I’ve always been attracted to feminine men. I recently developed feelings for my coworker, who listens to mostly female music, is feminine presenting, and grew up with a mostly female influence.
But he swears he’s straight…… Am I just projecting gender roles onto him? or is there a chance he’s just DL?
Also, can you grow glutes while also trying to lose body fat/weight?
Or is my delusion just that bad? I also like to check r/crushes 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
what do i do? i’ve been so good but today i relapsed. probably from doing a really hard exercise and then not eating enough/ not letting myself have ONE BITE of my sisters hot dog.
there’s no way i lost all my progress, right? i should just stay consistent?
i’m taking my driving test at the el cerrito dmv and i have a few questions.
how many possible routes are there? i found two on youtube.
do they make you do a 3-point turn?
are there any instructors who are notorious for failing students unfairly?
anything else i should be aware of?
thank you guys :)
my bernese mountain dog (8 years old) has been through quite a lot. most recently, her groomer has noticed some yellow spots(?) or patches (?) or tints near her rear end. is it a liver or kidney problem, or a fungal infection?
she is on steroids because she has a neurological spinal condition that makes the possibility of her having a fungal infection much more likely.
prior to this, we had a facial swelling incident that i also posted on this thread a few weeks back, which resolved itself with time and antibiotic treatment. she also has a hotspot near her rear paw, which she decided to chew off so the vet says it will take forever to heal.
If you and a guy hold eye contact while talking, he looks at you when you don’t look at him, and when you aren’t talking and you just lock eyes in silence and he looks back for a second but then looks away, does that signal disinterest or nervousness?
my dog (bernese mountain dog, 100 pounds, almost 8 years old) woke up the morning after we took her to the beach (which we don’t normally do) with a swollen left side of her face. we took her to the vet and he gave her benadryl, but the benadryl only sort of stopped the swelling. the next day the swelling was back and we called the vet who told us to get antibiotics. she’s on antibiotics now and although it hasn’t been 24 hours, i’m really worried. her swelling is persistent and it’s near her eye and nose airway. i know i’m supposed to wait and be patient, and she doesn’t seem in distress, but i just have this horrible feeling.
we took her to the beach two days ago, something we don’t normally do, and when we returned the next morning i noticed some swelling. we went to our vet who gave her some meds to see if it was an allergic reaction but her swelling only went down somewhat and temporarily. the next day they said we should call them if it hasn’t been resolved, so we did, but they just told us to get antibiotics. her swelling seems to be getting worse but it hasn’t been 24 hours yet. i’m extremely worried it’s a tumor or cancerous. i think the most possible conclusion is that she needs to have a tooth removed.
thank you all so much for your help. to answer a few common questions:
she did not go into the water. she’s old and we kept her on leash the entire time. the likelihood of her being stung at the beach are pretty low.
we trust her vet, he’s known her for quite some time. i do believe if it was an emergency he would reach out.
the antibiotics take 24 hours to work and it has not been 24 hours yet.
Okay this is going to sound convoluted, but I have consistently been told I have a super pretty face but not the best body build.
I used to be super overweight and I would get stared at a LOT. I had the opposite of body dysmorphia and was delusional because I thought that they were attracted to me.
Now after losing 60 pounds I still get stared at all the time. Today as I was working out this dude stared at me as I walked in and followed me as I went to my area. I’m convinced it’s because he is making fun of me.
I’m writing this because I saw a post saying if people stare at you all the time you are either super attractive or super unattractive and I really feel like it’s the ladder.
How do I tell between signs of attraction and signs of disgust?
For more context,
I have trauma from past relationships and I find myself circulating my life around an individual for dopamine and feeling absolutely devastated if they don’t reciprocate.
I will do anything to have a semi normal build. I just really want to loose stomach fat and gain glutes.
TONIGHT AT 7 PM TICKET COST 30 DOLLARS
The craziest part about limerance, the part that makes me feel like i’m under a spell, is the fact that the delusion doesn’t match with reality.
I have several personal examples of this, but the most recent one was for a friend. I became limerant over him when he wasn’t around, but everytime I actually hung out with him, the delusion shattered, and I thought to myself: Holy shit. I don’t even like you. I like the idea of you.
Another great example is that lady Kendra who went viral for experiencing limerance for her psychiatrist.
College is basically just exposure therapy for me. I go to college in the Midwest and I’ve never experienced winter before because I’m from California.
My mental health is so good when I’m home but at college it quickly deteriorates. But I only have two years, so I figure I gotta just tough this shit out.
I FUCKED UP AND I AM IN LOVE WITH YOU AND ITS TOO LATE I THINK AND I DONT KNOW WHAT THE FUCK TO DO
YOU FOUND SOMEONE ELSE HOW WILL I GET PAST THIS GUTWRENCHING FEELING GENUINELY
I SHOULD HAVE REALIZED SOONER I AM A COMPLETE FUCKING IDIOT PLEASEEEE GIVE ME ONE CHANCE PLEASE
What do I do
Me and my male friend (both 25) are pretty close. I have unfortunately developed feelings for him these past four months.
He has said he views us as being “long term” and has said we are very compatible. Are these possible signs he could be interested in something more, or is he just referring to our friendship?
For more context, we met in college in Austin and stayed close. We also both remained in Austin post-grad.
We get along super well, he puts a lot of effort into doing favors for me and not others.
We are both single.
Please help a girl out! 😂
I was in love with my best friend and would send her paragraphs about how much I loved her.
Slowly, those paragraphs turned into reassurance seeking behavior as I felt like she didn’t like me as much as I liked her. (Yeah, no shit!)
I would spam her like multiple paragraphs a day, she was always very sweet in her replies, but it definitely made her uncomfortable.
It caused her stress and she ultimately had to end the friendship entirely, which is completely fair. I was acting like a lunatic ex.
Before I became limerant for her, we had a steady, healthy and fun friendship. But I slowly started to spiral, getting jealous if she hung out with others, wanting to text and call her all the time, etc.