Hi everyone, I’m from Kerala and I think I’ve lost my original birth certificate. I need a copy of it now.
What is the procedure to get another/duplicate birth certificate? Can I download it online through the Kerala government portal, or do I have to visit the local municipality/panchayat where my birth was registered?
I'm visiting Vagamon soon and will be staying at Tiyans Castle Resort. I'm currently outside India and haven't been to Vagamon before, so I'd appreciate some advice from people who have recently visited.
We'll be going by car, so how are the roads around Vagamon and particularly the approach to Tiyans Castle? Are there any steep, narrow or difficult sections that we should be prepared for? I also heard there aren't many petrol pumps in Vagamon, so where would be the best place to refuel before going up?
Also, how is Airtel network coverage around Vagamon/resorts? I need to make regular phone calls, so is the signal generally reliable?
I have a Kerala driving licence but haven't driven in Kerala for quite some time. I'm more comfortable with an automatic car, so I'm also considering taking 1–2 days of refresher driving lessons before the trip., and roughly what would it cost?
Anything else I should keep in mind for a first-time visit to Vagamon by car—weather, road conditions, things to carry, or anything that surprised you when you visited?
I’m honestly fucking tired of feeling like I’m below average at basically everything.
I’m 27, and lately it feels like there’s not a single area of my life where I feel good about myself.
I constantly compare myself to my parents’ expectations and to other people. I’m scared to talk to strangers, scared to try new things, and I feel weak and lacking confidence. Looks-wise, I worry about my hair thinning, my beard going grey, being short, and people telling me I look older than I actually am. When I’m around my cousins, everyone praises them and I just sit there listening and comparing myself.
Financially, I don’t feel successful either. And now a relationship that lasted almost 7 years is falling apart, which honestly hurts the most.
She was one of the few people in my life who made me feel genuinely loved, cared for, and important. I had someone to talk to, someone who gave me time and affection that felt specifically meant for me. Even now, when she is rude to me or disrespects me, I’m still holding on, and it hurts. And now I have to deal with the possibility of seeing her move on with someone else. My brain keeps telling me that whoever she ends up with will be better than me.
The worst part is that the relationship is known by everyone in my family. I was proud of it. I was proud that I had someone I loved and who loved me. Now I feel embarrassed that everyone knows things didn't work out.
And outside of all this, my life feels incredibly repetitive.
Work. Go home. Eat. Gym. Sleep. Repeat.
I’m not a good driver. I don't know how to swim. I don't know how to talk to people properly. I get nervous doing even basic things when other people are around. I feel like everyone else learned how to live normally and somehow I missed that part.
I know objectively that these things can probably be improved. But when you're sitting in the middle of it, it doesn't feel like a list of problems you can solve. It just feels like this is who I am.
I’m exhausted from constantly comparing myself and feeling like I’m behind everyone.
I genuinely want to know if anyone else has felt like this, especially around this age.
I’m honestly fucking tired of feeling like I’m below average at basically everything.
I’m 27, and lately it feels like there’s not a single area of my life where I feel good about myself.
I constantly compare myself to my parents’ expectations and to other people. I’m scared to talk to strangers, scared to try new things, and I feel weak and lacking confidence. Looks-wise, I worry about my hair thinning, my beard going grey, being short, and people telling me I look older than I actually am. When I’m around my cousins, everyone praises them and I just sit there listening and comparing myself.
Financially, I don’t feel successful either. And now a relationship that lasted almost 7 years is falling apart, which honestly hurts the most.
She was one of the few people in my life who made me feel genuinely loved, cared for, and important. I had someone to talk to, someone who gave me time and affection that felt specifically meant for me. Even now, when she is rude to me or disrespects me, I’m still holding on, and it hurts. And now I have to deal with the possibility of seeing her move on with someone else. My brain keeps telling me that whoever she ends up with will be better than me.
The worst part is that the relationship is known by everyone in my family. I was proud of it. I was proud that I had someone I loved and who loved me. Now I feel embarrassed that everyone knows things didn't work out.
And outside of all this, my life feels incredibly repetitive.
Work. Go home. Eat. Gym. Sleep. Repeat.
I’m not a good driver. I don't know how to swim. I don't know how to talk to people properly. I get nervous doing even basic things when other people are around. I feel like everyone else learned how to live normally and somehow I missed that part.
I know objectively that these things can probably be improved. But when you're sitting in the middle of it, it doesn't feel like a list of problems you can solve. It just feels like this is who I am.
I’m exhausted from constantly comparing myself and feeling like I’m behind everyone.
I genuinely want to know if anyone else has felt like this, especially around this age.
Planning to drive from Ernakulam → Pala → Vagamon in an automatic car. I don't have much driving experience and this will be my first long trip. cousin also will be there , so mari mari odikkum.
For those who have driven this route recently, how is the road, especially Pala → Vagamon? Any difficult sections, sharp turns, narrow roads, or places I should be extra careful?
Planning to leave EKM around 6 AM. Roughly what time can I expect to reach Vagamon if traffic is normal?
Any tips for a first-time long-distance driver would also be appreciated.
Has there ever been a moment when you realized you were below average in terms of looks?
Like, was there a specific experience or situation that made you realize it?
For me, it’s weird because some days I look in the mirror and think, “Uff, what a handsome dude 😂,” and other days I’m like, “Wtf is this?”
Especially after getting a haircut, I sometimes feel like I suddenly look way worse.
Some days my hair looks like it has really good volume and thickness, and other days it looks flat and much thinner.
The weird thing is when I look at older photos, sometimes I think, “Wow, my hair actually looked really good,” even though I remember feeling like it had no volume when I took those photos.
I recently got a haircut ,not very short, but shorter than before and now I feel like I lost a lot of hair or density. I also trimmed my beard, and I feel like when my beard is thicker, my hair somehow looks better overall.
Any one feels this way ?
Has anyone stayed at Crowne Regency, Kidangoor recently or moriah inn pala? Planning to stay there with my girlfriend and wanted to know how the rooms, staff, privacy and overall experience are. Also, are unmarried couples okay there during check-in? Also, how is the transport around there? Are buses or autos regularly available, especially towards Mar Sleeva around 6–7 PM? Any personal experience would be helpful.
I’m 26M , in GULF and my girlfriend(F26 , in India) and I have been together for around 8+ years. We recently went through a very difficult period and almost broke up, but she has now told me that she loves me and wants to have a life with me. Obviously, hearing that made me really happy.
But things don't feel the same as before, especially when it comes to communication and effort.
A couple of days ago, she said she would call me, but she didn't. I called a few times and eventually she picked up. She was studying, and we talked for a while. We even played a game together, and later she asked me to stay with her while she slept. She fell asleep while I was there, and eventually I said goodnight and left.
The next morning, she actually called me herself while she was getting ready to go to the hospital. She showed me some of her dance steps and we talked for a little while. She has dance performances coming up on the 7th and 9th, so she's been practicing a lot.
During the day I sent her a couple of funny memes and we had a short conversation, but overall WhatsApp communication has become pretty dead from her side. I'd say I'm putting in maybe 90% of the texting effort and she's putting in around 10%. She also hasn't opened some Instagram reels I sent her for almost two days, which is unusual because she used to see them much quicker.
After work, around 7:30 PM, she messaged me saying she couldn't call because she was at dance practice. I was honestly really sad because I'd been hoping to talk to her after work. I called her a few times, and she told me she would be tired after practice and would probably just go straight to bed.
I said okay and went to the gym.
I came back around 9:30 PM, showered, ate, and around 10:20 PM UAE time (almost midnight in Kerala) I messaged her goodnight. I saw the message had been delivered, so I assumed she was online. I tried calling her on Botim, but it showed that she was busy.
That's when I started overthinking.
Her parents usually sleep early, so I started wondering who she could be talking to. I kept calling, probably around 10 times, and it kept showing busy. She didn't message me either.
Eventually she called me back and told me she had been on a call with a guy I'll call YC.
According to her, YC had called because she had left her hospital the previous week and he had a doubt/question related to that. During the conversation, he started talking about his struggles at his new hospital, and the conversation just continued from there.
They ended up talking from around 10:48 PM until almost midnight.
I know YC is younger than her, and I've also seen some messages from him on Instagram that I personally felt were a little flirty. I mentioned that to her, but she said he's younger and that there is nothing like that.
What hurt me most wasn't necessarily that she talked to another guy.
It was that I had been waiting all evening hoping she would call me, and she ended up spending almost two hours talking to someone else without even telling me she was on a call.
I told her that if she had just messaged me saying, "I'm talking to someone, I'll call you later," I wouldn't have kept calling.
She said that she would have told me eventually if I hadn't called, and admitted that the situation was her mistake.
But she also told me that I need to stop behaving like this. She said she likes talking to people around her and that it's becoming frustrating for her when talking to me because she feels like I'm constantly needing reassurance.
She also said something that really hurt me: that she can live without me.
At the same time, she kept saying, "I love you, I want to live with you. What more reassurance do you need?"
Eventually she said she needed to sleep and that she would call me the next morning.
The next morning, she messaged me about an hour before she normally called. I said good morning and waited.
After about half an hour I called her. She didn't pick up.
I called again 10 minutes later. Still nothing.
Then another 5 minutes later she picked up and said she was going to the hospital and would call me later. I asked why she hadn't called when she had told me she would. She said she had bathed, had early dance practice and had to leave early.
I got emotional and asked why she had become so rude and distant.
She told me that this whole situation was frustrating for her and that she had already asked me to give her some time. She said I don't seem to understand how she feels right now.
I asked, "But what about my feelings?"
And she basically said that right now she can't keep thinking about everyone else's feelings because she's already overwhelmed and frustrated herself.
I asked if the dance was causing most of this stress, and she said yes.
So I told her:
Fine. I won't disturb you or call you until your dance performances are finished. If you need anything, I'm here.
She replied, "I'm sorry!"
And that's where things are now.
I genuinely don't know how to interpret this.
Am I being toxic here?
Am I expecting too much reassurance and communication from her, and turning my anxiety into pressure on her? Or are my feelings reasonable given the change in her effort and the late-night call with YC?
I know repeatedly calling her while she was on another call wasn't healthy, and I don't want to become controlling or suffocating. I genuinely want an outside perspective on whether my behaviour is becoming toxic, or whether I'm just struggling with anxiety after everything we've been through.
Update on my previous posts
I’m 26M , in GULF and my girlfriend(F26 , in India) and I have been together for around 8+ years. We recently went through a very difficult period and almost broke up, but she has now told me that she loves me and wants to have a life with me. Obviously, hearing that made me really happy.
But things don't feel the same as before, especially when it comes to communication and effort.
A couple of days ago, she said she would call me, but she didn't. I called a few times and eventually she picked up. She was studying, and we talked for a while. We even played a game together, and later she asked me to stay with her while she slept. She fell asleep while I was there, and eventually I said goodnight and left.
The next morning, she actually called me herself while she was getting ready to go to the hospital. She showed me some of her dance steps and we talked for a little while. She has dance performances coming up on the 7th and 9th, so she's been practicing a lot.
During the day I sent her a couple of funny memes and we had a short conversation, but overall WhatsApp communication has become pretty dead from her side. I'd say I'm putting in maybe 90% of the texting effort and she's putting in around 10%. She also hasn't opened some Instagram reels I sent her for almost two days, which is unusual because she used to see them much quicker.
After work, around 7:30 PM, she messaged me saying she couldn't call because she was at dance practice. I was honestly really sad because I'd been hoping to talk to her after work. I called her a few times, and she told me she would be tired after practice and would probably just go straight to bed.
I said okay and went to the gym.
I came back around 9:30 PM, showered, ate, and around 10:20 PM UAE time (almost midnight in Kerala) I messaged her goodnight. I saw the message had been delivered, so I assumed she was online. I tried calling her on Botim, but it showed that she was busy.
That's when I started overthinking.
Her parents usually sleep early, so I started wondering who she could be talking to. I kept calling, probably around 10 times, and it kept showing busy. She didn't message me either.
Eventually she called me back and told me she had been on a call with a guy I'll call YC.
According to her, YC had called because she had left her hospital the previous week and he had a doubt/question related to that. During the conversation, he started talking about his struggles at his new hospital, and the conversation just continued from there.
They ended up talking from around 10:48 PM until almost midnight.
I know YC is younger than her, and I've also seen some messages from him on Instagram that I personally felt were a little flirty. I mentioned that to her, but she said he's younger and that there is nothing like that.
What hurt me most wasn't necessarily that she talked to another guy.
It was that I had been waiting all evening hoping she would call me, and she ended up spending almost two hours talking to someone else without even telling me she was on a call.
I told her that if she had just messaged me saying, "I'm talking to someone, I'll call you later," I wouldn't have kept calling.
She said that she would have told me eventually if I hadn't called, and admitted that the situation was her mistake.
But she also told me that I need to stop behaving like this. She said she likes talking to people around her and that it's becoming frustrating for her when talking to me because she feels like I'm constantly needing reassurance.
She also said something that really hurt me: that she can live without me.
At the same time, she kept saying, "I love you, I want to live with you. What more reassurance do you need?"
Eventually she said she needed to sleep and that she would call me the next morning.
The next morning, she messaged me about an hour before she normally called. I said good morning and waited.
After about half an hour I called her. She didn't pick up.
I called again 10 minutes later. Still nothing.
Then another 5 minutes later she picked up and said she was going to the hospital and would call me later. I asked why she hadn't called when she had told me she would. She said she had bathed, had early dance practice and had to leave early.
I got emotional and asked why she had become so rude and distant.
She told me that this whole situation was frustrating for her and that she had already asked me to give her some time. She said I don't seem to understand how she feels right now.
I asked, "But what about my feelings?"
And she basically said that right now she can't keep thinking about everyone else's feelings because she's already overwhelmed and frustrated herself.
I asked if the dance was causing most of this stress, and she said yes.
So I told her:
Fine. I won't disturb you or call you until your dance performances are finished. If you need anything, I'm here.
She replied, "I'm sorry!"
And that's where things are now.
I genuinely don't know how to interpret this.
Am I being toxic here?
Am I expecting too much reassurance and communication from her, and turning my anxiety into pressure on her? Or are my feelings reasonable given the change in her effort and the late-night call with YC?
I know repeatedly calling her while she was on another call wasn't healthy, and I don't want to become controlling or suffocating. I genuinely want an outside perspective on whether my behaviour is becoming toxic, or whether I'm just struggling with anxiety after everything we've been through.
I’m 26M , in GULF and my girlfriend(F26 , in India) and I have been together for around 8+ years. We recently went through a very difficult period and almost broke up, but she has now told me that she loves me and wants to have a life with me. Obviously, hearing that made me really happy.
But things don't feel the same as before, especially when it comes to communication and effort.
A couple of days ago, she said she would call me, but she didn't. I called a few times and eventually she picked up. She was studying, and we talked for a while. We even played a game together, and later she asked me to stay with her while she slept. She fell asleep while I was there, and eventually I said goodnight and left.
The next morning, she actually called me herself while she was getting ready to go to the hospital. She showed me some of her dance steps and we talked for a little while. She has dance performances coming up on the 7th and 9th, so she's been practicing a lot.
During the day I sent her a couple of funny memes and we had a short conversation, but overall WhatsApp communication has become pretty dead from her side. I'd say I'm putting in maybe 90% of the texting effort and she's putting in around 10%. She also hasn't opened some Instagram reels I sent her for almost two days, which is unusual because she used to see them much quicker.
After work, around 7:30 PM, she messaged me saying she couldn't call because she was at dance practice. I was honestly really sad because I'd been hoping to talk to her after work. I called her a few times, and she told me she would be tired after practice and would probably just go straight to bed.
I said okay and went to the gym.
I came back around 9:30 PM, showered, ate, and around 10:20 PM UAE time (almost midnight in Kerala) I messaged her goodnight. I saw the message had been delivered, so I assumed she was online. I tried calling her on Botim, but it showed that she was busy.
That's when I started overthinking.
Her parents usually sleep early, so I started wondering who she could be talking to. I kept calling, probably around 10 times, and it kept showing busy. She didn't message me either.
Eventually she called me back and told me she had been on a call with a guy I'll call YC.
According to her, YC had called because she had left her hospital the previous week and he had a doubt/question related to that. During the conversation, he started talking about his struggles at his new hospital, and the conversation just continued from there.
They ended up talking from around 10:48 PM until almost midnight.
I know YC is younger than her, and I've also seen some messages from him on Instagram that I personally felt were a little flirty. I mentioned that to her, but she said he's younger and that there is nothing like that.
What hurt me most wasn't necessarily that she talked to another guy.
It was that I had been waiting all evening hoping she would call me, and she ended up spending almost two hours talking to someone else without even telling me she was on a call.
I told her that if she had just messaged me saying, "I'm talking to someone, I'll call you later," I wouldn't have kept calling.
She said that she would have told me eventually if I hadn't called, and admitted that the situation was her mistake.
But she also told me that I need to stop behaving like this. She said she likes talking to people around her and that it's becoming frustrating for her when talking to me because she feels like I'm constantly needing reassurance.
She also said something that really hurt me: that she can live without me.
At the same time, she kept saying, "I love you, I want to live with you. What more reassurance do you need?"
Eventually she said she needed to sleep and that she would call me the next morning.
The next morning, she messaged me about an hour before she normally called. I said good morning and waited.
After about half an hour I called her. She didn't pick up.
I called again 10 minutes later. Still nothing.
Then another 5 minutes later she picked up and said she was going to the hospital and would call me later. I asked why she hadn't called when she had told me she would. She said she had bathed, had early dance practice and had to leave early.
I got emotional and asked why she had become so rude and distant.
She told me that this whole situation was frustrating for her and that she had already asked me to give her some time. She said I don't seem to understand how she feels right now.
I asked, "But what about my feelings?"
And she basically said that right now she can't keep thinking about everyone else's feelings because she's already overwhelmed and frustrated herself.
I asked if the dance was causing most of this stress, and she said yes.
So I told her:
Fine. I won't disturb you or call you until your dance performances are finished. If you need anything, I'm here.
She replied, "I'm sorry!"
And that's where things are now.
I genuinely don't know how to interpret this.
Am I being toxic here?
Am I expecting too much reassurance and communication from her, and turning my anxiety into pressure on her? Or are my feelings reasonable given the change in her effort and the late-night call with YC?
I know repeatedly calling her while she was on another call wasn't healthy, and I don't want to become controlling or suffocating. I genuinely want an outside perspective on whether my behaviour is becoming toxic, or whether I'm just struggling with anxiety after everything we've been through.
Update on my previous posts
I’m 26M , in GULF and my girlfriend(F26 , in kerala) and I have been together for around 8+ years. We recently went through a very difficult period and almost broke up, but she has now told me that she loves me and wants to have a life with me. Obviously, hearing that made me really happy.
But things don't feel the same as before, especially when it comes to communication and effort.
A couple of days ago, she said she would call me, but she didn't. I called a few times and eventually she picked up. She was studying, and we talked for a while. We even played a game together, and later she asked me to stay with her while she slept. She fell asleep while I was there, and eventually I said goodnight and left.
The next morning, she actually called me herself while she was getting ready to go to the hospital. She showed me some of her dance steps and we talked for a little while. She has dance performances coming up on the 7th and 9th, so she's been practicing a lot.
During the day I sent her a couple of funny memes and we had a short conversation, but overall WhatsApp communication has become pretty dead from her side. I'd say I'm putting in maybe 90% of the texting effort and she's putting in around 10%. She also hasn't opened some Instagram reels I sent her for almost two days, which is unusual because she used to see them much quicker.
After work, around 7:30 PM, she messaged me saying she couldn't call because she was at dance practice. I was honestly really sad because I'd been hoping to talk to her after work. I called her a few times, and she told me she would be tired after practice and would probably just go straight to bed.
I said okay and went to the gym.
I came back around 9:30 PM, showered, ate, and around 10:20 PM UAE time (almost midnight in Kerala) I messaged her goodnight. I saw the message had been delivered, so I assumed she was online. I tried calling her on Botim, but it showed that she was busy.
That's when I started overthinking.
Her parents usually sleep early, so I started wondering who she could be talking to. I kept calling, probably around 10 times, and it kept showing busy. She didn't message me either.
Eventually she called me back and told me she had been on a call with a guy I'll call YC.
According to her, YC had called because she had left her hospital the previous week and he had a doubt/question related to that. During the conversation, he started talking about his struggles at his new hospital, and the conversation just continued from there.
They ended up talking from around 10:48 PM until almost midnight.
I know YC is younger than her, and I've also seen some messages from him on Instagram that I personally felt were a little flirty. I mentioned that to her, but she said he's younger and that there is nothing like that.
What hurt me most wasn't necessarily that she talked to another guy.
It was that I had been waiting all evening hoping she would call me, and she ended up spending almost two hours talking to someone else without even telling me she was on a call.
I told her that if she had just messaged me saying, "I'm talking to someone, I'll call you later," I wouldn't have kept calling.
She said that she would have told me eventually if I hadn't called, and admitted that the situation was her mistake.
But she also told me that I need to stop behaving like this. She said she likes talking to people around her and that it's becoming frustrating for her when talking to me because she feels like I'm constantly needing reassurance.
She also said something that really hurt me: that she can live without me.
At the same time, she kept saying, "I love you, I want to live with you. What more reassurance do you need?"
Eventually she said she needed to sleep and that she would call me the next morning.
The next morning, she messaged me about an hour before she normally called. I said good morning and waited.
After about half an hour I called her. She didn't pick up.
I called again 10 minutes later. Still nothing.
Then another 5 minutes later she picked up and said she was going to the hospital and would call me later. I asked why she hadn't called when she had told me she would. She said she had bathed, had early dance practice and had to leave early.
I got emotional and asked why she had become so rude and distant.
She told me that this whole situation was frustrating for her and that she had already asked me to give her some time. She said I don't seem to understand how she feels right now.
I asked, "But what about my feelings?"
And she basically said that right now she can't keep thinking about everyone else's feelings because she's already overwhelmed and frustrated herself.
I asked if the dance was causing most of this stress, and she said yes.
So I told her:
Fine. I won't disturb you or call you until your dance performances are finished. If you need anything, I'm here.
She replied, "I'm sorry!"
And that's where things are now.
I genuinely don't know how to interpret this.
Am I being toxic here?
Am I expecting too much reassurance and communication from her, and turning my anxiety into pressure on her? Or are my feelings reasonable given the change in her effort and the late-night call with YC?
I know repeatedly calling her while she was on another call wasn't healthy, and I don't want to become controlling or suffocating. I genuinely want an outside perspective on whether my behaviour is becoming toxic, or whether I'm just struggling with anxiety after everything we've been through.
Who was the better player, who will be remembered as the bigger legend, and who will be closer to the all-time GOAT debate?
Hi everyone, I’m coming to Pala near Mar Sleeva Hospital and wanted to know if there are any good couple-friendly hotels or rooms nearby. Looking for somewhere clean, safe, private and comfortable, preferably close to the hospital. Budget is around ₹2,000–₹4,000 per night. If you’ve stayed somewhere good nearby, please recommend.
One of the things that scares me the most about us actually breaking up is knowing that one day she might give someone else everything she once gave me.
The way she used to look at me and smile. The way she hugged me, kissed me, cared for me, and made me feel loved. And also the physical intimacy we shared , all those private moments that felt like they belonged only to us.
I know logically that if we break up, she has every right to move on and eventually share those things with someone else. I know I can't control that.
But emotionally, the thought of another guy experiencing the same affection, closeness and physical intimacy that I had with her genuinely breaks my heart.
Maybe what hurts the most is that these things felt so deeply personal and special because they were ours. And now I'm scared that one day someone else will experience those same parts of her that I thought were uniquely mine.
How do you accept the thought of your ex sharing the love and intimacy you had with someone else?
One of the things that scares me the most about us actually breaking up is knowing that one day she might give someone else everything she once gave me.
The way she used to look at me and smile. The way she hugged me, kissed me, cared for me, and made me feel loved. And also the physical intimacy we shared , all those private moments that felt like they belonged only to us.
I know logically that if we break up, she has every right to move on and eventually share those things with someone else. I know I can't control that.
But emotionally, the thought of another guy experiencing the same affection, closeness and physical intimacy that I had with her genuinely breaks my heart.
Maybe what hurts the most is that these things felt so deeply personal and special because they were ours. And now I'm scared that one day someone else will experience those same parts of her that I thought were uniquely mine.
How do you accept the thought of your ex sharing the love and intimacy you had with someone else?
My family operates two established ladies' salons in the UAE. One has been running for 20+ years and the other for around 6 years.
We're currently looking for an investor who could come into the business, help restructure our existing financial obligations, and potentially support further growth/expansion.
I don't have much experience with finding investors or how these types of partnerships normally work.
For people familiar with the UAE business scene, where would be the best places to look for genuine investors?
Who was the better player, who will be remembered as the bigger legend, and who will be closer to the all-time GOAT debate?
For context, we’ve been together for around 8 years, but things became complicated because of financial issues and her parents not accepting the relationship/marriage situation.
I asked her directly, “Do you still have feelings for me?”
She replied, “I need some time to answer that.”
Now I’m honestly curious and a little tense about what her answer will be 😅 But I guess I’ll have to wait and accept whatever answer she gives.
Especially girls, what do you think this kind of reply usually means?
I feel like there’s so much advice, content, etc. online about how to get over a breakup with someone who cheated on you, or lied to you, or didn’t treat you well, but I’m finding it hard to find advice on how to get over someone that treated you well?
With no mistreatment or lack of effort you can point to, how do you get over someone that treated you well? Better than “well” even.
