Need to replace driver seat, what years are compatible?

I was recently in a car accident and my driver seat moved all the way back when i got hit. Apparently its not supposed to do that! My local mechanic says its best to just replace the whole seat, not sure where to even start. Local pick n pulls don't have a 2013 camry so wondering if other years have the same seat? Is it even safe for me to replace the seat?

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u/leo_on_fire — 1 day ago

Birth control recommendations

Hello! Ive only been on 2 pi birth controls before, Altavera and im not sure the name of the other but it was 21 days on/7 days off. I now need to order birth control online and they dont have Altavera. I have painful cramps and it has helped with that so im really just looking for brands that have helped others with cramps :)

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u/leo_on_fire — 7 days ago
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Any suggestions for replacements of hands under head/pillow while sleeping?

Hello! Im in the beginning stages of arthritis at 24🤪 i cannot sleep without having my hands under my head or up under my pillow. Im wondering if anyone knows of a stiff pillow or something i can use to replace the feeling on my head? I know sleeping with hands is common with those with ADHD so im asking here aswell as in arthritis sub

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u/leo_on_fire — 8 days ago

Is it normal to pee 4 times in 5 hours after drinking 8oz of sweet tea?

Hello! I dont think I am well hydrated so I'm not sure this is overhydration. I barely drink a 16oz bottle of water a day and im 125lbs. Some days its the daily limit, some days its just one bottle but i dont drink soda or anything else besides water and hot sweet tea i make at work.but after i drink it i have to go SO bad and have a full bladder.

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u/leo_on_fire — 10 days ago

New fun annoying quirk

I pay 9.99 a month for onedrive/microsoft 365 personal. Even though i pay for 1tb of cloud storage AND get the desktop versions of excel and powerpoint I have been getting CONSTANT pop ups about "upgrading from free". Support says that just happens. I figured one perk of paying $10 to the corporation would mean i also no longer have to deal with the pop ups and ads but i guess already paying isn't enough for them. Maybe they know im moving off their platform.

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u/leo_on_fire — 12 days ago

Looking for easily organized photo storage!

Hello!! My onedrive is ALL messed up and will take so much time to fix and i want to cancel it ASAP... i have 30k photos on it and they make it impossible to sort/organize/easily delete. I have google photos as ONE backup and i will be getting a hard drive or two eventually but im broke. Ive heard not great things about amazon photos organization system but if you have any photo storage sites/apps pleas let me know!!

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u/leo_on_fire — 12 days ago

Public washers made sheets smell like mothballs!!! Advice?

First, i have to use public washers, theres not other option for me to do my laundry. What products should i use or method to get this smell out ASAP?? I am allergic to mothballs and anything with the scent makes my skin irritated and my eyes puffy. I have a yard i can hang them up in but its supposed to rain for 2 days.

They are colored sheets so bleach is not an option, i have spares to use in the meantime! Thank you tons!!

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u/leo_on_fire — 17 days ago

Getting specific brand birth control with no annual doctors appointment

Hello! I take Altavera and its working wonderfully for me, id prefer to continue this brand but i dont have insurance. I dont mind the cost that the pills have been so far but my doctor stopped letting me refill from an appointment from 2 years ago. I have an appointment set up at PP but its $100 just to get prescribed and then i still have to pay for the birth control! They said i have to come back every year. Is there ANY cheaper option for just the prescription? I dont care about the raw cost of the birth control, just the un necessary $100. Thank you so much 💕

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u/leo_on_fire — 17 days ago

Virgin with women, advice?

Hello!im a woman, Ive only been with men but ive almost always been attracted to women but never really thought about it. I REALLY realized it just a year ago (im 25) and i would like to go on dates and possibly be intimate with a woman. Ive never even kissed a girl but i am feeling overwhelming desire to be with a woman lately in the way i used to feel about attractive men. And now men are less attractive to me? I almost feel like im too old to be with a girl considering i have no experience, i dont want to be a burden for them to teach.

Ive always been extremely confident with men but im starting to think that is just because they come a dime a dozen, but i have yet to even find a woman that im attracted to that is attracted to me aswell. I havent tried dating sites with just women as my potential matches. Daring apps tend to be not good at all for anyone looking for men so i wasn't sure if it would be the same for women looking for women? This is all jumbled and probably hard to read but if you have any questions ill answer!!

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u/leo_on_fire — 20 days ago

Might be 5 months pregnant

I am so distraught. I have been intervaginally celibate for 2 years but in mid December me and a date had intimacy for the first time where we just grinded naked with a condom and intercourse didnt workout because i was stressed. Ive been on the pill birth control the whole time, always on time. Ive had my period and no weight gain,protruding belly or pregnancy symptoms but i have an EXTREME fear of pregnancy, thats why i havent been able to have sex in 2 years, so i took a test today and it was an immediate dark line. I have an ultrasound appointment for a week from now, couldn't get one sooner.

I live in Kansas and one place said it has a 27 week cutoff, but i might have to fly to Colorado. I would have to fly out my friend or my grandma but im so worried about disappointing my grandma after she supported me through a 5 week medicational abortion in may of 2024. Ive had false positives before but this one just feels real. I live alone and im so torn up i cant do anything besides the bare minimum at work. I would love some words of encouragement and maybe similar stories to relate to about cryptic/hidden pregnancies.

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u/leo_on_fire — 23 days ago

Will transferring my photos slow down my new phone?

Hello! I just upgraded to an S24+ 512GB from an A53 128GB phone and i have about 15GB of photos on my old phone id like to transfer. I use a ton of them often and i still have them backed up but its easier to access through my in-phone gallery. My old phone was so incredibly slow that i had no choice but to upgrade and the s24+ has a snapdragon processor so I figure it will be fine but just looking for some opinions! Thank youu

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u/leo_on_fire — 27 days ago
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AITAH for not moving my cart everytime

Hello! I work in a bank processing area with about 15 other women. We each have a small about 1wx3L ft cart and a bigger 3wx5l ft cart on each side of us and we are at computer stations in rows. We dont have a ton of room behind us and if 2 people are at opposite desks, backs to eachother, the big carts basically touch. They are all rolling carts but some are difficult to steer or when they are filled with stuff, quite heavy.

I was recently put at a station where im the only one on the right side row and theres 4 people behind me so im touching carts with one person at the very end.

Theres an entitled lady that insists she HAS to push her cart through in my direction even though theres plenty of space the other way with nobody blocking her in. The lady behind me refuses to move her carts at all and doesn't get yelled at by entitled lady but if I refuse, i get yelled at by her and nobody cares or defends me. This scenario plays out several times every single day. I generally have no trouble moving especially when i have little to no work on my cart or if im already moving them.

Management is trying to cut down on wasted time/phones/talking/distractions and i have to completely stop my work and take a few minutes to move everything for entitled lady to get through. I brought it casually up to Management today and they said "its a courtesy, just do it, i guess ill have a talk with her" sounding extremely exasperated and upset with me.

AITAH for trying to stand up and not wanting to move sometimes?

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u/leo_on_fire — 28 days ago

S24+ back gesture issue

Hello! I just upgraded to an s24+ from an A53 and i was really used to the 3 bars at the bottom of the screen that you swipe up to look at open apps, go home, and go back. Now i cant find anything except the ugly buttons OR the gestures that i have to swipe all over my screen to look at all apps and anytime i even touch the right side of my screen by accident it goes back. This is very frustrating when things im working on gets erased. Anyone know if theres a 3rd option or im just SOL

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u/leo_on_fire — 29 days ago

My grandpa is peeing all over grandmas house

Hello! I want to preface this with 2 things: 1.) I barely know my GPA as he has loved across the country my whole life. 2.) I do not know all the details of his day to day as my GMA lives 10 hours away! They are not together but she took him in to care for him

My grandma has a carpeted house with decent clutter around and my grandpa has apparently been getting up in the middle of the night and peeing in the hallway several times in different spots. She refuses to believe he has gotten so bad and thinks he knows what he is doing. He wont wear diapers and will immediately pull them off.

He also recently started the pervert stage (hes always been a gross man) where he is pleasing himself and streaking around the house and outside. Thankfully my gma lives in the middle of nowhere with few neighbors. My grandma is so exhausted and i guess the veterans thing wont help until he is bedridden and my grandma cant afford to put him in a home.

This is a shot in the dark but if anyone has any recommendations,tips, helpful thoughts i would love them.

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u/leo_on_fire — 1 month ago
▲ 5 r/tax

I have no idea what to do or if i did something wrong (setting up tax payment plan)

Im 24 with little to no knowledge on tax depth, wasn't taught. I filed my taxes really late because i had trouble getting information but they were filed 4/13 so before deadline. I selected "irs payment plan" in turbo tax like i did last year and last year they sent me a letter after a couple weeks and i didnt have to do anything but enter the total owed. This year i thought the same thing, i logged into irs, nothing, no notifications and no physical mail.

I cannot pay the 2k i owe up front and now im wondering if they rejected me or something, and when am i going to start getting scary letters from the IRS because i owe so much money? Itll take several months to pay this off. Last year when making payments they were paid off fast and never late. Going to try calling today or tomorrow but im scared and confused

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u/leo_on_fire — 2 months ago
▲ 3 r/oneui

Galaxy A53 5g says System UI not responding often when using the camera

Hello! My phone is about 4 years old and it is SO slow it takes an entire minute to open apps, let alone USE them. Also when taking a picture it either will say "system UI not responding" and crash my phone or i have to stay still for 5 seconds and hope it decides to take a photo, it usually doesn't. Im looking for ways to gain more speed on my phone. Unfortunately ive deleted basically all the apps i can and the others i am forced to use because there is no web browser or what i need it for requires it.

I have 2 widgets, custom wallpaper, lockscreen and colored apps but no downloaded fonts or animated wallpaper.

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u/leo_on_fire — 2 months ago
▲ 108 r/redditonwiki+1 crossposts

Hi all. I met my girlfriend last October and when we started talking she said she worked at a club but not that she danced. I wasnt sure if this was one of the many dance clubs in town, or if she was a door girl or bartender at a strip club, but it didnt matter I really enjoyed spending time with her. I had my suspicions that she was a dancer but I didnt really care so I waited for her to tell me.

Anyways she's great, kind, funny, educated, and very beautiful. She really cares about me in a way I've never felt from a woman before. She's my little cheerleader and always fusses over my health both physical and mental. We have fun every single day, she loves to laugh and she's super weird in the best kind of way.

Now for the hangups I have. Ive always been a very wholesome man, I enjoy slow paced fun, I'm not a nightlife guy, I've never been promiscuous, and I dont do casual anything. Because I'm like this I've never gone to a club or even ever thought about it as an option for fun. Obviously I had my opinions on strippers but I never really thought about them much. She assured me that nothing she does could be considered cheating and she doesnt even take her bottoms off when shes there, she doesnt have to anything wild because she has a great personality and is extremely beautiful. She really changed my opinion of strippers and strip clubs, she likes to do pole tricks and has talked at length about the skill and craft that goes into it. So I am totally cool with her job and find it very interesting, and naturally now I want to go to clubs too since she said nothing about it is cheating and its just entertainment and a performance. However, when I bring this up to her she gets very upset and acts like im disgusting.

I'd prefer to go see her which I've only got to do once since we've been dating and I didnt get to stay long because I had a lot of responsibilities and couldnt afford to be out all night. She convinced me what she does is cool but she never wants to give me a dance at home or set up her old practice pole to show me or even put on sexy outfits for me. I understand that no one wants to do their work at home so I dont push the subject, so I said I could just go to a club myself. We've had the conversation a few times and she gets very upset and acts like I'm some kind of loser when I do. She started working at a new club and said its super cool inside and when I said I'd like to see it she said "whatever, I've just accepted that you're a strip club goer" even though I'm not and have only been once WITH her.

I just dont understand how when a man doesnt want to date a stripper they call him "insecure" but when a secure man doesnt mind dating a stripper she acts all weird and insecure about me going. I know shes not doing extras or cheating on me but she says she's afraid other girls will try to do inappropriate things with me, but that would never happen. I dont like being touched and ive never cheated or even thought about cheating in any of my relationships. I would prefer to go to a club with her since I dont like nightlife activities and would feel more comfortable if she came with me but shes not open to that either. But then she also doesnt want to dance for me at home. I even suggested we could go to a male strip club even though im not gay if it made her more comfortable.

I made a post about this before and people kept acting like I was a jealous maniac and I just don't understand it. I used to play music professionally (classical) and she'll ask me to learn peices for her and that takes many hours but I do it for her even if I dont want to because it makes her happy but she cant take 15 minutes to show me her skill?

I really want this relationship to work out and this isn't an all-consuming problem in my life so I could still be 90% happy even if we never move past this. I'd really like to be able to move past it thought because I want to be fully happy with her and not ever feel resentful.

I've met some of her coworkers that she's friends with and they all complain about guys who say "you cant strip if we date" and the girls always call these guys insecure but basically all of them dont want their boyfriends going to clube. Honestly, it's starting to make me a little bitter towards women and feel like they are more insecure than men we just give them a pass for it, and I really dont like feeling that way.

I should also add that she doesnt want to strip anymore. She doesnt hate it but she's also not promiscuous and doesnt enjoy nightlife activities. She's actually almost completely sober and likes fishing, hiking, going to the gym etc... but she's just been continuing to do it until she can find another job

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u/leo_on_fire — 2 months ago