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I decided to clean up my act. I want to be viewed as ladylike and proper. For my own sake. I also want to attract more gentlemen. I cleaned up my act by:

Learning to be happy without male attention

Not having a lot of casual sex

Taking better care of appearence

Reading about ettiquette

I even wrote a big list of social etiquette no no's.

What I meant by ladylike:

Doesn't sleep around

Is selective with partners

Elegant

Classy

Not obsessed with male attention

Doesn't post bikini or nude pics

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I vented about how I was pissed that my manager almost wrote me up. Multiple people said I can control how I feel wtf. I said "Would you be able to control how you feel if someone threw acid at your face? No, of course not.", and "How can control how you feel? If I spill boiling hot water on you, are you going to choose to be pissed or indifferent? Feelings aren't a choice. "

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I'm 22F and have some bad habits, like:

Licking my fingers after eaching chips or something saucy

Being late often

Licking my lips when dry

Cracking my back and knuckles in public

Not being discreet when I fix my bra, pants, or shirt

Interrupting people

Asking personal questions or not talking about appropriate things

Not controlling my tone of voice when annoyed sometimes

I want to be classy and proper

For me, it's:

Licking my fingers after eating

Slouching

Interrupting

Talking too fast

Asking personal questions

Not fixing my pants discreetly enough

Goofing off

Seriously, we are adults here. If you don't like something private I told others, mind your goddamn business. I got in trouble because someone either overheard what I said or got offended by what I said. The store managers are also supposed to tattle on employees for stupid things. A manager tattled on me for being "rude" to a customer to the general manager. I wasn't even rude. All I told the customer was "I don't have that product, go to paint department". I wonder why that wuss who tattled on me for asking personal questions (when we were friends) couldn't just tell me he was uncomfortable? I have Asperger's, I don't always know what is appropriate between friends.

He also said I wasn't doing my job and that one of my co workers did my job. I swear i was stocking shelves and cleaning. I'm also neurodivergent so I forget things unintentionally.

He also said I wasn't doing my job and that one of my co workers did my job. I swear I was stocking shelves and cleaning shelves like I was supposed to. I wasn't trying to be lazy. I'm neurodivergent and sometimes forget things. We still had the customer's info. It was just not on an order sheet. I'm in charge of the biggest part of the store, the cleaning aisle and displays. I order and recommend cleaning products. Am I wrong? Did he overreact? I think he did.

He also said I wasn't doing my job and that one of my co workers did my job. I swear I was stocking shelves and cleaning shelves like I was supposed to. I wasn't trying to be lazy. I'm neurodivergent and sometimes forget things. We still had the customer's info. It was just not on an order sheet. I'm in charge of the biggest part of the store, the cleaning aisle and displays. I order and recommend cleaning products.

I met this guy on Fet and he hasn't met me yet because of financial issues with his elderly parents. He gets panic attacks if he takes pics of himself. The picture of him he showed me was 17 yrs old (I image searched it). The photo looked oddly specific because it was from Fubar and Vampire freaks.com. i suspected it was a catfish but it seems more like an old pic of him. He said he'd visit me at work soon but couldn't today because his car got totaled.

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I work in retail and we are known for coddling the customers (we are supposed to). A man asked me for help finding an item. I said we didn't have it in my department, he then said he got it here and I said "go to paint department". He then said I wasn't polite or helpful, then told one of the store managers and then told my general manager. I got in trouble. He said he's been a customer for years and said he's never been spoken to that way, he said I was short with him.

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This morning, he said:

Hey, I think I need a couple more weeks to figure things out. I don't know if I can mentally keep up with you right now and I need to focus on a lot of work and personal things, mostly financial, for the next couple of months.

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We have been apart for over a month while he was on vacation and he barely texted me on vacation because of bad internet. I'm worried he's done with me. He was in a different country for over a month. He would go days or over a week without texting me.

I have Asperger's, my middle brother is more autistic than I am, and my youngest brother has down syndrome and profoundly disabled (mostly non verbal). I'm wondering who would be responsible for funeral arrangements and figuring out what to do with my parents/parent if they die in the middle of the night.

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I had a nurse give me a hard time for struggling with the breathing test. In a condescending tone, she was like "I don't understand why you can't do it again". Bitch shit up, you don't have asthma. How can you expect an asthmatic to do well on a breathing test?

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