u/Global_Fennel_7933

I cant do bench press, incline bench press or decline bench press
none of it
also i have tried them with dumbells, that also i cant i have tried different grips, hand position, different movements
researched entire internet for the form but every time it either comes on shoulders or triceps
so i have figured out, i can do them on cables, i can do them perfectly with good form and good pump
cable press, cable decline press, cable low to high fly

i’m a 30 year old guy currently living in a tier 2 city in Haryana and my work is fully remote/online, so technically i can shift anywhere. i’ve spent almost my entire life here (close to 30 years now) and lately i’ve been seriously thinking about moving permanently to Jaipur.

my biggest reason honestly is property prices here. they’ve become absolutely insane. Even in non-premium, basic areas, rates are around ₹40,000 per sqft. A simple small house (nothing fancy) easily costs 4 crores. It feels completely absurd. from whatever i’ve seen online, Jaipur seems way more affordable in comparison.

second reason is infrastructure, and from what i’ve heard roads, civic sense and infrastructure are very good.

and third reason is honestly more personal. after living in Haryana for so long, i’m kinda tired of the constant hyper aggressive “ready to fight over anything” vibe that’s common here. I am sick of these wannabe gangsters. obviously not everyone is like that, but it’s common enough that i am exhausted of it. i’ve heard people in Jaipur are comparatively calmer, more polite and easier to deal with, and that really appeals to me for long term living.

but i also know it’s easy to romanticize a city from the outside. so i wanted honest opinions from people who actually live there. am i seeing Jaipur through rose tinted glasses? what are the actual downsides? traffic? weather? water issues? social life? making friends as an outsider? and lastly — how welcoming is Jaipur to someone from Haryana?

would genuinely appreciate honest feedback before making a huge decision like this 🙏

i’m a 30 year old guy currently living in a tier 2 city in Haryana and my work is fully remote/online, so technically i can shift anywhere. i’ve spent almost my entire life here (close to 30 years now) and lately i’ve been seriously thinking about moving permanently to Indore. my biggest reason honestly is property prices here.

they’ve become absolutely insane. Even in non-premium, basic areas, rates are around ₹40,000 per sqft. A simple small house (nothing fancy) easily costs 4 crores. It feels completely absurd. from whatever i’ve seen online, Indore seems way more affordable in comparison.

second reason is cleanliness/infrastructure. being called the cleanest city repeatedly is massive, and from what i’ve heard roads, civic sense and general infrastructure are pretty decent too.

and third reason is honestly more personal. after living in Haryana for so long, i’m kinda tired of the constant hyper aggressive “ready to fight over anything” vibe that’s common here. I am sick of these wannabe gangsters. obviously not everyone is like that, but it’s common enough that i am exhausted of it. i’ve heard people in Indore are comparatively calmer, more polite and easier to deal with, and that really appeals to me for long term living.

but i also know it’s easy to romanticize a city from the outside. so i wanted honest opinions from people who actually live there. am i seeing Indore through rose tinted glasses? what are the actual downsides? traffic? weather? water issues? social life? making friends as an outsider? and lastly — how welcoming is Indore to someone from north india/Haryana?

would genuinely appreciate honest feedback before making a huge decision like this 🙏