u/smelly_cat2959

I feel very sad because I am going through a few things at the same time.

I dated this guy for a while and told him I want to wait until marriage. he's an atheist, so he doesn't understand my pov. but the thing is I pushed him away a few times because I could feel he didnt like this, but he wanted to stay and see if he could do it. he then decided he didn't want to but basically he molested me, I won't go into any detail.

the second thing is I just discovered someone else, unrelated to this person, is making fun of me with people I barely know about me wanting to wait until marriage (I don't even how he knows this) and about me being Christian.

I feel very sad and defeated. I know Jesus is with me. I just feel sad.

I feel very sad because I am going through a few things at the same time.

I dated this guy for a while and told him I want to wait until marriage. he's an atheist, so he doesn't understand my pov. but the thing is I pushed him away a few times because I could feel he didnt like this, but he wanted to stay and see if he could do it. he then decided he didn't want to but basically he molested me, I won't go into any detail.

the second thing is I just discovered someone else, unrelated to this person, is making fun of me with people I barely know about me wanting to wait until marriage (I don't even how he knows this) and about me being Christian.

I feel very sad and defeated. I know Jesus is with me. I just feel sad.

I feel very sad because I am going through a few things at the same time.

I dated this guy for a while and told him I want to wait until marriage. he's an atheist, so he doesn't understand my pov. but the thing is I pushed him away a few times because I could feel he didnt like this, but he wanted to stay and see if he could do it. he then decided he didn't want to but basically he molested me, I won't go into any detail.

the second thing is I just discovered someone else, unrelated to this person, is making fun of me with people I barely know about me wanting to wait until marriage (I don't even how he knows this) and about me being Christian.

I feel very sad and defeated. I know Jesus is with me. I just feel sad.

I need prayers and someone to talk to please

I feel very sad because I am going through a few things at the same time.

I dated this guy for a while and told him I want to wait until marriage. he's an atheist, so he doesn't understand my pov. but the thing is I pushed him away a few times because I could feel he didnt like this, but he wanted to stay and see if he could do it. he then decided he didn't want to but basically he molested me, I won't go into any detail.

the second thing is I just discovered someone else, unrelated to this person, is making fun of me with people I barely know about me wanting to wait until marriage (I don't even how he knows this) and about me being Christian.

I feel very sad and defeated. I know Jesus is with me. I just feel sad.

I (F26) have been dating thing guy (M26) for a few weeks. he knows I'm very Catholic while he's an atheist. basically he asked me if I wanted to wait until marriage and I said so, I also told him I expect to end up alone because of this. he said he's fine and to see where it goes even though he said he feels like he can't wait. he said he likes me and want to date me, cause other things are more important and he does really like me and he is interested in me. he wants to create memories with me, he said and wants to get to know me well. he told me if I get paranoid when we are not close, I can always text him

I pushed him away many times during this conversation telling him he could actually leave if he thought he couldn't take it but he said he wants to keep dating me. he also appreciated the many things I can do in general (and for him) and wants to """""""pay me back"""""""" doing things that could help me in exchange: foe example he loves my dishes and the fact and can cook and give great massages. he wants to do things to ""give""" me. idk what to do...

what do you think? should I keep going?

I (F26) have been dating thing guy (M26) for a few weeks. he knows I'm very Catholic while he's an atheist. basically he asked me if I wanted to wait until marriage and I said so, I also told him I expect to end up alone because of this. he said he's fine and to see where it goes even though he said he feels like he can't wait. he said he likes me and want to date me, cause other things are more important and he does really like me and he is interested in me. he wants to create memories with me, he said and wants to get to know me well. he told me if I get paranoid when we are not close, I can always text him

I pushed him away many times during this conversation telling him he could actually leave if he thought he couldn't take it but he said he wants to keep dating me. he also appreciated the many things I can do in general (and for him) and wants to """""""pay me back"""""""" doing things that could help me in exchange: foe example he loves my dishes and the fact and can cook and give great massages. he wants to do things to ""give""" me. idk what to do...

what do you think? should I keep going?

please be supportive or dont say anything at all. I'm at my last straw and I need advice.

I F26 know this girl who was my "friend" F23. she is the most narcissistic, self-obsessed and opportunistic person I've ever met. i was warned about her by many people.

she doesnt care about your life as long as you're available to give her company to go to the places SHE wants so she can just LOOK at the guy she likes hoping he would text her.

so cringe and teenage-like. oof.

I've never always given into her selfish demands and started to hang out only when I also wanted to leave the house.

she has a kid but her dad is raising him for her basically. she likes to say she is a mom but she also feels judged because she is 23 and had the baby and 19 and was abandoned. that is not her fault of course. but she does feel judged by everyone all the time.

thing is, she uses the kid to have the upperhand while she literally does nothing with the baby. his grandparents do all the work and her dad acts like her own personal chauffer because the little princess can't be bothered to take the bus to her own uni classes.

back to the point, a friend of her broke up with her bf and started hanging out all the time with her. so she basically was making plans with her and not involving me expect if i was asking on the groupchat about the plan for the night.

once, she got me into a very bad situation where at some point i reacted and my reaction was seen as me being at fault rather than the situation being overwhelming for me.

(my reaction was just going to the guy in question and asking for clarification about some stuff that happened but he reacted violently towards everybody.)

that same night she kicked me out of the car and ghosted me.

just know she's VERY MEAN and EVIL. all the people who had to put up with her in the past warned me when they knew i was hanging out with her at the beginning. she insulted MY OWN friend group cause ALL OF US wanted to choose an activity for New Year's Eve and she was the only one who didnt.

weeks went by, i had uni exams and then I went on holiday.

her best friend watched all my stories quickly, after the holiday she unfollwed me and i unfollwed both of them (my rule is to not have random people on my profile because I share a lot and so I only wanted trusted people to see what I do. she knows this).

I went on another holiday with my best friend whom she knows, we used to hang out together, and then other people too.

she might have see stories from his profile because they still follow each other.

she left the groupchat last week and my best friend texted her yesterday asking why. she said we didn't include her in stuff?!?!?!!?!!!, that I removed her from ig and that she felt as a burden. (so you feel excluded but what about when she excluded me? also we didn't exclude her from anything because the holiday was at a friend's house who hosted us and who doesn't know her btw lol so she was reaching).

my best friend fell for the bait cause she told him she has no bad blood lol he said "would you be okay if we call her again?".

he knows everything, he knows she left me home since her friend broke up with the bf for 2 months and I would call him crying. but I don't feel understood by him

what do you think of all this?

i want to pray for E, F and M.

please pray they get many blessings from our Lord Jesus Christ, that they find Him soon and for me to be able to become an instrument for God to get to them, if He wants to. I know He doesnt need me, but maybe my friendship might turn useful in some ways.

pray for their deliverance from any type of bad spirit or legion, for protection and for cleansing.

please pray they finally find the peace inside their hearts that comes from Jesus, the only one that matters, that they don't give up in front of adversities.

pray that M finds the job he needs after years of suffering, pray that E finds himself and starts believing in his strength and please pray that F finds peace with the people around him and his job.

pray for blessings and for the Holy Spirit to open the eyes of their hearts for them to see the signs that God is with them.

thank you so much for helping

God bless you

I F26 made friends with a girl F23. we knew each other through people in common but we started hanging out just recently. she once opened up to me about a guy whom she has been on and off with ofr 5 years and he manipulated her every chance he got. i listened to her and comforted her cause she was clearly still in love. then i felt it was necessary to warn her about the fact that he also reached out to me a few times during that 5 years period they were dating and we also had a thing (ofc i didnt know they had a thing), because I wanted her to know everything especially because we were friends. she took it really badly (with him) and thanked me for warning her.

but after that I never heard from her again. why?

I F26 made friends with a girl F23. we knew each other through people in common but we started hanging out just recently. she once opened up to me about a guy whom she has been on and off with ofr 5 years and he manipulated her every chance he got. i listened to her and comforted her cause she was clearly still in love. then i felt it was necessary to warn her about the fact that he also reached out to me a few times during that 5 years period they were dating and we also had a thing (ofc i didnt know about them), because I wanted her to know everything especially because we were friends. she took it really badly (with him) and thanked me for warning her.

but after that I never heard from her again. why?

I F26 made friends with a girl F23. we knew each other through people in common but we started hanging out just recently. she once opened up to me about a guy whom she has been on and off with ofr 5 years and he manipulated her every chance he got. i listened to her and comforted her cause she was clearly still in love. then i felt it was necessary to warn her about the fact that he also reached out to me a few times during that 5 years period they were dating and we also had a thing (ofc i didnt know they had a thing), because I wanted her to know everything especially because we were friends. she took it really badly (with him) and thanked me for warning her.

but after that I never heard from her again. why?

I F26 have a friend group. in this group there's a guy M26 whom I grew up with (same as the others) but we are very attracted to each other. we finally found each other single this summer. I visited him in his city as friends with no declared intentions by the both of us. just friends hanging out. I actually went there cause he needed help with something but the rest of the time we hung out. anyway, I could feel the sexual tension between us and je was being so kind and attentive. he brought me places he knew I would like and I think we kinda acted like a couple the whole time.

we have a best friend in common, her job is the hardest cause I know she hears both of our sides and doesn't want to be in the middle too much. anyway she told me just enough, which is he had a great time with me and that he was considering something serious.

we then went on holiday all together. it was 6 people total. there was another girl flirting with him very clearly and all the time, I was trying to be more subtle when other people were not around but it was always him initiating with me, while he always turned down her advances, especially in front of me.

he remembered I drink coffee with no lactose, he went to get croissants for everybody and only coffee for me (the coffee for everybody could be made at home with cow milk). I could have drank just coffee but he got me a soy cappuccino.

now, imagine this time of behaviour for a whole week everyday.

it was obvious he liked me and he invited me to a concert just me and him in two weeks. I said yes.

it's been days since the holiday ended and he texted me right away the day after. today, he didn't. I was not that worried.

but my bsf told me he basically changed his mind due to something happening which she couldn't tell me (I understand this and I appreciate her not betraying his trust) but my guess is that his recent ex texted him again which is something she does. he always says he's not gonna give her attention anymore but, well, that is my guess. he changed his mind in 24h? apparently he still likes me and this is all hearsay cause the only conversation I had with him today was him telling me he couldn't make it to the concert anymore. I only said "okay no worries" and didn't ask further.

I feel very sad tbh and I don't know if I should have done anything differently. what do you think?

everytime I don't use it for like two days, I have to log back in

I've travelled these past few days visiting a friend in his town. I got my period there and got back home yesterday. between us not resting one second and my period I feel soooooo tired and without focus. give me tips to not feel depressed and bored please

water is coming out what do I dooooo

i need prayer for protection. we are gonna be on the road and i have trauma related to cars and accidents. pray for a safe and no problem road trip. God bless you all. thank you

I've (F26) been travelling a lot and, while travelling, I met very different types of people whom I liked a lot. very open minded, educated and flexible.

now I'm back in my small hometown for a while and I befriended a few people. they can only talk about themselves and how other people did them wrong. a girl in particular F23 is the absolute worst. I tried to tolerate her since it's a small town and I want to hangout a few times. but the more time went by, the less I could keep tolerating her. I always tried to show her the positive side of things and tried to explain. she never did. at some point, when she would talk shit I would just be like yeah yeah yeah I know right. she rolled her eyes at me while talking about my ex once but she yaaaaapsssss for hourssssss about hers and forces you to listen. she disrespected my friends too once and always acts like a spoiled little brat who can't have a no for an answer.

at some point her friend F18 broke up with the boyf. she was mia while with him and now suddenly she's attached to her hip.

they started excluding me and making plans without letting me know. I used to feel super sad about it but I also am aware of the fact that they only gossip about other people and boost their own fragile ego. they actually say very very evil stuff about people and assume bad intentions from others.

we had a fallout, a dramatic event that was ALSO my fault (not only hers), but maybe i subconsciously made my part to have a reason to let go. the day after we basically ghosted each other.

now my "best friend" M26 told me to patch things up with her cause the town is small and we need company.

he's hanging out with her and her friend regularly. before this all happened he agreed with me about her ugly behaviour. now he's going to places he hates with people that have nothing in common with him so he doesn't stay alone. what do I do?

I'm writing this also to vent but how is it possible that people are so disregulated all the time? I can't wait to travel again because small town mentality is the death of logic, common sense and critical thinking skills.

I've (F26) been travelling a lot and, while travelling, I met very different types of people whom I liked a lot. very open minded, educated and flexible.

now I'm back in my small hometown for a while and I befriended a few people. they can only talk about themselves and how other people did them wrong. a girl in particular F23 is the absolute worst. I tried to tolerate her since it's a small town and I want to hangout a few times. but the more time went by, the less I could keep tolerating her. I always tried to show her the positive side of things and tried to explain. she never did. at some point, when she would talk shit I would just be like yeah yeah yeah I know right. she rolled her eyes at me while talking about my ex once but she yaaaaapsssss for hourssssss about hers and forces you to listen. she disrespected my friends too once and always acts like a spoiled little brat who can't have a no for an answer.

at some point her friend F18 broke up with the boyf. she was mia while with him and now suddenly she's attached to her hip.

they started excluding me and making plans without letting me know. I used to feel super sad about it but I also am aware of the fact that they only gossip about other people and boost their own fragile ego. they actually say very very evil stuff about people and assume bad intentions from others.

we had a fallout, a dramatic event that was ALSO my fault (not only hers), but maybe i subconsciously made my part to have a reason to let go. the day after we basically ghosted each other.

now my "best friend" M26 told me to patch things up with her cause the town is small and we need company.

he's hanging out with her and her friend regularly. before this all happened he agreed with me about her ugly behaviour. now he's going to places he hates with people that have nothing in common with him so he doesn't stay alone.

what do I do now?

I'm writing this also to vent but how is it possible that people are so disregulated all the time? I can't wait to travel again because small town mentality is the death of logic, common sense and critical thinking skills.

in both my ex relationships, my exes used to be very vocal about their celebrity crushes. now it's been years, I don't even care about them anymore but I instantly get hurt when I see those actresses on tv. is this normal?