buy it or look for other options? This is my first time buying 2nd hand phones so please drop your suggestions. Also, if you suggest to buy a new phone then please recommend some under 25k(The phone will be used by my dad only for calling and social media)

Also, what are the things which I must make sure before paying for 2nd hand phones like what-what to check

u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 1 month ago

Looking for partner for KTM to BRT flight

Is there someone travelling from Kathmandu to Biratnagar tomorrow by flight?

If yes then let's connect and share each other's company. (I am 18M btw,just to mention)

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 1 month ago

Is there any kind of charging facility in the bus of Biratnagar to Kathmandu?

I wanted to know whether I can charge my phone and other electronic stuffs during my journey. I am going tonight by the bus. The battery of my phone sucks so I have two options:-

  1. Buy a power bank(feri aaja sanibar bajar banda)

  2. Charge the phone in the bus but unsure about whether this facility is available in the bus or not.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/BHU

Confused between flat and PG

I am confused between these two options. My situation is like this let me explain.

So I am under a partial drop preparing for some kind of exam which requires 2-3 hrs of study besides my university studies. I also want to go to the gym and workout and hence diet becomes significant.

Should I stay in a PG or search for a flat?

. I want proper diet but no time to prepare. Or are there any kind of options in which I can choose which food to select for that particular day like mess types by staying in independent flat...

(Btw I will be studying BSc)

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago

Better to read the body than to judge based on the title

Hey reader, 18M here. I have recently completed my high school ( I was pursuing Science course in my hs). I am looking for a female friend to have talk with. No shit talks, no sexting, just genuine connection. Personally, I have never been in a serious relationship till date. It is bcz I have always felt that wasting energy in non serious relationships is totally waste of time and effort. I am very focused kid with clear ambitions about my life. I am willing to find a female buddy who is equally ambitious and also clear about her life.

I am not trying to find a "gf" for myself. Just wanna connect with some females and exchange some talks. I am lil bored with the company of boys(tbh 😂).

So, it's ok if you prefer to stay anonymous, even I prefer it too.

I repeat, I am trying to connect with someone with whom I can grow myself and can also help her grow in multiple aspects of life.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago
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If anyone from BS Physics program (probably 3rd or 4th year) is willing to guide me, please comment

Same as above. Are you have some queries related to the career aspects and have to take some decisions as a dropper. So if you are from physics background then I kindly request you to dm me or comment down and answer some of my queries

Thanks for reading btw. (Upvote if you can)

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago
▲ 21 r/IISc

Can someone tell me every kind of scholarship I can get as a BS student at IISc?

Same as titled.
The fees of IISc along with accomodation charges and mess charges are quite expensive for me. Therefore, I am asking this.

(if u cant't help, i request u to upvote the post)

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago

Physics Career Sucks

Not any kind of ragebaiting.

The career in physics literally sucks as compared to other careers like computer science and other engineering.

Think yourself, colleges like IIT or even NITs offer you very good packages like even of 20 LPA in average only after a bachelors degree. But if we take the same scenario in physics then it takes a PhD which is (5-7 years after bachelors) to earn the same amount of money. I know there are other factors which are responsible for this difference in salary and income but think of a middle class who is passionate about Physics but cannot do it as a majors just because CS pays him well. I am in the similar kind of scenario. I am getting a good rankrd NIT and will get a good package after 4 years of study. And the other hand what after 4 years of Bsc physics from similar level institutes (say DU). You get nothing. Even after doing MSc from top institute of India like IISc, you don't get good salary because there are no industry related jobs just after MSc.

Physics is cooked and physicist too...

I guess it's unlucky to fall love with physics but not being able to continue it just because of money hurts even more.

Correct me if I am wrong(maybe in the rudest way possible). But I know you can't because the point proposed by me is 100% valid.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago
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International Student studying in IISER K or Pune

Hi everyone.

If you are an international student studying in IISER Kolkata or Pune, please provide me some help.

I am an international student willing to study there. So I wanted to know the procedure for admissions and other things.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago

International Student studying in IISER K or Pune

Hi everyone.

If you are an international student studying in IISER Kolkata or Pune, please provide me some help.

I am an international student willing to study there. So I wanted to know the procedure for admissions and other things.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago
▲ 6 r/iiser

International Student studying in IISER K or Pune

Hi everyone.

If you are an international student studying in IISER Kolkata or Pune, please provide me some help.

I am an international student willing to study there. So I wanted to know the procedure for admissions and other things.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago

International Student studying in IISER K or Pune

Hi everyone.

If you are an international student studying in IISER Kolkata or Pune, please provide me some help.

I am an international student willing to study there. So I wanted to know the procedure for admissions and other things.

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u/Dangerous-Cat7707 — 2 months ago